Some people want to get help from others, but they don t want to appreciate what kind of psychology

This kind of person is generally more proud, feels that others should take the initiative to help him, and sees the help of others as a kind of flattery.

In fact, such a person just doesn't want to owe others favors, and then wants to get help from others, there is a sense of contradiction psychologically, and such a person is very selfish.

In this way, a person feels that he should help him, and does not want to feel that others should owe him a favor if they help him.

Let me tell you a story: There is an apprentice who learned to be a master.

After the Zhi department, he has been working in the factory for a long time, but DAO has never been taken seriously, in fact, his level has reached the level of his master, and he is very depressed! Asked his master for advice, and his master gave him an idea to take a few days off, and after he took a few days off, the factory found that many things could not be done without him! He's taken seriously!

So, take a few days off from your relationship, leave for a while, and come back, and you may find something different! After all, rely on separation!

Because you're meeting idiots. They don't know what's good about you at all, they don't know what's good and what's bad. And maybe they haven't been treated well by others, don't believe that anyone will be good to them, and don't believe that there are good people in the world.

Only people who are smart, kind, and mentally healthy are better able to understand the kindness of others.

I would have turned my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shone on the ditch. The ancients were still like that, not to mention.

Very annoyed. In fact, it is not up to us to decide how the other party responds, we can only adjust ourselves. We are all accustomed to treating others in the way we think are good, and we don't understand the real needs of others, so there are all kinds of misunderstandings. What do you think?

Some people do a lot of foreshadowing when they are ready to borrow money before they talk about it. Such a person usually speaks in a more peaceful way and has a personality, and does not belong to a sharp character.

There are also some people who are ready to borrow money from you, and they will directly ask you to borrow money. This type of person generally has a more straightforward personality.

Regardless of the mentality and personality, I personally think it is better not to borrow money easily. Whether you're lending money to someone else or you're borrowing money from someone else, it's easy to break this balance between the two. The boat of friendship is easy to overturn!

Borrowing money is something that everyone can encounter in life, but some people will often refuse you euphemistically, while some people will borrow money for you without saying a word, these people are worthy of your cherishment, and they want you to live a better life to solve your urgent needs. However, when you have money, you must return it in time.

Yes. Some people borrow money and never pay it back, but when they borrow money, they perform like a thousand dao and cry poor. Some people who borrow money from others feel sinful, and they will never borrow it as a last resort.

I borrowed it and paid it back as soon as I had the money. The latter is not very good, the latter is a cautious and sensitive type, and he is very worried about bringing a burden to others.

Personally, I don't think this can be reflected at all, if you have money, you don't need to borrow money, what do you think of his character and mentality?

And on what basis can you judge the person who borrowed the money? Some people really have no way, if they don't borrow money, they may leave lifelong regrets, shouldn't you borrow money for them? Although some people, when they are short of money, habitually borrow money from others, but this is still a part and cannot represent all, after all, who does not have a difficulty?

This has nothing to do with mentality and personality at all, so I don't think you can tell a person's mentality and character from borrowing money.

Personal opinion can be seen in three points: 1Borrow money.

The purpose of borrowing money is for emergency or enjoyment. If it is for the latter, at least it shows that the person is in a bad state of mind.

2. Attitude and punctuality of repayment. If the borrower has a breach of contract (a verbal promise is counted), the person is in danger, at least the integrity is greatly discounted.

3. Who does the borrower borrow money from, relatives, colleagues, classmates (strangers directly exclude who borrows who has a brain in the water), if you are just a colleague who has known you for a few months and is not familiar with it, classmates borrow money from you, especially large amounts. Then you can be careful, this person's personality and mentality are extremely poor, unless you have to have a long-term relationship, it will be a short pain, otherwise it is easy to lose money and people.

For this matter, I feel that everyone has their own opinions, and I can also see the sincerity of individuals from these aspects, one, some people are indeed short of money. And to borrow money from others.

Two. And this kind of person, he is not short of money. It's just that my regular money is gone. And to borrow someone else's money. Three. For the second type of people. I'm definitely not going to be borrowing from him. √'

Hello: It is possible to see a person's mentality and character.

1: Some people will pave the way when they open their mouths to try to improve the mood of the borrower, so as to improve the success rate of borrowing. This kind of person usually speaks in a calmer way and has a personality, and does not belong to a sharp personality.

2: Some people will directly offer to borrow, most of them are friends. This kind of person has a more straightforward personality, and when he needs help in the later stage, he can basically complete it with just one sentence. (Of course, nothing is absolute).

I have introduced these two kinds above, from the point of view of borrowing money, it is easier to make friends, but the premise is that it is not difficult to borrow and borrow again, and it is better to borrow less between friends.

Of course, borrowing money can be seen a little bit about a person's character, but it does not mean that the person who borrows money is a bad character. If it's really a friend who is in trouble and borrows money from me, I'll definitely help. Some people only lend you money because of February, and they can't pay the interest they want or something like that.

But sometimes it's better to borrow less. Before borrowing money, they were good friends, and after borrowing money, they were enemies, so don't mention money when you go any way, this is what I said.

No, you really need to be cautious when borrowing money, even if it's a good friend.

If you don't see everything, at least see some, because you have to talk about a variety of behaviors and behaviors, and the focus is on what you know about the person.

Yes, people who keep their promises will make a note and take the initiative to exchange money; Those who have the intention to cheat will open their mouths widely, and they can deceive as much as they want. If you want to lend money to someone, you must consider the person's character and ability to repay.

From borrowing money, you can see a person's mentality and character.

People who lend money to others are equivalent to a trusting mentality.

People who care about others borrowing money are equivalent to a helplessness.

It is a responsibility for those who repay the money on time.

A person who refuses to borrow money is a duty.

Don't take borrowed money to become the norm.

If he has been thinking about this after borrowing, and he will pay you back as soon as he has the money, it means that he is a person who can be paid.

Yes. People who don't borrow money are the kind of sane people. People who often borrow money lack ideals in life.

Your question is a bit ambiguous, is it the borrower or the payer? The person who borrows money will inevitably borrow money when he encounters difficulties, so that borrowing well also proves that this person keeps his word and is honest! If the borrowed person has money and does not borrow, it is possible that he really has no money or feels that he can't make a friendship, etc.!

Anyway, you can't fully see the character.

Not all of them will be seen, but at least you will gradually get to know each other in the process of borrowing and repaying money.

Divided into scenes, objects, and feelings. But for proposing this borrowing money, you have to think about it first, and you must not end up with no money borrowed and no friendship.

Yes, most people have self-esteem and will not easily borrow money from others, unless they are helpless, so people who often open their mouths to borrow money from others do not have much self-esteem, and it will be difficult to get money back if they lend them money easily.

So to speak. It can also see the long-term vision of a person.

Yes, it is the best reflection of a person's character and qualities in terms of interests.

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The study of psychological phenomena, revealing the laws of psychology, naturally, has an effect on learning and life, as the name suggests, psychology is the science of studying psychological phenomena, also known as "psychological science".Psychological phenomena are the object of study in psychology. The study of psychological phenomena in psychology is to reveal the objective laws of the occurrence and development of psychological phenomena and to guide people's practical activities.

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I don't know. Physiology is two sides anyway.