Two people are in love, my girlfriend wants to be approved by my parents, is it really that importan

Marriage is like this, the current domestic marriage is very important to the parents of the two parties, if one of the two parties is not willing to cooperate with your marriage, it is indeed a problem, of course, the person who must love each other is the two of you, as long as you work harder, the problem of impressing her family does not exist, but many times, it is not so simple, I hope you love her can be well connected with her family, as long as you are truly in love, I believe that God will not let you separate again because of something, you will go abroad in the future, her family may not be optimistic, because in many examples, men who go abroad can generally have good prospects, and in the country their own engagement, on the contrary, most of them make exceptions, of course, I believe that you are not such a person, if it is you, you don't have to worry about it, friends go to her home, this year is going to the Spring Festival again, by the way, maybe there will be unexpected gains are also possible, May there be a lot of affection that can finally come together!

She is afraid that you will leave, so she said this, your parents don't like her, it is already a blow to her, a big blow, but you still have to go abroad, think about it, will she think that this going abroad is an excuse for you to dump her, even if it is not a look, you know.

You should work together to win the old man's love and understanding, her idea is still right, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a union of two families, after all, marriage without the blessing of the family is always a pity.

Of course, girls are not the same as boys. Boys will feel that everything doesn't matter as long as they love each other, while girls prefer to be happy in the blessings of each other's parents.

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In fact, from the point of view of the problem, Xiaobei feels that if the relationship between two people is good enough, and the parents can make suggestions on the marriage and feelings of their children at most, rather than affecting the marriage of their children.

Regarding the fact that "his girlfriend's parents are demanding and even harsh", Xiaobei feels that it is not too much.

First of all, parents must want their children to be happy, and as people who have come from the past, they naturally have to "assess" their children's partners.

For example, if the future in-laws are demanding of their girlfriends, even to the point of being harsh, do you think your parents are too much for you as a son? Xiaobei thinks that it may not be, because you will subconsciously answer that your parents are for your good, so they are very demanding of your girlfriend.

In the same way, your girlfriend's parents are very demanding of you, just hoping to see your success or self-motivation. As long as you can give their daughters happiness, no matter how hard they are, I don't think they will stop your relationship.

Secondly, Xiaobei thinks that you can have a good exchange with your girlfriend about the opinions of your girlfriend's parents and ask your girlfriend what her parents mean. Do you have to meet certain material requirements, or do you need to excel in other things?

Maybe you don't know her parents, but she grew up with her parents, and her parents understand her, so she naturally understands what her parents mean. Even if she doesn't understand, she has good communication conditions with her parents, doesn't she?

In fact, the most important thing for whether the relationship can lead to marriage depends on whether you love each other enough, trust each other enough, whether you can bear each other's future, whether you can support and respect each other, and understand each other.

Marriage is not as simple as falling in love, and marriage involves too many things, not only emotional things, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage. So, if you can be sure that the relationship between you and your girlfriend is strong enough and you trust each other enough, then your relationship can lead to marriage.

The final decision on the relationship between two people is still in their own hands.

No matter how high her parents' requirements are, you can give their daughters a stable life and heavy happiness, as long as your girlfriend is willing, Xiaobei feels that today's parents should not be so strong that they will still ask for their children's marriages according to the "words of the parents' order matchmaker" decades ago.

So, don't be discouraged and try to discuss with your girlfriend to get things in the best direction. Finally, I sincerely wish you all the best to be able to enter into marriage and be happy for a lifetime.

I think it's okay to get married, anyway, we don't live together after getting married, and we just have to reduce the interaction in life.

It's mainly up to you, as long as you are good to each other's girls, you will have a chance to go to the end together.

Of course, this kind of love can lead to marriage, but it is necessary to involve the other party's parents less.

I think it's possible to get married, but whether you're happy in the future depends on the two of you.

I think as long as two people really love each other, they can enter the palace of marriage.

When your girlfriend loves you very much, but your girlfriend's parents will be very strict with yourself, and even have stricter requirements, this kind of love is to look at yourself, but you work hard enough to struggleis enough to make yourself better for this relationship, then you will be happy after all together, so that each other's parents will also look up to you and bless you, and your future life will be happier and happier.

So in many cases, a man should bear the most in this relationship, because he should not only love his woman very much, but also work hard for the family, work hard to make money, and support everything for the family, and when the sky falls, he must go up first. I don't make my girlfriend feel like it's hard because everything has a man. So in the relationship, you must make that woman feel that the world is all men supporting her.

So more often, you should believe that your relationship is so strong, and you will not give up because of some small things because of some difficulties, so you should give everything for this relationship, or work hard for this relationship, so that your girlfriend I feel very happy, and don't let your girlfriend feel disappointed. That's why she will take away her parents' consent and her parents' support. In this way, your relationship will be happy in the future.

So more often it depends on how hard you work and how you make yourself good enough to win the support and encouragement of your girlfriend's parents. Because when you work hard enough to make you good enough, your girlfriend's parents will trust their daughter to youThat way, you will also be happy together, and your girlfriend will see that you are also working hard for the relationship. Make yourself better, and your girlfriend will feel happier in the future.

This needs to depend on what the situation looks like.

And if you think that this contradiction is irreconcilable, then I think out of love for your parents, you need to re-examine this love, after all, our parents raised us, and they don't want anything in return, but they don't want to get some resentment from us, which is a lot of harm to your parents, and to yourself.

If this kind of hurt can be mitigated or even mediated over time, or the understanding of both parties can be mitigated or even mediated, then I think you have to look at the attitude and right and wrong of both of them, at this time you are one of the main mediating tools, you can make a good impression on both sides through words or something, if the younger generation is more wrong, then I think, you need to consider whether this daughter-in-law of your parents really has the ability to give you happiness and give your children happiness. If your parents are more wrong, I think you can continue to love, comfort your girlfriend, let her understand why your parents are like this, and put yourself in their shoes.

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In short, I hope you can be happy, after all, love and family affection are lifelong treasures.

It depends on how hard you try.

Of course, you can go on and it's up to you, and if you have an opinion, you ask if you can continue. I said that you are a big man, and you don't have any ideas of your own. Originally, family conflicts are normal, and you immediately think about whether you can continue, what do you say, incompetent?

Parents may take their own experiences.

Admonish your children. Hope sons and daughters.

All have a chance. Complete them.

There is no wish to fulfill.

Don't care.

One day when you.

When I became a parent.

You may suddenly realize.

And that is.

From time to time let them.

Learn about the strengths in you.

Rest assured that I will hand over my daughter to you.

A lot of the time. There is a love without a part.

I hope you can cherish each other.

I also hope that your love will come to fruition.

Regardless of the ending. At least when you are in love, you have invested in each other.

It's good to fall in love. A lot of things are not so easy to get.

That's up to you, a good boyfriend, a good son, in this case is to find a way to make the two parties get along well, as for what way, you can think about it, buy some things to give to your girlfriend or parents, just say that the other party bought it, because the preference is only known to you, I believe it will ease slowly, you can also think of some other ways. If the two parties get along, you won't be so tired.

First of all, you have to be together for a while, so that both parties can fit in.

Secondly, it is conducive to the development of future careers, and whoever is likely to grow the fastest income needs to be accommodating.

When you have been together for a while, you have an understanding of each other and a career. You can consider getting married.

Plans for marriage, childbirth, and how to integrate it with career development, who will be responsible for what, all need to be planned.

All of this is done, and I wish you all happiness!

See if you can do a good job in your career, whether the conditions are good or not is only secondary, the key is that you try to plan for your future, try to communicate with her parents as much as possible, and let them have a preliminary impression first.

Then work harder on your work and let them see your progress, it's nothing more than a matter of money, as long as you make enough money, I think they will accept you.

Parents should be dissatisfied with your distrust, first find the reason from yourself, to know which parents in the world do not love their children, find a way to improve her parents' trust and satisfaction with you, let them know that you really like their daughter, really want to love and cherish their baby daughter for them, to the center is to get their trust.

If you are self-sufficient, you can do as much as you want, and if you still have to rely on your parents, you need to think about it seriously.

It's good that my girlfriend is firm, but if my girlfriend is not firm and decisively dispersed, believe me and be right.

Parents oppose you, naturally it is your own problem that makes them unhappy, first of all, you need to know what the problem is and then prescribe the right medicine. For example: house, job, personality, etc., many factors.

I don't want to mislead people, my brother made my sister-in-law pregnant, don't say what I said.

As long as your girlfriend loves you. There are five words floating in the sky, and nothing matters. Or don't cut it first and then play it.

You don't live with your parents, you can be together.

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