After living with my boyfriend for a year, my parents kept asking if I was in good health.

Updated on educate 2024-06-12
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    On the one hand, parents are worried about your physical health, on the other hand, they may also be worried that you will get pregnant in the process of living with your boyfriend, after all, you and your boyfriend are both young people, and some things your parents are from here, and you know more than you, especially for girls, pregnancy is a big deal, and you can't be sloppy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe it's because you're worried that you're doing something harmful because you don't want to have children. For example, abortion, taking contraceptive pills, etc., but it is not easy to say directly, so I have to ask you in an indirect way, also because I care, but Chinese parents still can't speak up about gender relations.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After living with your boyfriend for a year, your parents keep asking you if you are in good health, meaning they want to ask you if you are pregnant and see if you can get pregnant.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Parents can not let go of their children forever, you and your boyfriend have been living together for a year, you have to think of entering the time to talk about marriage, parents are worried that you are a girl, afraid that you will suffer, what if you have a baby, although you are already an adult, know how to deal with things, but in the eyes of parents, you will always be their children, so if you don't want your parents to worry, you must make proper arrangements, don't let them worry about you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because your parents are worried that you and your boyfriend are not in moderation, hurt your body, or take measures that are not done well, you always go to **, and it hurts your body even more, I wish you good luck.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's what your parents ask you.

    It's because you're not with them.

    They are concerned about you, afraid that you are not healthy or have something difficult to do.

    That's what parents mean.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After you live together, you should know whether your boyfriend usually likes to exercise, run, or go to the gym. There is no such thing as a cold or fever. Your parents are afraid that he will not be able to take care of your life in the future if he is not in good health.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What they mean is that you are pregnant or not, and you have been living together for a year.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I hope you have a baby soon.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It should be to ask if you are pregnant.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ask the man if he can do that.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Is it okay to look at this man? If it doesn't work, replace him, don't waste time!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You and your boyfriend have been living together for a year, and your parents know about it, and ask you if your physical condition is good, which means that you have been pregnant, have you had a baby, and how is your physical condition, but your parents are not good to ask this kind of thing directly, so they have to ask you if you are in good health.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Are you just worried about your pregnancy?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Luo Lou girl is very cute, afraid of wedding buttons.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    <>I think if you tell your parents that you have a partner, they will understand. Since we are together, it is natural to live together.

    Your parents have come through your stage, and if you tell them that you have a partner, they will naturally understand all this. If you are asked if you are living together, you should also talk about the facts according to the actual situation, and there is no need to hide it. Later, you may be asked to bring that person to your home to sit down and help with the inspection.

    Many scumbag girls are young and often at a loss, and it doesn't take long for them to fall in the face of various fierce offensives of scumbags. Parents, as guardians, need to be aware of their children's various situations. Cohabitation is such a major event that naturally cannot be hidden, and if something happens, you can only bear the consequences if you don't inform your parents.

    There is also a process from falling in love to living together, that is, you must meet the parents of both parties and have a basic understanding of each other. The man's parents need to know whether the girl is suitable for life; The woman's parents should know whether the boy has a stable job and be careful and responsible.

    Nowadays, people are not so casual, and how many people who are in love have lived together without seeing their parents? I believe that there are very few, and your parents will never harm you. If your other half is really not suitable, you will also persuade you, more or less listen to your parents, don't insist on going your own way.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Living with your boyfriend is to let your parents know, and living together is an issue that needs to be paid more attention to. It's actually a good thing to let your parents know, because they have more experience, and young people are more impulsive and do things recklessly, which is more dangerous. Parents will have more experience and insight than young people, and they know what to do and what not to do.

    Maybe you don't feel so guilty about doing these things when you're young, but when you do it later, you will slowly regret why you were so impulsive in the first place. Living with hail is a big thing, and there are a lot of problems when living together, which is something we need to pay attention to.

    Cohabitation is very attractive to young couples, because when two people live together, they can spend a lot of time together, and they may not be able to stay together often due to curriculum factors and other factors when they are in school, and cohabitation is not to worry about this problem. Of course, cohabitation also needs to pay attention to some issues, such as safety issues, which include security in various senses. When two people live together, you need to pay attention to some of the most basic life safety such as fire prevention and theft prevention.

    Therefore, when living with your boyfriend, you have to explain it to your parents, and ordinary parents may not object, but they also want their children to pay attention to the safety stool, so as not to cause some bad things to happen. If the parents are really unwilling, then they need to ask the reason, after all, parents will feel sorry for their child, afraid that he will be wronged or something, which is human nature. Of course, it is better to avoid cohabitation, which is not a particularly sensible feeling for young people, and in many cases distance produces beauty.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's an ordinary parent, the first thing must be to bring it home and break your leg!

    Really, without exaggeration. Because in the concept of many parents, how can a good girl live with someone else without getting married?

    They are the ideas of the older generation, very conservative and very old-fashioned. They think that girls should love and cherish themselves, and they must not mess around before they get married.

    Moreover, the parents of the older generation are all anxious children, if their daughters really live with others, it is estimated that they will not be slowly reasonable, and will only use scolding words to force the children to separate.

    Some parents will take the time to reason with their children so that they can understand the stakes. However, there are fewer parents like that, and more of them are scolded first. When they are angry, wait until the next day, they will sit down and reason with you.

    Sometimes, they feel that they are not strong enough to make sense. I will call some relatives to help persuade them.

    I don't know if I go to my boyfriend's house to make a big fuss, because I think it's a boy who cheated his daughter away, so I have to come to the door to ask for an explanation, and it will make it ugly. After such a fuss, probably two people can't talk about it, and they can only break up in the end.

    This is the experience of a girl in my next-door neighbor, whose parents knew that she secretly went out to live with her boyfriend, and it was really the whole building that made a fuss. Our neighbors went to their house that day to persuade her, and she insisted that she would beat this disgraceful daughter to death.

    In fact, we can understand the mentality of parents. The daughter who was raised by herself with hard work lived with someone else without a name or a point. What I am afraid of is that my future in-laws will look down on their daughter, and they will have to suffer in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This thing is definitely not willing for the girl's parents, of course they want you to get married first, and having a daughter is really too worrying, I hope you can understand their feelings, it's all for your good.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Parents will really be very angry and angry when they know that you live with your boyfriend, and a girl doesn't know how to take good care of herself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on how old you are? Whether the mind is mature or not. If you graduated from college, I don't think it's a problem, who hasn't been young. If you're still in high school, take a break from cooking as soon as possible! Parents are busy day by day, and you are responsible for reading a book and reassuring them!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think parents should be very worried, afraid that the boy will not be able to give you a future, and that you will be hurt.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    At first, I disagreed, but after seeing my boyfriend's performance, I still agreed.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I must have gotten myself home first, beaten up, and asked how you were doing.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Parents should agree, I guess they should be very happy, this old girl is finally about to get married.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Shocked, and very opposed, after all, two boys together is fruitless.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is estimated that it will be a little hot, and I always feel that I am not so self-loving and self-respecting.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At first, I will definitely be angry and not understand, and then I should be uneasy, but as I get in touch for a long time, I will be relieved!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When my parents found out that I was living with my boyfriend, they would say that I must take care of myself if I can't get into the marriage hall.

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