How to be flexible in the world? How can we live in harmony?

In today's society, we have to look at the rules on the one hand, and the human feelings on the other. If you can reasonably grasp the rules and human feelings, and play with the rules and human feelings, then you will be able to be harmonious and flexible.

This statement is actually very easy to understand, just take what happened to me in the company.

Our company is doing real estate promotion, I am in the company's human resources department, at the beginning of each month to count the attendance of the entire company, and some people in our company need to work overtime, sometimes they may have to stay overnight, but after a period of overtime, some people may not be able to stand it, and then there will be a few minutes or half an hour of lateness, but this is generally handled as appropriate, and the salary can not be deducted basically without deduction.

If the system is still hard at this time, then the company's employees should be so chilled, people work overtime so late every day, overtime has not been paid overtime, and then the salary is deducted, who wants to work in this company.

And this time it snowed, and it was quite heavy, so those who were late for the past two days were not counted as attendance.

But there are some rules that still have to be followed, for example, you can't say that it won't come when it snows, so it's still not okay, and the company is not charitable, looking for you to come over, and paying you a salary is to let you work, no rules are not a circle, so if you want to be smooth, you must master the rules and give favors in a timely manner.

If you want to be able to mix in this world, you have to abide by certain rules, we have to learn to be a man, and it is actually not easy to be a man, because you can't make so many people satisfied, you can only be as flexible as possible, and try to do your best.

First of all, you must be sincere enough to get along with people, don't be too arrogant, no one likes people who are too arrogant, so stay humble, even if you do a good job, you have to be like this, in fact, you have to look at each other when communicating with people, don't look too indifferent, this will make others feel that you don't respect others at all, and secondly, you must learn to listen, learn to speak, speaking is also an art, you must know how to speak, be good at praising others, you can be very popular with everyone, you praise others, not only others will be happy, You will be happy yourself, why not, and the second is to maintain your inherent temperament, and show your own temperament and unique approach to everything you do.

Secondly, be good at helping others, helping others is equivalent to helping yourself, be good at showing weakness, don't be too strong.

Standing on the top of the mountain, you will feel that everything under your eyes is so small; But at the same time, you are also small in the eyes of others. The so-called high place is not cold, and this is exactly the truth!

Human beings are social animals, and remember not to isolate themselves. "It will be the top of the mountain, and it is a kind of courage to learn from the strengths of all families.

How many times have I missed an opportunity because of my own paranoia, and how many people have been able to talk to me heartily, if you think about it, it's not that others have a relationship, the reason is just yourself. Now that time has passed, people are no longer ignorant of the world in the past, and many philosophies and methods of dealing with the world have also been appreciated. So being a man and doing things are no longer as stupid as before.

People, in the process of doing things and being a person constantly improving, continuous development, life is a one-way trip, there is no opportunity to rehearse, only to do everything well, will not leave the opportunity to regret.

The philosophy of melting and melting is what I have summed up by myself. Melt, melt with others, melt yourself, do not despise, do not despise, only melt, melt, can be harmonious.

Concentrate on goodness and have no quarrel with the world.

Be confused when you should be confused, and understand when you should understand.