Should girls go to college far from home?

You have to think about your future, if you have a high score and the school in Sichuan is suitable for you, then I recommend you to study in Sichuan. Because it is better to go to other provinces for undergraduates. Personally, in my opinion, if you have the opportunity to go to university, it is better to go out of the province and see the living environment and cultural environment that is different from that of your hometown.

Experience a different life. In fact, Sichuan is a beautiful and rich place, and Chengdu also has the reputation of "the land of abundance". And the price of Sichuan is affordable.

Of course, your parents must not want you to be so far away from them, because they are afraid that girls are not safe outside, they will miss you and so on. If you make up your mind to go to Sichuan, then you try to convince them. For example, you will call them regularly to report their safety, and keep in touch with them through online video screens.

Tell them about the benefits of going out to study so that they can give you the space to grow and learn to be independent. It's up to you to sit down with your parents and family to talk about the pros and cons. I regretted studying locally.

First, it is too familiar with the local area, and there is nothing new. Second, I don't even have the opportunity to go outside to see it, and it's not good for my family to be overprotective.

The girl is too far away from home, and I don't agree with it. First, if you get sick and have an accident, your family won't have time to deal with it. Second, it is common to have conflicts with roommates and classmates, and it is common to be bullied and angry, and it is not good to complain to your family. You can only carry it yourself. I hope you think about it carefully.

First of all, is that your preferred university? And do you have the consciousness to be far away from your family in the future? Although there is **, computer, contact is very convenient, but it is impossible for parents to solve any problems, and there is suffering can only rely on themselves if they think they have the courage to solve and face it alone.

Actually, I'm advocating that girls go out and break through. Seeing the world and doing a career on your own, it will be impossible for your parents to accompany you for a lifetime, and from this time on, you have the qualifications to act independently.

Actually, I also thought about this question when I was just admitted to university... I still think it's better to be as far away from home as possible.,So that your parents can't care,,, but when you're really far away, you'll find out.,It's not easy to go home.。。 When I find out that the people around me who are far away from home are so struggling to come home, I am glad that I am the one who is close.

It's not that girls can't go out to college, when they are young, they go out to see different worlds and feel the characteristics of different regions, and they still have a long insight, after all, they have grown up, and they have to cultivate their own independent ability. But the key is to see if you like it?

To be honest, it's better to be closer, you can find someone who is a little farther away from home, and you can go home if you want to, I basically only go home during the winter and summer vacations, and I am very envious when I see people coming home.

It's better not to be too far, in case something is too far away, you can't catch up, and you don't know the environment and security!

It doesn't matter, you can better exercise yourself by going to a far place, and broaden your horizons, it is more convenient to go home near the place, and it is also very good, and it is really terrible to go home for the New Year's holiday in the far place, in short, look at your own growth environment, self-reliance is recommended to go far, and don't run far away if you are used to your parents.

The school you like, the major you like is your priority, and distance is the second consideration.

Girls don't choose to be too far away from home, they are very lonely when they are alone, they are closer to home, and there will be sustenance in their hearts.

If you like it, go to it, everyone's advice is a reference, everything is still self-centered, after all, it's you going to college and it's not someone else, right?

Come to Beijing. Girl. I am also from Shandong.

Going to college in a foreign country is more conducive to personal growth. Through four years of college, you can browse the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, which is also a very good choice, and it is also a happy thing in life to be able to see the exotic customs. If students are more homesick and like to play with their friends and classmates, then it is best to choose a university in the province, and it is best to choose a provincial capital.

of colleges and universities. Generally speaking, most of the students in the high school will choose the colleges and universities in the provincial capital, if the students choose the provincial colleges and universities, there are many friends and classmates in this city, and they can use the weekends and holidays to find these friends to play during the university; You can also go home on weekends and holidays.

If you are close, you can also use your contacts after graduation. There is an old Chinese saying, rely on parents at home, rely on friends outside, which also shows the importance of friends, in our study career college friends are the most, but also in the future work and life can be used, if you choose to study in the school at the doorstep, after the future employment, relatives and friends can also take care of, after graduation classmates can also come and go with each other, multiple friends and multiple roads, which is very helpful.

If it is an excellent university, no matter how far away it is, we will go to it without hesitation, and the choice of distance is only a secondary aspect. It is unwise and impossible for students to give up on the choice of a better university because of the distance. If students are more open-minded and want to expand their horizons in other provinces, it is best to choose universities in other provinces.

When you go to university in another province, there is a huge difference between the customs and customs outside and your own province, and you may not be able to adapt to it at the beginning, but you can slowly adapt to it after a long time. The road of life is longer, if you want to live a better life, you must make yourself strong, experience, study, and arm yourself in the university to make yourself stronger, and choosing a good university can make you strong is the standard, no matter near or far!

I thought I should stay away from home; If you are very family-oriented and can't do without your parents, you can choose to be close to home, but I think as a college student, you should stay away from home, so that you can be more independent, and you can also meet different people and things in the big city.

You should choose one that is close to home, this bright roll can Fang Zhaosheng go home, and it can relieve the lovesickness of your parents, you can take better care of your old parents, and then you can also find a job nearby.

In fact, being far away from home should not be a problem that should be considered when choosing a university, going to college is to learn knowledge and get a degree to find a good job, of course, which university is good and which major has prospects is our primary consideration.

Of course, the city is also an important factor. There have been different opinions on the three dimensions of city, school and major, some say that the city is chosen first and then the school and major, some say that the school is chosen first and then the city and major, and some say that the major is chosen first and then the city and school.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with these three statements, everyone has different backgrounds, backgrounds, and goals, and the importance of each dimension is also different.

For ordinary people who want to find a high-paying job after graduation, they value the job opportunities brought by schools and majors more seriously.

Some unpopular but promising majors, no matter which school or city they are in, will not affect the smooth search for a good job after graduation, and a well-known school, no matter what major you choose, no matter which school you are in, you can easily find a good job after graduation.

For students with good family backgrounds, he has no requirements for work, he pays more attention to whether he can broaden his horizons and increase his knowledge, so he will naturally put the city in the first place, and the second best school also means that he can access more resources, as a secondary consideration, and the major is generally put in the last consideration.

Even students from modest backgrounds are more willing to go to big cities, because most young people with dreams are more willing to go to big cities to try their luck and find opportunities than to work for others for a lifetime, and they will also take the city as their first consideration.

Of course, in either case, it is certain that the city is also an important reference index that cannot be ignored when choosing a school.

Returning to the question of distance from home, people are different from Shengliang only people, and they do not quarrel about their personality or their own situation, and their views on the distance from home are also different.

Some people don't love home, it doesn't matter if they are near or far, like those who run from Inner Mongolia to Yunnan, Xinjiang to Hunan, and there are not a few who are thousands of kilometers away from home.

But some people are different, they are more homesick, and they can't stand it if they are far away from home, let alone go to other provinces or other provinces thousands of kilometers away from home. Key notice.

I think if you want to go to other places for development, then you can choose a university that is far away from home, and if you love home, you can choose a closer university.

I have a lot of feelings when I mention this question.

For me it's just tired, very tired.

I live in a small city that is not wealthy enough, a place that many people have never heard of, and the city I applied for is about the same as my homeTwo thousand kilometersof the journey. At that time, I was proud after the college entrance examination, and I always wanted to go to a place far away from home, and wanted to see what the outside world was different. I want to fly from the south to the north, and I want to see the flat land and the snow blowing in the north.

But in fact, I regretted it when the admission letter came down. Why? First of all, the fare alone costs a lot.

My family is not wealthy, only my mother works alone, and she receives a salary of 2,000 yuan a month to support the family. For a distance of 2,000 kilometers, the high-speed rail costs seven or eight hundred, and we do not have airplanes locally. I had to choose to take the train.

No one sent me when I went. Because my parents have never left the small city where they live, I am afraid that they will not find their way back, so I go to school alone. What was it like along the way?

In short, I left with a lot of anxiety and youthfulness.

The second is that the luggage is inconvenientEspecially for girls, they have to bring a lot of things when they enter the freshman year, and the physical strength of girls is generally small, and it is really tiring to run around with a lot of things, and many times they need to ask people around them to help with their luggage.

There are also different eating habits, I went from a province that eats spicy to a province that doesn't, and I often feel sad because I can't eat chili. When I am sad, I feel homesick, but my home is too far away to go back.

I remember one time when I came home from summer vacation, the train I took was seven hours late because of heavy rain, and I could have arrived home at 7 o'clock in the evening, but I didn't get off the train until 2 o'clock in the morning. What's even more sad is that no one picked me up. At that time, I was thinking, how nice it would be if I went to university in this province, at least the high-speed rail is only an hour's drive, and the fare is no more than 100, so I can go home if I want to.

In recent years, due to the epidemic, most colleges and universities have implemented closed management. A wild child with hope, who did not see the vast land and the heavy snow in the larger city, seemed to have all illusions shattered.

But at least I received a lot of things that I didn't have the opportunity to accept before, and I also saw a different kind of customs. If the university you're going to is far from home, I hope you don't have the trouble of guessing like me; If you have such troubles, then I invite you to overcome them with me, we will always get used to it, and we can learn to enjoy it slowly.

The world is big and good, I wish you all the best.

<> how to say it, as oneThe test was extremely far away from homeThe old senior sister plays, I can only tell you,It's a mixed blessing. When you're happy, you're really happy, and when you're sad, you're really sad.

Like me, I have seen the life of the previous ten yearsCompletely different customsI'm getting used to one tooThe customs of a new place。Spend four years in a strange place, and have a place that is not bound by booksA whole new understanding, which in itself is quite interesting.

<> tell me about myselfI met a lot of local friends in this new city, I learned that people from the same province can also beThere is such a big differenceI learned from their way of being good that I don't have, and that's something that makes people proud and grows.

I also went to the original meIt is simply impossible to go back to a place to travelBefore I went to Guangxi, I would not have thought that I would go back to Nanning and Dali to play, which would enrich my knowledge and increase my experience.

Sadness is always inevitable, being far away from home is really homesick, and I really don't dare to tell my parents. I remember when I was a freshman, I was a big homesickerI often cry secretly by myself, and I wake up crying in my dreams。I didn't dare to tell my parents that I was homesickThe message was typed and deleted in the dialog box, deleted and typed, but I didn't dare to send it out, I'm afraid that they will be worried, and they will also feel that they are unproductive.

<> for meIt seems that there is only winter and summer in my hometown, and there is no spring and summer。Every year, only during the summer vacation and the Chinese New Year, I have to go home with a big suitcase. I usually don't want to go back, take the time not to say, it's too far away, and the ticket is expensive.

As I got older, I wanted to stay with my family, so if I could be given another chance, I probably wouldn't have chosen to go to college in the south, which is so far away from home.