What is the sign of insecurity in a guy in a relationship?

After being in love for a long time, you will find some small problems that you will have in love, and some people think that they will become extremely sensitive and vulnerable or even suspicious after falling in love, which is a lack of security in love.

performance. In fact, the insecurity of boys and girls in love is the same, but everyone's personality is different and the way it manifests itself is also different. Some people will just say the doubts or suspicions in their hearts directly, while some people will choose to put them in their hearts, and many boys are reluctant to express too much in love, and boys may also be insecure, so what is the manifestation of insecurity in love?

Personally, I think there are three aspects:

Insecure guys in love will be more clingy, and may ask you "where you are", "what are you doing", and "who are you with" all the time, which may make the other person feel that there is no room for independence.

Insecure boys will be more likely to be suspicious, if the other party has more contact with a person of the opposite sex, maybe the boy will be suspicious, what is the relationship between the two people, whether the other party is hiding from himself.

Sometimes when you are alone, you may often think about the two people together, and you have to find a lot of small details about yourself that the other party has, and want to be confirmed: whether the other party loves me or not. Maybe they will also be very tired, making the other person feel tired, but it is caused by a lack of security.

The above is a personal point of view, in fact, two people in love, should give each other trust and respect, do not have too much suspicion, learn to give yourself enough security, do not always want to rely on each other, love is not to let a person lose some of their abilities, but to let two people can support each other, go further, develop better. What do you think is a sign of insecurity in a guy in a relationship? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.

If a guy feels insecure when he is in a relationship, he may keep sending you messages, calling **ask you at any time**, and stick to you every day.

Boys in love are insecure and suspicious, as long as there is a opposite sex around their girlfriend, they will be cranky, afraid that their girlfriend will empathize and don't want him.

When a boy is insecure in love, he is reluctant to reveal his feelings, he will become more passive, passively accepting the love given by others, so that he can avoid being hurt.

Boys will always ask each other to do a lot of things, and they are not allowed to wear revealing clothes, and they will show a particularly nervous side when they see each other with other boys.

In love, if a guy always probes you in **, wants to know what you are doing, and goes to you anytime and anywhere, asks you. This is a sign of insecurity. A confident boy will definitely give you free space.

The most obvious manifestation is to keep asking what the woman is doing, what is the woman doing? In fact, the reason for such a consequence is nothing more than the lack of a sense of security in the relationship, the lack of a basic sense of trust, and the fear that you will leave at any time.

Manifested in sticking to the girl all the time, meeting her every day, afraid that she will leave him, he will often check the girl's post, and secretly look at the girl's mobile phone to see if she has done anything sorry for herself.

The performance is that they will often be jealous, especially when they stay with some ordinary friends, they will behave very obviously, and always hope that the other party can stay by their side.

Boys in love are insecure, which means that if they see girls chatting with other boys, they will feel very uneasy, and they will also dislike girls for not communicating with other boys.

The so-called sense of security in love is actually a psychological problem, and the root cause is the fear of losing or being hurt. Not only do couples who have just fallen in love lack a sense of security, sometimes the deeper they love, the more insecure they become. In particular, the psychology of "fear of loss" is a psychological problem that many people have in love.

In love, if the boy is insecure, he may have a skeptical attitude in many things, and look at the other party's eyes, he is very unconfident, and always feels that the other party has something to hide from him.

So, in a relationship, if the guy is insecure, he will ask you what to do all the time? If you do something, you will often check your post, which is a sign of insecurity.

The performance of insecurity must be because of the feeling of suspicion for this kind of state of the girl, or the feeling that he is ambiguous with other boys.

Constantly seek the approval of others.

Many people are uncomfortable and afraid of unknown eyes around them. The phone is always on and always around. If there's a space available, like to sit in the corner.

Very sensitive, and will immediately hide when it feels like it might hurt itself. Emotions tend to get out of control, occasionally hysterical, and force yourself to do something. Always anticipate the outcome, even if it's not what you expected.

Afraid of the dark. Sleep well at night. Often do not want to talk.

Many things can't be faced and solved, and when you're sad, you hide alone and don't want to disturb and destroy people's good mood.

I always dare not say I want it, I don't dare to make trouble, I hold it alone, I don't seem to care, but in fact, my heart has collapsed. Those who will coquettishly say that they are afraid of losing have an emotional outlet, often those who seem to be fearless and can lack anyone, the most insecure, because no one can let him leak his weak side, not that he will not be cute, but he is afraid that no one will love him.

What are the reasons why boys are insecure? A lot of people are insecure to some extent, and their boyfriends are insecure either, and the reasons why men and women are insecure are largely different. So what is the reason why boys are insecure?

1. Some boys are insecure because they are worried that their other half is better than them everywhere. No matter how smart and powerful a woman is, she must always try her best to maintain the man's right to speak and not damage the other party's self-confidence and self-esteem. You know that men are insecure, and this is what gives boyfriends a sense of security!

A woman with high emotional intelligence should learn to be patient and cute in front of her other half, giving boys a lot of confidence. If a woman is too strong, a man will be insecure.

2. Insecurity is not a bad thing in a relationship. Many times, insecurity is because we care too much about the other person and don't care what a stranger or ordinary person thinks of you in life, so we should accept that insecurity exists, sometimes because we care too much. It is important to understand that insecurity is not a bad thing in a relationship.

Many times, insecurity is because we care too much about the other person and don't care what a stranger or ordinary person thinks of you in life, so we should accept that insecurity exists, sometimes because we care too much.

3. The monthly salary is not high. I'm sure many of the boys are deeply moved. In today's society, if the salary is not high, personal behavior and many things are very limited, and the work pressure is also very high.

Whether it's buying a house before marriage, giving money for a bride price, having children, or supporting their parents for a longer period of time, boys can be overwhelmed. So, if a guy is not paid well, his personal behavior is very limited, boy. So, if their monthly salary is not high, the boy will be extremely insecure.

4. There is a tendency for a person to have autism in his heart, and his eyes are actually the most real heart. When a person refuses to communicate with each other in his heart, it is generally not easy to look into the eyes of the other party, but usually such a person is not a bad person, and even the other party has a very fragile heart. However, the temperament problems of the other party have caused them to have some bad feelings about the world, and they do not know how to communicate with each other.

It may be that the other party likes you very much, loves you very much, and doesn't know what to do to you, it may be that there is a problem with the family environment, and it may be that the boy is not confident. Or maybe the boy wasn't particularly good.

It may be that this boy has been hurt to a certain extent in this relationship, and he has given a lot in this relationship but has not been reciprocated, so he will be insecure.

It may be because the boy gets hurt after failing in a relationship, becomes distrustful of others, and becomes insecure.

It's because the boy loses his relationship and gets hurt in the future and doesn't trust others, so he lacks a sense of security.

Because I was hurt in my previous relationship, I had the idea of inferiority and felt that I was not suitable for a relationship.

The reason why men are insecure is that they have not been loved by their families since they were young, and they will not be secure when they grow up. If you want him to get rid of this, you must care more about him, let him have psychological safety, and slowly get better.

Part of the reason for the original family is that they are always frustrated in life and hit their self-confidence, so that they feel that they can't do anything well, and over time they will feel that everything will slowly leave them, and they will become insecure.

The first thing I do when I get up every day, say cheers to myself, and compare myself in the mirror with praise. Do everything well in a down-to-earth manner, and the most important thing is not only the result but also the process. As long as you do something, the process is meaningful.

The reason for boys' insecurity must be that they have been hurt to feel like this, men must overcome their psychology to get better, and only when they are psychologically strong will they have a sense of security.

Reasons for men's insecurity. Everyone's upbringing is different, and some people may be insecure due to old trauma or a lack of care from their parents when they were growing up. Since this experience is not very good, it will make you feel a little less confident, and you will always feel that you are not important, or that you are not good enough to do anything.

Lack of care and communication, not being good at expressing one's inner world, can also lead to a lack of security.

Lack of personal ability or cognition can also show a lack of security at this time.

A man's insecurity, if not in love, then first of all he is not confident in his abilities. He lacks the ability to challenge time. Confidence and ability.

Reasons for men's insecurity. Lack of security due to personal upbringing. Lack of family security. and one's own ability or cognition, it is possible.

The insecurity of men is mainly due to strength. Only with abundant strength can we meet the challenge.

You are personally the one who was hurt when you were a child, and deliberately avoided it, and was insecure

The reason for men's insecurity is still related to their own growth experience and family influence, and on the other hand, it is also related to their own unsuccessful career.

And it has a lot to do with your past life, and there's always a factor of insecurity that makes you feel insecure, and all you have to do is feel that factor and get over it.

A person's insecurity may be related to the childhood shadow of the original family.

The reason why men are insecure is because they are not psychologically strong enough.

At this time, you need to be more patient to communicate with him, the basic problem is not big, but don't let the contradictions accumulate step by step, otherwise when it comes to the critical point of the outbreak, it will be very difficult to recover it in the future.

Men are insecure, that's not love, that's money, how much energy do you have money in your hands, so don't talk?

Work hard to make money, and when you have money in your hands, a sense of security comes up.

We are insecure, that is, we are too bold, and this kind of man is delicate, a bit like a woman.

I usually receive less care, I am not confident enough, and I have low self-esteem to a certain extent.

Childhood experiences. Interpersonal relationship. Self-competence. Realistic conditions (money).

Men are insecure, either in love, or without money. Without fixed assets, it doesn't feel like a good thing.

No, there is no one who is not suitable for a relationship, but you have not met the right person for you.

Money! Definitely number one.

There is also whether the family is confident and cheerful enough, and the influence of the family is very important!

The reasons for social life, the reasons for the living environment.

Poor, injured and without money, there is no self-confidence.

In fact, it is confused, unsteady, and life is still stressful.

Not confident. Fear.

Extrinsic causes (school bullying, assault, etc.).

That's because of the absence.

A man stands up to the sky and is not a child, how can he not have a sense of security? Do your own things, make your own decisions, the initiative is completely in your own hands, there is no security, no security. For girls, marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog, if the boy changes his mind, the girl will feel bad in the heart, stable, not down-to-earth, and there is a sense of insecurity in the girl's heart.

If you are a door-to-door son-in-law, it is understandable to have this kind of mentality. Because you have become a family with the woman, everything has to be together, assuming that your salary is paid in full, and you do not agree with the father-in-law's family at that time, you are in this family, and there is a sense of insecurity, which is the same as the insecurity of a girl.