Just because you have to care about other people s opinions and give up your boyfriend,

Maybe you have confused a concept, other people's opinions and eyes are just things outside of your own body, and no matter how you do and how you decide is your own business, is it that if you point a gun at a person who is afraid of death, this person is forced to comply? The decision on anything is made by one's own heart, not by the mouth of another.

As for giving up his own thoughts, no one can make an absolutely correct and rational decision, unless his inner cultivation has already transcended the sainthood of Fan Zhongyan. So as a mortal, whether it is your current approach or the eyes and suggestions of others, can you really make a correct judgment? Maybe you may not be able to agree with the decisions you make now, but the future is based on today's decisions.

First of all, it is true that the birth relationship between the two places is not practical for many people, after all, distance and time are powerful catalysts for the deterioration of the relationship. It depends on whether your emotional foundation is solid and whether you belong to real love, such as mutual understanding, understanding, tolerance and giving.

Secondly, assuming that you are not very naïve and impulsively like each other just because of adrenaline secretion, then after a period of love, at least you have a preliminary understanding of each other, whether you or he is a psychologically suitable long-term partner for both parties, the natural psychology is very clear, even if you are unwilling to admit mistakes, or magnify the advantages. However, it is all based on reason.

Finally, the tolerance and giving of love is not only about being able to accept and endure the vices and bad habits of the other person. There is nothing wrong with persuading the other party to change, who said that it will not be him after the change? It is precisely because people are always changing that they can make each other develop and improve in a good direction, which is also love.

Maybe you think you're right, or maybe you don't have anyone around you who can give you a reasonably objective statement that you can listen to. But in fact, the answer has always existed in your heart, but your heart can't calm down yet, and when you calm down, everything will naturally understand.

This kind of thing, no matter how much our friends say it will only affect your thoughts for a while, you can ask this question on the post bar, it shows two points, one is that you are very annoyed, and the other is that your heart is not so firm, I can only advise you, happiness is always in your own hands, and your parents and friends can't decide you. But there is one thing, if you encounter something that doesn't go your way, please act sensibly and don't go too far, otherwise it will only make the result worse.

I will never allow others to interfere with my marriage, life is my own, fortunately only I know, why do outsiders interfere, express non-part opinions, although parents are good-hearted, but good intentions will always do bad things, some parents have been growing up for their children since childhood, desperately give their children to eat those long vitamins, as a result, the child is not tall, you say that the parents are not out of good intentions, but leave a lifetime of shadow for the child, go their own way, let others say go, take care of him.

This depends on whether you love him or not, and whether he is worthy of your love, if it is worth it, then you must not give up your thoughts.

I'm having the same troubles as you, but this person is my boyfriend, and he's always living under the eyes of others.

I think he's having a hard time.

He has basically chosen to break up with me.

I think the biggest problem is not whether you look at other people's eyes, but that you don't love them as much as you think.

Think about it, right?

How can there be no long road in life While sticking to yourself, please remember to be realistic.

There you have it! If you are persistent enough, who can influence your thoughts!

If one person and two people have a bad evaluation, you can stick to your own position; If it's common to think your boyfriend is bad. Think about it.

It's that you care too much, you have to ask him why he comments like this, sometimes two people have to communicate more and think more to know the problem, you have to remember that a slap doesn't make a sound.

Do you think your boyfriend is good? Why care so much about other people's opinions, people only live for themselves in this life.

If the whole world is against it, think about it, maybe everyone is not necessarily wrong.

People, you must have your own opinions Don't be swayed by others, do you want others to choose your boyfriend?

In what way? In terms of character, you have to pay attention.

No way. People can't be that noble.

So on this basis, we must know how to stop in moderation.

No one is so stupid that they pay for others endlessly.

People must know how to protect themselves, but we must know not to base our happiness on the suffering of others.

Yes, as long as you treat such things as if they were a cloud of smoke and don't care about other people's feelings...

Does your boyfriend look better than you, are you very shameless? You should be happy to go, why give up, a boyfriend who is better than yourself, a fool will give up, you say.

Others just say that two people are together because they have feelings Age gap isn't it Since you love him, why care about other people's opinions We can't satisfy everyone But at least let's be worthy of ourselves.

It's just such a sentence, no matter what he does, there is a sister and brother love, not to mention that you are not a sister and brother love, and this sentence is not lethal at all, compared to other inappropriate, this is not a thing!!

In fact, you really don't have to worry about this, as long as the two of you are happy, and the two of you really love each other, that's enough, don't care about and care about other people's eyes, life is for yourself, not for others, you say yes, I hope you can adopt it.

Buy your own skin care products to maintain your own care. Let your boyfriend be outdoors as much as possible. Just accept the baptism of nature. And there's no need to care what other people think. It's good to be happy.

Dress up your boyfriend more maturely and dress yourself up younger.

Hehe, don't bother yourself, if everyone thinks like you, then wouldn't a man like your boyfriend have to be beaten up.

As long as you love each other, it's okay, it just looks like, it's not really older than you, it's you who are in love, and it's not someone else who talks about it, it's talking about whether sister and brother love will be like it, it's very romantic.

Don't care what others say, just go your own way and like it, happiness is yours

What do others say? If someone else says something so magical, the bad guy will die a long time ago, listen to what others say, hehe.

Love is together, you care about other people's words means that you still don't love him enough, has he ever cared? If you don't have it, you think too much about yourself, and if others say that, you will say that he loves you, which is more important than anything else, and the days are your own, what does it have to do with others?

How to live in the eyes of others, so that you will never be happy.

Don't care too much about what others think, otherwise you will be very tired, and you have to follow your own heart.

Why care about other people's eyes! It's me who wants love to the end!!

I'm 3 years younger than my girlfriend

Don't care too much about what others think of yourself and live for yourself.

It's good that you're happy together, so why care what others say.

Why do you care what other people say, it's you two who are in love, and it's not you and someone else.

Go your own way, eat your own food, let him go to the United States to ......

Me and my girlfriend too. He is 9 years older than me.

Don't ruin your own feelings because of someone else's words.

It is his wife who the man lives with him! Not parents! It's good for parents to do their filial piety!

It shouldn't be about putting your parents first! If you say what your parents say, that's what it is! Then don't marry a wife at all!

It's better to live with your parents for the rest of your life! Don't hurt others or children!

I care too much, I get tired easily, I know best whether the shoes fit or not, others say that it makes no sense for you to wear shoes that don't fit. He loves you and is good to you, and that's more important than anything else!

It shows that his third leg is peculiar.

In fact, when I see you say that you "always don't care about your boyfriend", I can suspect that you are too sensitive to your girlfriend's reactions, and I don't know how you can judge these conclusions. In fact, it is not very important to want to know what your girlfriend thinks of herself, the important thing is whether she will think of you at a critical moment, in fact, you can also think about it the other way around, empathy, if you are her, she suddenly cares about everything you do, and cares about every expression of her, is it really important? In fact, everyone wants to have their own private space.

Maybe what your girlfriend thinks is very simple, when you are in love, you will be together, friendship, and family affection must not be less. You can imagine that your girlfriend is a person who attaches great importance to feelings, and why you have the feeling that she doesn't care about you and thinks that you are dispensable, there may be several reasons: first, she cares too much about you and feels that your current state is not good enough, at this time you have to self-reflect, re-examine your strengths, and adjust your state.

Second, her concept of love may not be at odds with your attitude towards love, and this inconsistency may be due to a lack of communication between the two of you, a lack of necessary communication between each other's hearts, and a sense of disparity that slowly accumulates. You can find a relaxing time for the two of you to be quiet, slow down, and remember with her little by little about the good things you used to have, and then be honest with her face-to-face, share your worries with each other and find solutions, remember, the focus of the conversation is on the solution, and don't create more problems. You can try the above, and the specific situation has to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

This shows that she is really starting to understand you! Got your heart! In fact, what he did before doesn't mean that she doesn't love you!

Sometimes it's character! What kind of person do you say will share your troubles and sorrows with you, is it the person who believes in you the most? Of course, it's also about sharing unhappiness with the people you love the most!

Maybe he just didn't know how to deal with this emotion between you before! Cherish her! Learn to wrap and be considerate!

Learn to think differently! Bless you all.

If you were to ask us if we thought the same as you, then I would have to say no. There is no fundamental and goal of this question, it is all fantasy, people are different, I can't give you an answer, the key depends on what your own psychology and goals are, with these, you don't need to ask us.

This, if you are a big money, these things will be gone, she is hesitating, not sure whether she wants to spend her life with you, ready to leave you at any time. That's it.

Is she just a pastime for his boyfriend...