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I think first of all, you have to analyze the purpose of what you are doing, the impact on yourself, others and society, whether it is good or bad, which one accounts for the most important proportion, and stick to it once you decide it.
Secondly, you should develop self-confidence in your words and actions, of course, provided that you are indeed capable. As long as you do the right thing in the right way, don't care too much about other people's opinions, you should think from a different perspective, if you do a good job, you can also reflect your ability and charm, maybe others will appreciate you more.
Moreover, even if you care about what other people think, you have to divide people, and care about the thoughts of those who have a level and a level and not everyone else, including some people who are not good or vulgar themselves. Man lives for himself, not for others. Let yourself live with taste, then you should care about the opinions of some tasteful people and do something tasteful!
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Believe that what you are doing is right Don't be easily swayed No matter what you do, there will be people who have ideas and opinions.
Either yes or no, but you have to have faith in yourself so that you can be enthusiastic and make others feel assimilated by you.
My favorite quote is: the path you choose must be completed on your knees!
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It depends on your own psychological quality.
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In fact, it is a psychological disorder problem, which I have also encountered. Try the following:
Tell the person and your good friend about your worries, tell him that she cares a lot about him and what she thinks. After one or two times, you can break through your own psychological barriers. I've tried it, and it really works.
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Caring about other people's opinions, you just don't want others to point fingers behind your back, but you go against your own intentions.
I didn't give others a chance to point fingers, but I brought myself an unhappy day.
Therefore, if you want to be happy, you should not care about other people's opinions.
But the plan has never caught up with the change, the first 3 minutes you secretly decided not to care about other people's opinions, but when you meet on the spot, you still care about other people's opinions, I think, in front of friends, relatives, and classmates who understand you and understand your character, you should be yourself, don't care about them, because they understand you and understand you. But when you meet someone who is not familiar with you, or who has just met for a short time, you should maintain your own image in front of it, this is not a matter of perception, this is a question of people's quality, if you really care about other people's opinions, I think your quality should be relatively high, because you care about other people's views also contain the advantages of a person who can tolerate people, don't worry about why you care about other people's opinions, this is an advantage, you can accommodate any of these people.
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I don't think you care about other people's opinions, if you have to think about others in everything you do, then who are you living for? Be yourself and care what others say, sometimes some people see that the more you care about him, the more they point fingers behind your back, on the contrary, if you ignore his comments, he will know that his actions are not of any use to you, and he will not be talking about you.
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Don't worry too much! In fact, you will also find that pointing to yourself, others will also point to him, there is no perfect person in the world, let alone perfect things! So think about opening up a little yourself, be yourself, and don't care what others think!
As long as you think you can do it! If someone else points out something you didn't think of, then use it to make yourself better, isn't it? So to care or not to care!
It's up to your own mentality, isn't it?
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Think carefully when you do things, and if you think about it, you feel that it is the right thing to do.
Yes, yes. If you really believe in something, don't look at other people's eyes, and don't care about other people's opinions. If you really think it through.
How can you care about other people's thoughts?
In a word, "Go your own way and let others do the talking!" "Otherwise you'll miss a lot.
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They have a certain idea in their hearts and don't want to influence themselves through others, and sometimes this is a self-righteous idea, and often doing so will also hurt a certain amount.
Not caring about what others think is not paying attention to other people's feelings, having a kind of thinking that they do their own thing, and usually not feeling that they are doing something wrong, because they are always blindly confident.
This kind of self-confidence will also make them hit a wall, encounter failure, and even insist on going their own way, which is difficult to integrate into the team.
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Generally, this kind of person is more assertive, and it is not so easy to compromise. So I don't care much about what other people think. Then this kind of person's personality is more decisive, confident and believes in himself, and does not easily accept the advice of others.
I like to do what I want. If you want to convince such people, you have to spend a lot of effort and time. And often this kind of person pays more attention to the result or facts to compromise, and if there are certain facts or examples of similar things, it is still easier for him to stick to his own ideas.
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I think it can be understood from two aspects, the first is positive, for example, they are pursuing ideals, pursuing goals, and taking their own distinctive path, at this time, there are many voices in the outside world saying that they are unreliable and unrealistic, and they can't do it, it is whimsical, it is a fantasy, and they insist on remembering the goal and don't care about what others think! Or his own dress maverick, etc., these are okay, no matter what he does, as long as he does not infringe on the interests of others, he will happily walk the road he chooses, this does not care about other people's ideas is very good, on behalf of this person has personality!
There is also a kind of thinking that does not care about others is negative, such as littering, not caring what others think of me, and speaking ill of others, or selfishness, etc., that is, selfishness, thinking about others will only satisfy their own selfish desires! Then it is not advisable to not care about other people's thoughts!
That's my opinion!
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In fact, those who say they don't care about other people's thoughts, they still care about other people's thoughts very much, it's just that they can't do anything to stop other people's thoughts, so they can only change their inner thoughts.
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Some people just don't care about what others think, and they are self-righteous in everything they do, like me used to be like this, they are self-centered in everything they do, and they rarely think about others, but as they grow older over time, they will think about other people's thoughts in what they do.
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If a person doesn't care what others think, then that person may not get the attention of others, and he may not have many friends, because such a person is too detached from the masses, and the best way is to listen to what others want to say, but not necessarily to do what others do.
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There are some people who do things just to maintain their own attitude, he says every day that he doesn't care about what others think, he does what he likes, in fact, this method is good, but sometimes it is also a more selfish behavior, may only care about his own thoughts, do not care about other people's thoughts, and sometimes make others unhappy.
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For those who don't care about other people's opinions, to a certain extent, this kind of person just has no skin and no face, because many times people live in this world, they especially hope that everyone will evaluate themselves, and then they will have some good evaluations of themselves, and they will feel very happy.
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The people of this world are inherently diverse. Some people don't care much about what other people think, and it's best not to have deep friendships with these people, and not to have too much contact. Because of that kind of person, he is very generous. Sometimes it can feel like you're very far away.
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I think for everyone, there are some ideas about not caring about others, because everyone is everyone's shortcomings and specials, and don't treat others too much, because everyone is like this, but the surface is different.
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I had a friend in high school who was like that, I was very nice to him, and he was very nice to me, but he was the kind of self-centered person, and no matter what I said, as long as he thought it was wrong, it was wrong, and I felt quite tired to be with him, and I didn't have much contact after that.
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