Why did you become very suspicious and uneasy after saving a love?

Maybe it's because the other party still doesn't give you enough security.

Try to get out of the shadow of your psyche and look forward.

Otherwise, the lost feelings will also be affected by your emotions.

Thus going to extremes.

I hope you can face life with sunshine and optimism and give each other opportunities.

In this way, the tree of love can flourish and blossom.

There is no such thing as a lost thing. Because you have been hurt by loss ...

Normal, just because the wound doesn't hurt doesn't mean it doesn't exist. In fact, people are like this, and they suffer from gains and losses. Just take your time.

Originally, they broke up because of a problem, but was the problem solved after they reconciled? If not, it's better to make it clear, so that both parties can understand each other better, just communicate more, and wish you happiness.

So tangled. When you buy a bouquet of roses and give it to her, it's like you've just met her. Find more interesting things, such as going out together, traveling, etc. The kind of thing that wants to help each other, I guess it will be good if you add more romantic elements to it.

Revisit the place where you first met and regain the love in your heart.

The feeling of first love is always desirable and of course the most memorable, so cherish it. If only there was something to say.

If you believe in the Book of Changes, you can search 32008 and find Taoism to analyze the feelings of both parties.

I thought our relationship had been moving forward steadily, but it suddenly broke down. When I heard him say the words, "Let's break up," my heart suddenly emptied. I don't know how to face this fact because I have always believed that our love is indestructible.

But now, it has all turned out to be so fragile and uncertain......

I began to reflect on myself and wanted to find out what was wrong. Maybe I cared too much about my own feelings and didn't take into account his feelings. Maybe there was a problem with the communication between us that caused us to lose trust in each other.

Recalling the past over and over again, I found that there was alienation and omission in our love, which made me feel very disappointed.

I know that saving a relationship doesn't happen overnight. We need to rebuild trust, improve communication, identify common topics, and rekindle our feelings. It's going to be a long process that will require both of us to work together to make a difference in our love.

However, I believe that as long as we really want to redeem this emotional relationship, it will eventually lead to our reunion.

As long as you take the right way to redeem it, then the reunion is no longer a dream. Of course, you need to avoid hitting a minefield of recovery, as this is likely to push the other person further and further away, undoing all your previous efforts. Therefore, in order to make your recovery smoother, do not touch the following minefields of recovery.

1. Quarrel with it

The most taboo thing to get back your significant other is to quarrel with him and blame the other party for the breakup. You must know that arguing does not prove that you are right, let alone maintain your self-esteem, count the other party's various wrongs, and denounce him as worthless, which will only push the other party farther and farther away, and strengthen the other party's determination to break up with you. Quarrel to win a fight, lose a relationship, it is clear which is more important.

Many people think that the anger in their hearts is difficult to suppress when there is a conflict, and arguing with them is involuntary, so you should learn to control your anger, calm down and let your high emotions gradually calm down, and then you can communicate effectively with the other party.

2. Show a strong sense of need

You must know that the breakup is because the conflict between the two of you has reached a white-hot level, indicating that the other party has lost patience with you. And at this kind of moment, you also show that you have a crush on him in a high-profile manner, which will only bring heavy pressure to the other person and even develop disgust for you. In order for your conflicts to gradually decrease, you need to let go of your strong sense of need and use the freezing method to freeze all relationships.

Why? Because people have a rationalization mechanism, we rationalize everything. Therefore, let go of your strong sense of need, give the other person time and space to calm down, let your broken love get ** in time, and give your relationship room to maneuver.

3. Break off friendship in anger

After a breakup, many people will block each other out of anger and even delete all contact information. This impulsive act of anger will not help you to redeem yourself, and if you delete all the contact between you, it means that you have cut off the way to redemption with your own hands. Don't be in a hurry to cut off the other party's contact information one by one, plan and then act, at least you can't kill the other party's hope of taking the initiative to rebuild the old friendship with you.

This is a good act to save life for your relationship. Building a bridge of equal communication between you and building a good platform for the exchange of love after freezing love is the only magic weapon to save the love between you.

Breaking up is not terrible, what is terrible is that you have taken the wrong way to recover in the process of recovery, repeatedly touching the minefield of recovery, making recovery more difficult or even failing. Only by mastering the correct method can the recovery be smoother, and I wish you all success in recovery!