Change in love Do I have to work hard or give up

Don't contact anymore, women will!

There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

Girls are always soft-hearted, and they all want their boyfriends to be someone who has goals and can take care of themselves. If you really want to get her back, try to climb up.

She said to be normal friends with you.

Be sure. She doesn't love you.

Think clearly. True love goes both ways.

That being said. Do you still want to hold on.

There is a kind of happiness that is at your feet.

If you really love her, you have to respect her choice, I believe you have done your best, but everyone's future life is very important, especially for girls, and it is a realistic girl like her, she will think about her future very seriously, even if she loves you very much. If, after careful consideration, she really feels that it is not appropriate to be with you, no matter how hard you try, she will not look back. So, hide your love in the bottom of your heart, she won't know your heart, but she can't help it.

It may be painful now, but time has diluted it. I believe that there is a better girl waiting for you on the road of your life. Let's move forward happily

No. Put the cart before the horse, a person's active change may be for the sake of the lover's expectations, but passive change for the sake of love is not worth the loss.

Some people may say that you should change yourself for the sake of the expectations of your lover. I think that we must change ourselves in order to make love better, but we can't change our essence because of expectations, otherwise it will be a price to pay for Moriharu.

Changing yourself is not just for the expectations of your lover. It's about knowing what kind of changes are suitable for love and what kind of changes are not conducive to the development of love. For example, if you have a character that adheres to your own principles, you can give in in love, but you can't change your insistence because of love, otherwise this change is not a manifestation of love, but your self-sacrifice.

Sometimes, for the sake of love, we do some clever things, even if sometimes we want to change ourselves, but we must know that this change is not to meet the expectations of our lover, but to meet our own expectations, for example, we want to change some of our conservative thoughts, to experience different things, to accept new information, rather than simply to change ourselves in order to meet the expectations of our lover.

Sometimes we want to change ourselves for the sake of the expectations of our lovers, but if this change sacrifices our principles and makes us unable to justify ourselves, it is not the right choice. After all, changing oneself cannot be just for love, but more for oneself, reflecting one's own value, and making one's life more exciting.

Let's talk about my point of view first - "I will change myself for love" but there is no way, it is not you who pay in love, nor is it because your change will have a good result.

A good relationship should be a long stream, support each other, change for love, in other words, but also for yourself, because you have a person who you love, and you have the motivation to change. In the end, you have to constantly improve yourself, so that you will not be so inferior and helpless in this relationship, and there is no one right or wrong in every love, only choice.

Love is pure, single, and does not contain any emotional impurities, and I think that it will not change because of love before encountering love. Because when you meet someone who wants to spend the rest of your life together, a person who eats three times a day, and a person who is extremely moved, change becomes natural. Change is for a better self, not impulsive, not a goal, maintain a rational attitude in love, and slowly achieve a better self in this relationship.

It is necessary! Changing oneself is actually for love. Thinking about a person's life, without love, there is no self-confidence; Without self-confidence, there is no life plan to pursue goals; Without a life plan to pursue goals, there is no everything; If you don't have everything, you will be a pile of waste, and if you are a waste of waste, you can't change yourself, and in the eyes of others, it is nothing but a broken flower.

What do you say? If we want to change ourselves, we must first summarize the experience of our predecessors. Successful people throughout the ages, which one is not a beautiful woman, greedy enough to play and live a chic and free life? Everyone touted and everyone envied the curtain and went down in history?

Just like the Qin Emperor, the Han Dynasty, the Tang Dynasty, the Song Ancestors and other imperial relatives? For example, Li Bai, Su Shi, Li Qingzhao, Tang Bohu and other talented and beautiful people, poets, friends and literary friends, which one is not to change himself first and then enjoy love, and the opposite sex is in love, and he is self-controlled? Therefore, love is the mutual attraction of the opposite sex, and the premise is that there must be a unique argument to prove that you are successful and strong, so that you will have the confidence and courage to encourage yourself with the soul couple

That's the beauty of love.

This charm comes from habit, from hard work, from firm belief. Not to mention people, even animals know this. During this time at home, I found that the dog on that side came here every day, and the reason was that it was the same as giving people, and there were also its playmates here.

Staying at home is like going to prison, there is no freshness, no sense of activity, and it is difficult to cure lovesickness instead of eating and sleeping all day long! It's better to go out and mess with flowers and grass, so why not spend time? So, I don't know when the dogs' "love" will start?

Maybe it's also the same as giving us "higher animals", with their own charm to attract the opposite sex, don't worry about "raising the head of the knife and not finding the temple door to enter". Therefore, when you are not as good as a dog, you just want to fight for power and profit, and calculate others, who does not hate?

From this, it can be seen that the pursuit of happiness is not a bad thing, but something that everyone desires to be happy. Three hundred and sixty lines are the champions! Therefore, it is necessary to rely on one's own skills, and only the innovative achievements that surpass ordinary people will have the charm to attract the opposite sex, and you can choose to get the happy love you want.

When you are proud of the spring breeze and "people are in good spirits at happy events", you will give up your longing lover, and others will not scold you for being "Han Bao, Straw Bag, Sun Dragon Bag", then it is ...... miles

So friends, for the sake of love, if you want to be happy, you must start by changing yourself! On the contrary, if you are not excellent, what can you do if "it is going to rain and the mother will remarry"?

It is a very romantic thing to make changes for each other in a relationship, or to slowly accept the small shortcomings that the other person could not tolerate before, and it is not the so-called loss of self in many people's mouths.

I always feel that young people nowadays emphasize themselves too much, especially girls, too much chicken soup literature teaches girls to have self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-reliance, and can no longer be overly accommodating to their other half like the older generation of women, and to be an independent and sober girl.

But in fact, in the relationship between two people, you overemphasize yourself, emphasize individuality, and adhere to your so-called principles, which is a very selfish performance, and it is difficult for most egotists to understand the feelings of others.

If we can find a way to let our love firmly change our life state, and then after having our own happy family and love, we can let go of our original state for love and family, and change ourselves without hesitation, think about it, it is really an enviable state.

Just imagine, your other half will slowly change himself for you, and often reflect on his own problems, although he may not have so many rhetoric, but it is the most touching love in life. Love or marriage is actually ordinary and long, only mutual respect, mutual understanding, for each other to change their love, so that it can go long.

Love is in a sense an inexplicable thing, it binds two otherwise independent individuals together, and from that moment on, you are no longer alone. I have achieved you at this moment, and you have achieved me at this moment, which is a very romantic thing in itself. Of course, the premise is to develop in a good direction.

Love is a beautiful emotion, which can make people embrace life more passionately and face challenges more bravely. However, sometimes, for the sake of love, we will have to change ourselves.

1. First of all, sometimes, for the sake of love, we have to change our thinking. For example, some people may change their religion to better fit into their significant other's family.

2. Secondly, sometimes, for the sake of love, we will have to change our behavior. For example, some people may change their habits to better fit into their significant other's life.

3. Finally, sometimes, for the sake of love, we will have to change our appearance. For example, some people may change their hairstyle to better fit in with their significant other's society.

In short, we may have to change ourselves for the sake of love. However, we should remember that changing ourselves is not to make our other half like us more, but to better integrate into the life of the other half and make each other closer.