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You haven't married and you're thinking about moving your money, but you can imagine how cunning the man's family is, don't give them money, let them find a way to solve it, what kind of heart do his parents have, it is his parents' business to build a house, why shirk responsibility like this, it's too undeserved, besides, I think you have to explain your thoughts to your future husband, and ask him to tell his family that decoration is not his responsibility, he can only do his best, understand? If you don't pay, it's a matter of rules, it's not a matter of care, you give, what does your mother think, do you understand? If it were me, I wouldn't give it, hello, hope!

Strange, what the hell are you getting married for? The old people on both sides are sick, so selfish? Aren't you going to get married, aren't you going to get married, aren't you going to have a house, and the house has to be renovated, anyway, the two of you live, so what's the difference between who pays for the decoration?

Could it be that you got married so that you would get divorced later, so you have divided everything so clearly now? Then don't get married, it will be troublesome to divorce in the future.

I think since you buy the house, and then you pretend, men should not quarrel with their girlfriends for the money to decorate, it is too faceless, money is a gift that men should prepare for the woman they love, if the decoration is still bargaining with the woman, can the marriage be happy in the future? Even if you don't have money, you should borrow it from your father-in-law and mother-in-law, and you can't say that because of this conflict, a happy event finally comes, and because of this quarrel, it's not worth it.

When two people get married, you should coordinate well, your relationship can go to this step of marriage is not easy, if you quarrel for the decoration of things, wouldn't it be a pity, I hope you can get through this difficulty, and your life will be better in the future.

I just got married, and I used to have this kind of thought, but the fact is that it completely depends on the woman's family, she is unwilling to bear it, and you can't help it, and after all, people have given you the daughter who has been raised for decades, so men have to take responsibility, don't worry about this, no matter how difficult it is to carry it yourself, no matter how tired you are.

Count the decoration and furniture and appliances together, and make a total price, half of a family, which is the most effective.

Since the woman has agreed to buy a home appliance home, the basic decoration of the house is what your husband should do, and what is the ink, hurry up and decorate it, it doesn't matter if it is not luxurious, as long as you and your wife feel warm and comfortable, the house is for you to get married and live in the future, and the big idea needs you to discuss with your wife.

Personally, I think it's still a man.

It depends on the financial strength of the boyfriend you are looking for, if he has good family conditions, or his own income is high, and there is no pressure to buy a house at all, then morality is the man's responsibility. If he is also a white-collar worker who is still struggling, then you love her and must share some pressure for him.

However, in today's society, girls should not rely too much on the man, pay some money for the real estate, and be more justified in quarrels in the future, hehe.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

Not necessarily, depending on the man's family conditions, as well as your emotional foundation, you can also buy a house and decorate the woman If you lose love because of the house, it's a pity, because I've heard that there is a place to borrow money to buy a house, and after marrying back the daughter-in-law, the two of them will pay it back together, and it's called a trouble.

I'm from Ningbo, and it's usually our men who come out of the house, but there's one case that depends on what the boyfriend and girlfriend think.

The person in charge of the husband is not the joint property of the husband and wife.

I feel the same way. But after all, marriage is different from love, and many, many realities must involve money. But when it comes to money, it does make people feel a little sad.

When I got married, although the house decoration furniture including the wedding, my husband's house was all arranged by one hand, but I was still a little unhappy because of the bride price, to be honest, I don't care, but my mother is different, and it is always difficult for my daughter to disobey her mother's will, so I have a dispute with my husband. . . Everyone wants to defend their parents, and it's hard to say who's right and who's wrong, hehe.

Regarding the decoration, as well as the wedding in the future, I think it is better to let the parents of both sides negotiate, and it is really painful to be caught between the children and have conflicts. There is nothing that should or should not be done in these matters, as long as both parties agree on it.

I wish you all the best!

Personal opinion.

Man: House + decoration.

Woman: Furniture.

If you don't have this money for the time being, then you can get the certificate first, and then continue these things when you have money.

Although it is said that talking about money hurts feelings, I think it is necessary. If you don't talk about it clearly before marriage, after marriage, there are many cases of money as small as quarrels and as big as divorces.

The man should bear it all, if you really can't take it, it's normal for the woman to take some, and it's a family in the future to divide what to do, unless it's not really in love, and divorce has been considered.

Forget it, the two of you still split up, so settle the account, distract your eyes, and get married, the marriage is the husband and wife who are united in their lives, and they haven't lived together yet, even if they settle the account, it's boring.

The premise of the home is love, the premise of love is not to care, both men and women, who have surplus, should take out the money to decorate the love nest, so that the home will be harmonious and sweet!

As far as the general marriage customs are concerned, generally the woman brings the dowry, and the man gives the gift money, if the two sides are far apart, then the woman can simply set up the banquet, and the banquet money is from the woman, but the red envelopes sent by the woman's relatives and friends on the woman's side are also owned by the woman's parents, and the formal banquet is the man's side of the wine, and the red envelopes sent by the man's relatives and friends are collected by the man and the woman.

These things are discussed with your husband, and generally the wedding banquet is for the man, and the dowry is for the woman.

The man of the banquet is responsible for the woman's dowry cash It depends on the woman's meaning The banquet is to receive a gift money Generally there will be no loss The hole room can be refused But pay attention to the tone and words.

Yes, marriage is a hole in the house should be refused.

to the man.

The most direct answer is that if the two divorce and the house belongs to the man, the woman can get a little subsidy at most, so even if you also repay the mortgage (this must be evidenced), you can only get a little subsidy at that time, and the woman's decoration things are all cheap, so it is also a waste.

So the best way is to make sure your name is written on the real estate deed, even if it costs anything, you must protect your own interests.

Say my own thoughts, your decoration money might as well give them when you buy a house (to have evidence), the decoration is at least 50,000 yuan, why not be more valuable, add your name to the real estate certificate, and the two can decorate together.

Before getting married, the man and his parents bought a house and paid a down payment, and the real estate certificate says that the man and his parents can go directly to the trading center to apply for the property right certificate and increase the property owner, as long as the handling fee and the cost of work, the key is to.

Add your name to the real estate deed after marriage, and if there is no tax, it is better to add it.

Since it is difficult to make a move, it is always inconvenient to decorate the house into a new house to get married, and it is always inconvenient to live with your parents, and it is easy to have friction after a long time.

Your parents are at fault, the premise that people want to add their daughter's name is very clear, it is half of the house payment, so how can it be called a mother-in-law's thing, if your family has tens of millions of assets, is it worth coveting??? Married life is already a matter for the two of you, as long as you are filial to the old people on both sides after marriage, and then have a son and a half daughter, just live a good life, so, let your mother not mix too much, so that you are not a person inside and out...

Your mother already wants to be in charge now.,I can't tell you what to do with your daughter-in-law after marriage.,Your mother is in charge of too much.,It's not that you don't care at all.,It's that you can't be like this.,People don't want a bride price.,It's interesting enough.,Your family has no money.,And I always want to say Shanglian.。。。 It means that I always want to be superior to others, and only look at the wrongness of others, not my own bad)

Knowing what your parents think, your parents think that the house was bought by your family, and they will not be angry when they live with you in the future, so as not to talk about the house in the future is generally your daughter-in-law's, so how to get along with you after marriage is your business.

It is recommended that you can discuss with your girlfriend that no matter whose name is on the real estate deed now, if the woman's parents pay the money, you and your girlfriend can go to the notary office to notarize the use of the woman's investment and the amount of money. After all, parents all over the world are afraid that their children will suffer. You can also convince your parents to show your filial piety, and make it clear that the woman raised her daughter and paid money, and she always lived your family's life, right?

Passing on the family to your family, right? As long as you work hard and live well, this should be the common wish of both parents!

Of course, it is better to convince both parents and owners to make concessions! You are a boy, suffer more grievances, communicate more, seek understanding, don't let your parents think that you love your girlfriend alone, don't let your relationship be affected because of these things!

If you get married, you must bear the house decoration together! You shouldn't have bought a house in full in the first place.

I also think that you have to have a good talk with your mother The woman's family feels very benevolent and righteous, and she doesn't ask for a bride price, and she also marries a car of 200,000 yuan, and is willing to pay for the house.

You have such a good life, such a good wife and mother-in-law, you hurry up and convince your parents, such a good daughter-in-law must not let people leave with a cold heart.

Communicate this problem with your mother, I think your mother's mentality may intensify the conflict in the future, so communicate with your family well.

Your girlfriend's family has already given in, so let's find a way to convince your mom to do it.

This question is asked, and it is all discussed by one's own people, those who have money should contribute more, those who have no money should contribute more, and there is nothing that cannot be solved.

In fact, there is really no need to make a fuss about these things, whoever comes out is the same, don't worry about these!

Did you get a marriage certificate to buy a house?

If so, it doesn't matter the name, it's half and half.

Half and half, let's discuss.

It's really a slap in the face, may I ask if you are getting married to share the house or live together? The woman's decoration depends on the woman's economic strength, if it is the daughter of a rich man, she even bought a house for you.

Many projects in the renovation will involve multiple responsibilities, which is also prone to disputes in the future.

For example, the hydropower company has walked a section of water pipe on your ground, and the decoration company is responsible for the waterproofing of the ground, and finally the water pipe leaks, and the waterproof is not qualified, and the downstairs is soaked, so who should pay for the loss of the downstairs and the loss of your own home?

It should be agreed in the contract with both parties: the decoration company does waterproofing, as long as the waterproofing is not done, the consequences should be borne by the decoration company, regardless of whether there is a third party responsibility, so the loss downstairs should be compensated by the decoration company. The cost of redoing the waterproofing of the house should be the responsibility of the decoration company, too.

If the water pipes of the hydropower company are leaking, then the water and electricity company should be responsible for the costs of re-knocking the tiles in the home.

Another example: if you buy a switch panel, the electrician is responsible for the installation, and the switch cannot be used in the end, is it a quality problem of the switch itself or an improper installation by the electrician?

It should be agreed in the contract with the electrician that the product purchased by the owner should be confirmed by the electrician before installation to see if there is a problem with the quality, as long as the problem occurs after installation, it will be regarded as caused by improper installation by the electrician.

There are many such examples, and the key is to foresee in advance that all projects involving multiple parties must stipulate the responsibilities of all parties in the contract after the problem, so as to effectively avoid disputes afterwards.

1. Check the plastering of the ceiling and its flatness;

2. Check the condition of the ground and its flatness;

3. Check the plastering of the wall and its flatness;

4. Open and close the entrance door and check its anti-theft function;

5. Check the installation quality of the exterior window, try to open and close the exterior window, splash water on the wall of the exterior window, and check whether there is water seepage in the exterior window;

6. Check the wood material and defects of the wooden door frame;

7. Turn on the faucet to see the water flow and water pressure;

8. Flip the button of the toilet tank to see the water flow in the water tank and whether there is water leakage;

9. Conduct a water pouring test in a room with floor drain to see whether the drain is smooth;

10. Check the installation quality of various pipelines to see whether they are firm and whether there are any skewed, blocked or leakage;

11. Use an electric pen to test whether each socket has electricity;

12. If there are lamps, you can turn on the lamps to see whether they are luminous and whether the switch is sensitive; If the unqualified items and defects are detected, they should be written in detail on paper in duplicate, one copy to the real estate development company, asking them to repair in time, and the other copy should be handed over to the construction team that will contract the decoration project in the future as a reference for their decoration construction.

Hope that helps.

The safety of construction personnel, the quality of the project, the decoration materials, and the construction period of the project should be indicated in the contract between you and the decoration company, and if you don't have it, you must supplement the contract!