At what stage is it better to have children? When is it good to have a child.

This problem is a problem that many young couples are confused about now, some young couples do not want to have children very early, want to play for a few more years while they are young, and do not want to be tied to the child too early, and some want to have a child early but the economic conditions are not enough, unable to pay the high cost of living raising a child.

I have a friend Xiaolong, he fell in love with his girlfriend in high school, at that time was not very sensible, the two of them were often tired of being together, once a gun misfired, her girlfriend got pregnant, at that time my buddy was scared for two days and didn't eat much, and then I thought about going to the hospital to beat it off, and pooled money everywhere, and when the money was enough to take her girlfriend to, his girlfriend was not happy, not to say that she was going to give birth to the child, the child was innocent, no matter how to persuade him.

Xiaolong had to give up this idea for the time being, but it's not a matter to drag it out like this, the child has been for more than a month, it's not good to solve it, and when the time comes, the belly is big, and it's not easy to say it at school, in the case of persuading his girlfriend to no avail, Xiaolong had to tell his parents, but fortunately, Xiaolong's parents are more open-minded.

After thinking about the pros and cons of things, Xiaolong's parents made an appointment with Xiaolong's girlfriend's parents, his girlfriend's father was a soldier and worked in the army, as soon as he heard the news, he couldn't wait to eat Xiaolong, so scared that Xiaolong didn't dare to look at her girlfriend's father, fortunately, Xiaolong's father here is more aware of righteousness and can speak, you have a cup of me at the wine table, and I have a cup of glass, and I am stunned to say that the other party is a family of children and daughters, and I will get married after graduating from college, but the child in my belly still can't be born now, Both parents are people with heads and faces, and for the sake of themselves and their children, they can't stay no matter what.

Under the persuasion of both parents, Xiaolong's girlfriend finally agreed to go to the hospital. After this incident, Xiaolong is better for her girlfriend. has been very affectionate for four or five years, and got married as soon as he graduated from college, because the family's economic conditions are okay, Xiaolong's girlfriend wants a child again, and she gave birth to a baby a year after marriage.

Personally, I think that it is not too early to have children, and now young people are not able to gain a firm foothold in this society if they do not rely on family support, let alone have children, the current society is like this, when they were young, they did not experience the conditions, they worked hard all the time, and the economic conditions were enough when they reached middle age, but the youth also passed. Although this is a pity, we have to accept that if we want to give our future children a better living environment, we have to wait for time to settle.

The best time to have a child is to wait for enough money in your pocket, a nest and a car, a stable career, and maturity, at this time you can have a child, so that parents can also hold their grandchildren as soon as possible.

I think it is necessary to have children at a relatively stable stage, and this relatively stable stage includes: having a stable job, stable income, stable love life, being ready to have children, being ready to become a parent, and being ready for all physical conditions and functions.

In fact, having a child is a very important event for a family, it must be discussed by the husband and wife, and having a child is not so sloppy, when welcoming the arrival of the child, you must prepare everything, at that stage you have prepared everything, so it is best to have a child, and it is also a responsibility to fulfill the responsibility for the child. First of all, you must have a stable job and a stable income. As we all know, having a child and raising a child is a particularly expensive thing, refusing to investigate, raising a child until he walks out of school and into the society costs a million, so when I saw this report at that time, I was surprised, it turns out that raising a child is so expensive, so if it were not for my brother and me, it is estimated that my family would have been a well-off family and a millionaire.

Therefore, if you want to have a child, you must do your best to provide them with the best, give them good living conditions, and give them good educational conditions, and these conditions depend on having a stable job and a stable income.

Then the relationship between the husband and wife should be stable, the stability of the husband and wife is the basis for a child, the moment of the birth of the child needs a warm and harmonious family, the need for all the father's love and mother's love of the parents, the need for parents to play an important role in the child's side, accompany the child to thrive, any husband and wife are not harmonious and the relationship is broken is not conducive to the child, the child's healthy growth of the unfavorable factors.

Finally, it is necessary to be prepared to be a parent, to be able to prepare a baby room for the child, to be able to look forward to the arrival of the child, both parties are in good physical condition, suitable for the baby, the father to prepare for the child, quit smoking and drinking, and the mother can have a suitable ability to have children, and these preparations are not so simple.

In the case that the above things can be prepared, in fact, you are just at the age of about 30 years old, in that stage, whether it is career, relationship, physical function can reach a very good state, this stage to have children is better, more appropriate.

If we are not sure enough about our two-person world, do not have a strong desire for whether to have a child, do not have enough confidence in whether we can raise a child, and are still uncertain about our own destiny and future, in short, we had better not rashly "make" a child of our own before we have enough spiritual and material preparations.

So when is the right time to have a baby?

When the relationship between husband and wife is stable, both parties believe that the other party is the person they are looking for in this life, and both parties have a strong desire to have a child; Both parties feel that it is time to pass on the love they have inherited not only to the other but also to the next generation. Only at this time will it be happy, wise, and unrepentant to have children.

Material couples, interest couples, dew couples, game couples, epidermal couples, gnawing old couples, weak couples, sick couples, baby couples, noisy couples, confused couples, play couples, selfish couples, it is best not to rush to have children. When we plant a tree, we also want it to flourish and bear fruit; When we have a child, can we not take greater responsibility and hope for it? Happy children come from happy couples and happy families.

Whether the husband and wife are happy and whether they can inherit this happiness is something that only the couple themselves know.

In terms of age, men are 26 to 30 and women are 23 to 28, and it is better to have children at this age.

In terms of conditions, when you have a stable income and the basic security of having children, you can have children.

From a family point of view, it is best to let them hug their grandchildren while Shuangbu Shengfang's parents are in good health and reputation.

Seasonally speaking, natural children born in spring and autumn are easier to take care of than children born in winter and summer. Especially when you have a child in autumn, you can eat a lot of fruits, which is conducive to recuperation and recovery.

Emotionally, it's best to have children when you're happy. But it's not okay to drink when you're happy.

In terms of taboos, don't be sick when you're sick, don't when there's something sad at home, don't when the surrounding environment is bad, don't when you don't understand fertility knowledge, and don't be ready to educate your baby to learn first and then ask for it.

Wishing you happiness!

It is better for the child to conceive when you are in a good mood, and don't choose to have a child when you are overworked, which is not good for the child.

Financially! Be safe with your child.

For women, 23 to 30 years old is the best period to have children, this period of women's full body development is fully mature, the quality of eggs is high, if pregnant and born, the risk of childbirth is small, the fetal growth and development is good, and the incidence of premature birth, malformed babies and dementia children is the lowest. If a woman becomes pregnant and gives birth too early, the fetus competes with the developing mother for nutrition, which is not good for the mother's health and fetal development.

Couples in this age group have more life experience, are energetic, and have the ability to raise babies and young children.

It is best to get pregnant in the fall, because the temperature is suitable in the autumn, and the child is generally nine months pregnant, then the birth may be in May or June of the second year, and the child can be vaccinated after three months, because the child is generally vaccinated in the autumn.

Modern people mature early and age quickly. If possible, it is better to have children around the age of 24. This is a very late childbearing age compared to the past. When a girl is 25 years old, some of the organs of the body begin to decline.