Life made me stick to loneliness and live my life as a lonely person

The kind of girl you are talking about is not all, most of them will still consider you as a person first But career is a very important part of a man, if you don't have a career, it is easy to make her insecure, so you should still work hard, as long as you are serious It is not very difficult More importantly, you still have to be a person worthy of love Work hard !

Love is like a butterfly that flies freely.

It's beautiful, but it's also withering very quickly.

There are not many people who can grasp love.

It's like someone who can catch a butterfly.

Hope you catch the prettiest butterfly.

And today, I still proudly say: I have a dream: to return to the homeland of my dreams - China's aerospace.

Haha, that's amazing.

You said that girls nowadays are very realistic and quite rational. Isn't this sentence too absolute? You should know that nothing in this world is absolute, only relative.

At least I'm not. I admire the kind of people who are ambitious and ambitious, but I am quite disgusted with those who are full of copper smell. I believe that there are so many girls like me in the world.

It's just that you haven't encountered it now. And yes. If you have such a lofty ideal, as long as you work hard towards this goal, are you still afraid that you will not succeed?

Are you afraid that you won't have money if you succeed? Won't what you're worried about be solved at that time?

Most people like to be lively, and participate, vent, and perform in the excitement. In this way, you can relieve your inner loneliness and loneliness, or realize one of your wishes. In the bustle, time will pass quietly, and the light and shadow of the years may be as brilliant as an epiphany.

But who can guarantee an eternal hilarity?

After the excitement, it is still lonely and lonely. Loneliness is eternal, and bustle is temporary.

The weak-willed, sinking in solitude, dying.

Those who are strong-willed will cultivate loneliness into a state of life, and it will become a kind of inquiry into life. Debate.

"The first big thing in life is discovering oneself, so one needs to be lonely and meditative from time to time," Nansen said. Therefore, a person with a little thought should keep a loneliness for himself.

To keep a solitude is to save a leisure for yourself. You can use this absolutely selfish time to make yourself a good pot of tea, light a cigarette, or chew a piece of incense to make rolling candy, recuperate your irritable soul in the world, and release all your troubles in loneliness; You can also learn from the ancients' "I am a day and three provinces of my body" and reflect on your own life, work, and interactions. "People who can talk to themselves never feel lonely."

In this way, by keeping a piece of loneliness, you are guarding a sober life space for yourself.

Keep a loneliness, you can watch the flowers bloom and fall, and cultivate a quiet and inactive heart. Quiet as a virgin, beautiful as a delicate flower, warm as jade, so that the soul becomes as clear and transparent as crystal. The ancients admired this kind of realm very much, so Jin Shengxi listed "sitting alone in empty fasting" as one of the "thirty-three happy" things in life.

Loneliness is a nourishment.

Gibran said, "Solitude is the companion of sorrow and a close friend of spiritual activity," and Huxley said: "The greater and more original the pure remnant, the more he prefers solitude." ”

Therefore, keeping a lonely place may also lay a hotbed of thought for yourself.

Zhou Zuoren's life, sitting by the window all day long, a cup of bitter tea, a thread-bound book, a brush, a few pieces of manuscript paper, in loneliness, wrote a series of diluted, timeless aesthetic characters, prose essays in their own style, the achievement of modern literature in the history of unique people. Loneliness, blooming into a flower of thought.

In the same way, many great thinkers, most of them, also give birth to great ideas in solitude.

As an ordinary person, although you can't produce great thoughts, even if a spark of thought bursts out in loneliness, it is gratifying. Thoughts will be everywhere.

People should really keep a loneliness for themselves, and cultivate themselves, cultivate their nature, and think about it.

When you can practice to the point where you can look at a place and think about nothing, you can empty your mind then you are not afraid of loneliness.

After so many years, I have faced loneliness by myself 6 or 7 years of time, and I have learned how to do it, when you adjust your mentality, all your worries can be put down the next day, and you will not be afraid to face it alone. You just have to care about how you do what is in front of you, and you can't think about the past. Occasionally go climb down the mountain to feel the vastness of nature, strong and you can do well.

May you be happy! Thinking about everyone will, the key is who is better, how to make your own thinking better?

First of all, there are three things to pay attention to.

1. Be comprehensive, not one-sided.

2. Look at it from a different angle.

3. Strive to see the essence.

In the same question, compare your own thinking with the thinking of others, find out what you are worse than others, think about why you are worse than others, and then improve.

Keep keeping your solitude going, then you will love yourself more and more. Complete.

When you are lonely, you will read more books and go out more to relax. There is also a two-cow patriarch, see if I can help you.

A buddy came up with a term called "Two Cow Patriarch". When asked what he was referring to, he said that he was referring to the Bull Demon King, the patriarch of the Panxia, and Newton, the patriarch of the celibacy. In other words, what should a man do if he can't find a good woman to marry and start a family???

There are two choices, one is to be a pick-up man and learn from the ancestor of the Bull Demon King; The second is to be celibate for the rest of his life, learning from Newton's patriarch, a modern celibate.

Is there any historical legend for this statement??? How was the status of the patriarch established???

This question reminds me of the "Han-Bai controversy".

I guess you're a middle school student, anyway, I was in Chinese class at the time, and I couldn't learn anything from the cherry socks. The teacher is so bad that he can't read pinyin accurately.

My advice is to do more questions. over

If you don't go home for a few days alone, don't contact friends and relatives, and spend time alone outside the home, you will experience it.

First of all, you have to be interested in it, physics is very interesting, combined with experimental learning, of course, practice should be done more!

Satisfied. Calm.

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COS actor Yang Daxia: Grape wine glow-in-the-dark bottle, this kind of enjoyment is really powerful|Funny.

The glow-in-the-dark bottle of grape wine is a real treat.

I drank it and drank it to the fullest, and I drank a cup to urge my life.

The headache seemed to explode, and the whole body was hot.

Alcohol blending is dark-eyed, and it is a lack of morality to cheat and deceive.

The more I grew up, the more I felt lonely and helpless, only to find that in addition to work over the years, I was a child, and there was no friend around me who could talk to and understand me, and I also unconsciously closed my heart, and I was also cautious in getting along with others.

Those friends around me who think they are sincere have their own lives, and if you want to forget you, you will really be sad for a long time, and you can't let go of your heart for a long time, and then you realize that it is my own people who have too few friends around the bridge, so I cherish it extraordinarily, and others are different.

Seeing that on TV, everyone else has one or several girlfriends in life, and they can go shopping together, play together, and make trouble together, I was so envious that I realized that I couldn't even make friends.

I saw someone else's Douyin saying that I made like-minded friends,**I found out that I was buying things.,I didn't have a friend after paying attention.,Slowly I also found that I couldn't chat.,Friends said that joining the micro-business Shou Yinmeng can also make like-minded friends.,After trying it, I found that others are able to speak.,I haven't known you very well.,I know that's not what I want.,I just want to treat people sincerely.。

I don't know if the iron girlfriend on TV is true or not, I just know that it is too difficult to want a friend who treats you sincerely in life, everyone is busy with work on weekdays, and how much time and energy do you have to maintain friendship when you are busy with children, and it's okay in a city.

It's sad to stay alone, cry secretly, no matter how tired and difficult it is to live alone, sometimes I'm afraid to go to a strange place alone, eat out alone, face a strange environment alone, strange people, but after the end of life, a person comes over, who can always accompany you.

Loneliness is the price of self-avoidance, in fact, everyone will not be lonely, but they must face it bravely: taste loneliness, bitter and unbearable, and loneliness is difficult to compare with coffee, which can be diluted with sugar cubes; Even brewed into sweet drinks. Bitterness is the true taste of loneliness, and a touch of bitterness and sweetness cannot be called loneliness.

True loneliness is a small cup of saturated solution brewed with a whole pot of coffee, and the kind of bitterness that you will never forget after a sip; It was a blackout night, alone in the narrow and empty window, under the swaying candlelight, listening to the bitterness of the wind and rain outside the window; It is even more on the night of the fifteenth full moon, the wind is clear and the moon is high, the night is cold, stepping on the delicate grass with grains of dewdrops, walking alone under the moon, and listening to the bitterness of broken life on the soles of the feet. A lot of suffering creates loneliness. When I am lonely, I play a song on the transverse flute, so that the sad tune flies into the distance, imagining that the minor tune will be mixed with a little joy when others hear it again.

When you are lonely, open the window, let the night breeze support the moonlight, and slowly walk into the heart, so that they can carefully moisten the nostalgia there, which may make the sorrow more mellow and longer. When you are lonely, you walk into the rainy season in March alone, let the rain gently wash the sorrow in your heart, wash it down, and melt into the creamy soil. In the slight rain and mist, he walked slowly.

When Mu Ran looked back, he would definitely find that in the faint and shallow socket of his feet, a tender green little head was poking out, nodding frequently in the breeze and drizzle. Then, it transcends loneliness. Then, I found that the most rare thing when I was lonely was that faint and detached mood.

When a person finds a piece of the sky that temporarily belongs to him, or stands, or lies, or sings, or dances, he is no longer a puppet manipulated by man, and he tastes the pleasure of controlling his feelings by himself. Therefore, when he is lonely, he no longer has a superstitious belief that "men don't flick when they have tears", they cry when they should cry, and after being sad, they are still a tough man; When lonely, Ren wants to be imaginative, galloping thousands of miles, thinking about the past, thinking about the future, and soon the Lingtai will be clear and unstained. Slowly step into the realm of self-forgetfulness; When you are lonely, you can truly understand the profound connotation of "indifferent and ambitious, quiet and far-reaching"; When you are lonely, you are no longer depressed, and you can express your feelings while you are still young.

So, loneliness becomes a song, a song composed by oneself, a poem written by oneself, a poem written by the heart, or a miserable wandering, or a majestic and passionate poem; A play, at first glance, there is no audience, no host, and there is only a scene of soul struggle. Savor the loneliness, there is a bit of taste, but when you are lonely, it is still unbearable to have that unique and bleak feeling. Again the loneliness, it is still that rich bitterness.

A person has a way of life, you think that lonely people are pitiful, but many lonely people feel that this kind of life is very good, loneliness is a state of mind, not a state. Tasting solitude is also a beauty. Loneliness is the price of self-avoidance, in fact, everyone will not be lonely, but they have to face it bravely.

In fact, your situation is better on the contrary, the environment forces you to adapt to colleagues of different ages, and learn, understand and be familiar with different types of people in contact and communication, which is a good condition for exercising yourself, so as not to fall into immature prejudices in groups.

Learn to find your own piece of blue sky, where you can ripple freely.

For example: surfing the Internet, studying, making friends of the opposite sex, outings, frying**, etc.

You can't be alone!

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.