I don t know what to do with this in life

I think you're a shy, introverted and a bit shy boy. It may be due to a genetic problem or an acquired life environment.

You should think that everyone is the same, you don't need to be afraid of communication or whatever, look down on yourself, others don't pay so much attention to your performance, don't worry about your performance, just express what you want to express.

Involuntarily indifferent in front of the person you like, but you are very eager for her to pay attention to you, this should be changed, take it easy, and show that you like it well, otherwise it will be too late to cry if you lose it.

Regarding your addition, I think that a person who does not know how to speak, first of all, you have to speak, don't feel that you are talking nonsense, this is the basis for you to learn to speak, maybe you are thinking about what you need to say, and when you want to speak, others have finished speaking, with the courage to speak, as for the art of speaking, look for more books in this area.

I give you two words: let go, relax.

In fact, the world is not scary, in fact, everyone is similar to you, so be brave and speak.

If you have a good relationship, you can talk about anything and the other person won't mind too much. For example, if you see a tree, you say, "Wow! What an ugly tree, even I have found confidence! "Huh.

As an ordinary friend to chat and say hello, you can express your thoughts very calmly, like a person, you have to say it, snubbing her is snubbing yourself.

If you have this problem, I think you should have a state of hopelessness and confusion about life. At this time, first of all, you must have a particularly good attitude to face such problems. You can think about your parents, your loved ones, think about your parents, and you have the motivation to want to work hard in life.

Thinking that they had no one to take care of them when they were old. The more you think about things, the more you want to work hard to live well, and the more you want to achieve your goals. I found the motivation and direction of my life.

You can think about what caused you to have this. Then solve these reasons, and you can have a better vision of life. For example, because you are not very happy at work, and you feel that you cannot reflect your value in this job.

You always do something that makes it difficult for others, or you can't do it well because people say it's a little thing.

I feel lost in such words. Is it a good idea for someone else's attitude towards you to deny yourself, you absolutely? If that's the case, then you can change jobs.

If you change to another type of job, you may be able to shine like gold when you get to another position. You can reflect your value in your work.

When you have such a state, first of all, you have to affirm yourself and never give up on yourself. Only you affirm yourself first. You guess you can do some things better in life.

will have a good attitude to do those things. In this way, the success rate of what you do will be greater, and you will get your own affirmation and the affirmation of others in doing these things. You can also reap the joy that success brings you, so that you also find all the motivation in life, and you will not worry about why you live and how to live.

My friend told me that all difficulties are temporary. You can't lose faith in life.

No one in this world can take you down but you. If you fall, it's first of all that you've knocked yourself down in your heart. So, don't be afraid of these difficulties.

As long as the spirit does not fall. There is still hope for everything. Isn't it?

Have faith in yourself. I'm sure you can beat it.

But is it that simple? I can't find the right direction, I want to live strongly, maybe what awaits me will be the good life I want. Whether this world belongs to us or not, I don't know, I think now life has disappeared, maybe as a friend said, my online life is greater than real life, in the end, real life is cruel, or Internet life is cruel, I now find that online life is the most cruel beauty.

I think I'm probably too average, no outstanding place at all, lack of self-confidence, don't seem to be very interested in anything, only a little bit of play, but, that meager salary** can withstand this toss, therefore, most of me will hide at home alone and watch TV alone, in order to pass the time, I am bored, too boring, I have nothing to do at work, I have no place to go to home, I am too lazy to do everything, I am also bored, I don't have many friends, I am bored, I have too many friends, I have too many friends, I spend too much money to go out, and I am also bored.

My mind has been struggling, and sometimes I really want to leave, in this hellish place, there is no fun at all, and I have to face those stinky faces every day! Life is not an easy thing, my ability to bear is still strong, I am actually going crazy, only 2 months after I came back, I saw my 、、、 in the face of them

On the road, accompanied by the neon lights on both sides of the road, I thought a lot - reverie, I didn't want to get out of the car for a long time、、、

I once swore that I wanted to pass the fourth level, but now I have no confidence at all, there are always messy things every day that make you lose track of historical data, I really want to leave and let me live a quiet life for a few days, it seems that I still yearn for an idyllic life.

I have lived with them for 2 years, and I have always felt that people who are not in the same world as them, the values of life, the worldview are different, sometimes even opposite, and conflicts are inevitable、、、 maybe I shouldn't care about everything about them, who doesn't have shortcomings? But I think sometimes they go too far. There's so much more that I don't want to talk about here.

Life is not only about poetry and distance, but also about what is in front of you! Cheer up, you may feel that you have no way out, in fact, much worse than you, face the hardships of life with a relaxed mood, there is no problem that cannot be solved, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed, there are just problems that you are willing to face, bravely face life, life will be easy and happy, although bitter and sweet!

It's good to work hard, life is like that.

People sometimes can't find the direction of life, relax and face it easily.

The main reason why people are sick is depression, a person who is happy every day must be very good, you are wrong in a bad attitude, always think that happiness and happiness are given to you by others, and the people who live with you must be very tired, to be honest, happiness and happiness are just a very personal feeling, are just feelings, the feeling is you give yourself to your own, people have to learn to have fun by themselves, there are always things that interest you in this world, but you always choose to ignore it, happy from the heart, Everything is not a problem anymore.

Because you are still growing up (although you are married) and your mentality is not mature, if you can understand and realize that being alive is a kind of happiness, everyone is bumpy, such as losing relatives in **, and his wife stealing people. I got an incurable disease, I lost my eyes, I lost my left hand... Are you still moving?

At least you can still type, aren't you happy I hope you are happy, society is very dark, but there are many people who care about you A lot of people like strange us.

There is a saying:"A drunk person never says he is drunk. "

You'll want to see a psychiatrist to show you're still conscious.

The author thinks you are missing someone to talk to, find someone you can trust and have a good chat If you go to see a psychiatrist, after all, people hold professional diplomas.

When you have free time, it helps to go out to do sports with friends or travel to relax.

The key is to be free and easy for the sake of those loved ones and friends around you.

And the pain comes from your heart!

Start a new life in a different city! *