For a second marriage, should you have children?

Updated on society 2024-06-17
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think it is necessary for remarried families to have children. People who have not experienced remarriage can only speculate on some big truths, such as children are the bond between husband and wife, for example, children are the key to family cohesion, and so on. I will talk about the necessity of having children in remarried families from some of the subtleties of family life.

    Whether it is a remarried family or a first-married family, the decision to have children must be carefully considered. I think the necessary factors are:

    1. The wishes of both husband and wife. When it comes to giving birth to a baby, I think the biggest initiative should be given to the woman. After all, it is a woman who gives birth to a baby, which will bring many physical changes, affect the development and arrangement of the woman's career, and will pay more energy and time.

    Of course, men's opinions are also important. The two parties can discuss it well before they can decide whether to have a baby.

    2. Consideration of economic conditions. economic conditions, this matter also needs to be considered in advance. Although, there is a way to live in poverty.

    The way to live a rich life, but there is a standard for what kind of living standard parents want to give their children. Can families afford this? These questions need to be planned ahead.

    It also includes the cost of taking care of the baby in the later stage, if there is no one who can be responsible for the babycare full-time, then it is also necessary to hire a nanny to be responsible for the child's life. The child's early life is planned by the parents, and the parents need to estimate whether they can provide the child with better conditions.

    3. Whether you can be responsible for your child. Ability to take on parental responsibilities. Some parents give birth to babies and do not raise babies, after birth, do not pay love and energy, see the child is annoying, every day is only to play with their own, do not care about the growth of the child at all, this kind of parents are irresponsible, it is better not to give birth.

    Other than that, it's not necessary. What old people urge, friends persuade, for the sake of marriage relationship, these are all false and useless. Giving birth to a baby is not a tool, it is a responsibility, and it is responsible for the child's life.

    So, I think it's better to have a child of your own, the children can mingle, and we adults just need to try our best to level out a bowl of water.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should have children, so that the relationship between two people can get better and better, and it will also make the marriage of two people more and more stable, and you will get each other's trust.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it should be born, because children are a guarantee for our lives, and we are more motivated when we have children.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Children should be born, because only in this way can the love life of the husband and wife be better guaranteed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on who you meet, and if this person is worthy of your life, then it is also appropriate to have a child for him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    should have children, although it is a second marriage, but two people should also have a child of their own, so that the relationship will get better and better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the relationship between the two is very affectionate, then it is completely possible to have a child, because it is also very fair to the other party.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Very much deserved. As long as the relationship between the husband and wife is very good, then having a child is also a very natural thing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    At this time, it is decided according to the feelings between two people, if the relationship between two people is relatively stable, you can choose to have another child.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It mainly depends on your age, if it is suitable, you can have a child, which will also help your relationship.

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