If a woman doesn t have children, is the second marriage the same as the first marriage?

I have a girlfriend who has a fairly good relationship, she is married, but she has been complaining to me lately, saying that her man is not good enough, not good enough, not atmospheric enough, and she thinks that the two of them have no children anyway, she even told me directly that she wants to divorce her husband and find a rich one again.

I asked her if you want a divorce just because of that? She even said to me confidently that she hadn't had a child yet anyway, even if she was divorced, wouldn't it be the same as her first marriage? And after a period of time, she really got divorced, and after her divorce, many people who had pursued her before actually came to her, and she felt quite confident at this time.

But the men slowly left her. Then one day, she couldn't stand it anymore, and she called a man who had pursued her and asked, "Do you want to marry me?" But she heard that the ** head hung up directly**, she was a little stunned for a while, and came to talk to me.

In fact, this is the reality, even if you don't have children, as long as you have been divorced, it is completely different from the first marriage. You are already far cheaper than before in the eyes of others, maybe he will still fall in love with you, but it is almost impossible to get him to marry you, this is the reality.

She asked me why this was happening. I said to her, "So do you know why, even if you haven't had children, you're divorced and you're not married the first time?" Let me tell you.

First: Even if the man really likes you, then if he wants to marry you, he has to think about a lot of things, including what his friends say about him, what his parents disagree with, and so on. This is what he has to consider, and you are divorced after all, which is completely different in the eyes of many people, and it is absolutely impossible to compare with a woman who is married for the first time.

Second: All men know that if you have been divorced, then it means that either you have a problem or your ex-husband has a problem. In that case, if someone else is going to get married, why not just consider marrying a woman who is married for the first time?

In case you divorced because of your problems, how can he guarantee that he will be happy after he marries you?

Third, I think most men know that since you have been divorced once, then you will definitely be good at comparison. Even if he marries you, then he must know, and you will definitely compare him to your previous husband. And you let your first marriage fail because your husband was not rich enough, so you divorced, so if you met a richer man, would you choose to divorce again?

It's different, the second marriage and the first marriage are not determined by whether you have children or not, even if you are married for the second time and have never had children, it is still different from the first marriage, and you have no vision of marriage.

That's not the same, there is an essential difference between not being married and being married. Anyway, it doesn't affect men much, but it really makes a big difference for women. Even sometimes I feel that the reason why women who are married for the second time have a bad time is because they hastily marry the person who married the first marriage.

It doesn't matter if you have children or not, it has nothing to do with whether you are married or not.

Of course it's different. The first marriage is the original couple, but the second marriage is not, and the second marriage will have a lot of contradictions.

It's not the same. The psychological feelings of each person in the second marriage and the first marriage are different, and the second marriage will have a psychological line of defense.

Children born in the first marriage of the second marriage belong to the second child. Remarriage and meeting the following conditions can have a second child:

1. The remarried couple has only one child;

2. One party has never given birth, and the other party has given birth to a child before remarriage;

3. One party has never given birth, and the other party has given birth to two children before remarriage.

The relevant procedures for the second marriage and childbirth certificate are as follows: Address: The household registration of the newborn child should be handled at the household certificate department of the local police station of either parent within one month of the child's birth; The handling materials are as follows:

1. One copy of the baby's birth medical certificate, the original of which will be verified;

2. One copy of the parents' marriage certificate, ID card, and household registration booklet, and the original copy shall be verified;

3. One original copy of the family planning certificate issued by the family planning work agency of the street where the household is to be registered;

4. If one child is born within the policy, the mother's family planning service certificate shall be provided; If a second child is born within the policy, one copy of the second child birth approval form shall be provided, and the original shall be verified;

5. For more than one month of declaration, submit one original certificate that the baby has not entered the household with one of the parents in another city or county.

Article 17 of the Population and Family Planning Law of the People's Republic of China Citizens have the right to give birth and the obligation to practice family planning in accordance with the law, and both husband and wife have joint responsibilities in the practice of family planning.

Article 18: The State advocates age-appropriate marriage and childbearing, and eugenics. A couple can have three children. Where the requirements provided by laws and regulations are met, arrangements may be made to arrange for the birth of another child.

The specific measures shall be formulated by the people's congresses of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government or their standing committees. Ethnic minorities should also practice family planning, and the specific measures shall be formulated by the people's congresses of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government or their standing committees. Where there are inconsistencies between the provisions on the reproduction of children between the provinces, autonomous regions, or municipalities directly under the Central Government where the husband and wife are registered, they are to be applied in accordance with the principle of benefiting the parties.

Article 21 Couples of childbearing age who practice family planning shall enjoy free family planning technical services for the basic items prescribed by the State. The necessary funds provided for in the preceding paragraph shall be included in the financial budget or guaranteed by social insurance in accordance with the relevant provisions of the State.

It is said that the woman belongs to the second child, and the man belongs to the first child. According to the previous family planning policy, it was also permissible to give birth. Now the policy encourages more births, and there is no distinction between the first child and the second child.

Of course not, because the other party is the first marriage, so your child does not belong to the second child.

It's pretty much the same, the key is to see how the two of you go in the future, you get along well, and the one in front is just memories. If the two of you are not doing well, then the crisis is great.

I think getting married without having children and getting divorced is actually the same as falling in love, but it's just an extra piece of paper, if your family can accept it, most people in this society don't care about two marriages.

Of course it will be different.

The first mindset and experience is very rich.

To be honest, ordinary little boys can't control it.

Secondly, it will be more realistic to look at the problem, and will not be addicted to love like a little girl.

Marry a second-married woman.

Never had a child.

Is it the same as getting married?

This one is basically the same.

Because as long as a woman gives birth to a child.

The focus is on the child.

Some find a man.

Just for the kids.

Didn't have children. And then have one with my current husband.

I'll live my life wholeheartedly.

1: You are a "second marriage" man is a "first marriage" to relatives and friends, where does he put his face? A man wants to save face, no matter how much he likes you, he will not choose to marry you. Except, of course, for a few men, most of which are discussed here.

2: Many women in "second marriage" are more realistic, after a failed marriage, they are no longer thinking about emotional problems, but reality, and money accounts for a large proportion, because they know what to do in case of divorce to ensure that they suffer the least loss. It doesn't matter if the woman who is married for the first time has not gone through this.

3: The "first marriage" woman is a blank piece of paper, and the "second marriage" woman is a piece of paper that has been erased with a memory of the past, and no matter what is written on this paper, she will compare it with the past. 

It's definitely different, but no matter how many marriages the other party is, since you are willing, then you should treat others well, rather than talking about the other party's marriage.

It's not the same, there is experience in second marriage,

The need varies from person to person, if the woman in the second marriage works harder, you can go down together, then choose, marriage is a major event with a person who lives a mess, so you should consider it carefully.

1. Is it considered a second marriage if you have given birth to a child and have never been married?

1. It is not considered a second marriage. Marriage is subject to registration, and as long as you do not go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the marriage registration procedures, you are not legally husband and wife. After the marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, according to the agreement between the man and the woman.

Because marriage is subject to registration. As long as you do not go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the marriage registration procedures, you are not legally husband and wife.

2. Legal basis: Article 8 of the Marriage Registration Regulations.

Where both men and women make up their marriage registration, the provisions of these Regulations on marriage registration apply. The organs for marriage registration for mainland residents are the people's civil affairs departments at the county level or the people of townships and towns, and the people of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government may, in accordance with the principle of convenience for the people, determine the specific organs for marriage registration for rural residents. The organs for marriage registration between Chinese citizens and foreigners, mainland residents and residents of the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region, hereinafter referred to as Hong Kong residents, Macao Special Administrative Region residents, Macao residents, Taiwan residents, hereinafter Taiwan residents, and overseas Chinese shall be the civil affairs departments of the people's governments of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government, or the civil affairs departments of the people's governments of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government.

2. Do children who do not have a marriage certificate have to be fined?

A child born without a marriage certificate is considered illegitimate and is subject to a fine, i.e. social maintenance. According to the law, the standard for levying social maintenance fees for non-marital births is as follows: "For the parties who give birth to their first child out of wedlock, they shall be levied at one time of the annual per capita disposable income of urban residents or the annual per capita net income of rural residents announced by the municipal statistics department, so it depends on the local per capita income."

1. Lack of energy.

Everyone's energy is limited, and many women continue to work in order to remain financially independent rather than choose to become housewives after marriage. Therefore, for a married woman with a career, the rest of her job, other half, and life are children, so many married women will get more lessons after getting married, for the sake of the child, the divorced woman has given all her energy to this child, and the daily expenses of the child and the divorced woman who will accompany the child in the future will plan well. After planning, if the other half wants to have another child, the second married woman will feel that one child distracts the rest of the energy and does not have the energy to have another child.

So she doesn't have the energy to take care of it, and she won't want other children.

2. The economy is not enough.

Today, women can make up half the sky, but most of the time, most women are still weaker than men when it comes to making money. The monthly income is barely enough to support himself. If the child is still young, it will definitely affect her work.

How much does it cost to raise a child now? Parents with children should be well aware. In addition, the stress of raising a child comes not only from the present, but also from the future.

When the child grows up, he wants to go to school, fall in love, and get married. Besides, she's just a woman. So generally speaking, in addition to insufficient ability, most of these women are not graduates of prestigious schools, have no specialties, and have average family conditions.

Not to mention a full-time wife who doesn't work or even work.

3. Feeling guilty.

No matter what happens between the parents, the child is innocent. If a divorced woman has a child, and the child is born to herself and her ex-husband, then the separation of the two people is the biggest harm to the child. Bitter is still a child.

As a mother, a woman who remarries will not be able to bear the pain of her own children. She also knew that there was no way to give her a complete family. Both parties have a lot of responsibility and feel guilty about the children.

Thus, the second married woman has a new family and the other half has children. Because of this guilt, the second married woman does not want to have another child, because they know that they cannot give the child a complete family that affects the child's growth and psychology.

There is already a doll, so in order for this doll to be happy and happy, he doesn't want to have another baby, after all, the second doll will take away part of the love that originally belonged to him.

Because giving birth hurts the body. Giving birth to a child is like passing through the ghost gate, and having a child in a second marriage is like completing the task of childbirth, so many women are reluctant to have children.

Women in second marriage usually have already given birth to children, so having children will have to go through a wave of torture, so they are reluctant to have children.