The person you love and the person who is suitable for marriage, what kind of lover is suitable for

Each of us will return to reality. That is, the one who gets married is not necessarily the one you love the most, but it must be a reality that is suitable for life.

I have been in the love circle for several years, and I have established a certain social network, work circle, fun circle, circle of friends, etc.

At this time, he gradually let go of his illusions about love, cooled down his impulse for love, and began to seriously set various conditions to choose women.

Because of some of the requirements you have for the other party, you will find that fewer and fewer women can enter your world, women who are better than you are afraid of being tired, and women who are lower than you you do not like.

Just as no two leaves are the same in the world, you will find that it is difficult to meet a person who is very compatible with you inside and out.

Faced with the ups and downs of several loves, you are afraid of repeating the mistakes of the past, you don't want to do it again, because in the end it is still empty, and when you think of this ending, your heart has already begun to get tired.

My friend later said: When you are not married, you will never know who is the one who will accompany you all the way to the people you say you love. When you get married, you will find that the person who accompanies you all the way may not be the one you love, but the one who loves you.

I've always thought that falling in love is not the same as getting married, and of course I don't mean that falling in love ends up in nothing. If you have to make an analogy between the two, it is like the difference between the ideal and the reality. When it comes to falling in love, you should be with the person you love the most, as if I don't want anything in this world, just love, this is the ideal.

And marriage is to return to peace, pay attention to stability, and the future days are also based on the family unit, which is a reality.

If you can only choose one of the people you love and the people who are suitable for marriage, my experience tells me that you still have to find the person who is suitable for you to marry. Life is like this, when you are young, you will give up everything, you have to be with the person you love, but the tempering of life will make you understand in the end, it turns out that love can not be eaten, and it is impossible to be in full swing for a lifetime, when you have experienced the shelf life, the realistic side will be revealed, and then you will know how important it is to find a person who is suitable for you.

To be suitable for marriage, people must first have good character, a sense of responsibility, self-motivation, and a certain emotional foundation to get married. Here's why.

1, the long and trivial married life is the most test of human nature, the other half of the character is good, even if he (she) will do something to hurt you, it will not be too much, and afterwards will feel guilty and find a way to compensate you, if the other party is of inferior character, then it will hurt you without a lower limit, and will not feel guilty and regret for what you have done.

2, a responsible person will be responsible for the family, responsible for the lover and children, the marriage sedan section is not like falling in love, two people in love are not suitable to start a new life separately, marriage will involve many people, especially after having children, responsible parents will protect children from a lot of harm.

3. A self-motivated lover can improve the quality of life of the family. In addition to the above conditions in marriage, the lover has a stable mood, a sense of humor, etc., which will also make the family atmosphere full of warmth. In short, marriage is not a matter of one thing, let alone child's play, we should be cautious and cherish it.

4.It is necessary to choose someone who has an economic foundation, that is, a stable job and a stable income, and you must not look for someone who has nothing to do. Whether you are interested in life or work, you must be proactive, so that the other party can see the future and have the confidence to live with you.

5. See if the other party likes to spend money, of course, there are two situations, if the money is spent on the other party, it means that you like the other party very much, and it is worth relying on the cherry sail as soon as possible, if you spend the money on yourself, it is not very reliable. Of course, what kind of person is suitable for marriage depends on a lot, mainly to see how to solve the conflict between the two, whether there is tolerance, whether the housework will be shared together, and so on.

Hello friend, is the person you love the most suitable for marriage? If it is the person you really love the most, it also depends on how the other party behaves to you, if the other party doesn't like you, of course, it is not suitable for marriage, love is two-sided mutual, if it is unilateral, it can only be one, 10 years and not suitable for living together, living together, you need firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and marriage must be suitable for yourself.

It means that you have to live with each other for the rest of your life, and two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and we also want to avoid being with someone who doesn't fit us.

Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if there is a good emotional foundation between each other, it will make us more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage, and we will feel that with each other, even if life is not easy, it will not be so difficult, so that each other will go together for a longer time.

Don't be with someone who hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, it's irresponsible for both of them. Maybe the other party just has gratitude and gratitude to you, but this feeling is not love, don't let this feeling be mistaken for love. After all, life-saving straw is only useful at the moment of need, and it is not needed after being rescued.

Touching is only temporary, feelings are lifelong. Touching without an emotional foundation is not love.

Love is also unfair, don't think that you are good enough, you are good enough personally, so you will definitely win the other person's heart. Love is mutually attractable, it will not make the other person attractive to you just because you are good to the other person, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how good you are in front of someone who doesn't love you, it doesn't mean anything to him.

Marriage is serious, it must be well thought out, and don't let yourself regret it because of the impulse. A person's life itself is a difficult practice, and feelings are not a necessity, we must gain and lose, after all, we can never have both. Therefore, do your own trouble, do not lose yourself, do not lower your self-standards, love yourself first, and then someone will love us.

I also hope that people who love each other can be together in the end and have a good outcome.

The right lover gets married together, I think it's more about the relationship between the two of them, or the three views of the personality are very harmonious, the right lover can be happy and last for a long time when they are together, and Li Zhixin has the motivation to live a round together.

Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other with round hands. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if we have a good emotional foundation with each other, we will be more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage.

If you don't share the same goals, you won't be able to go long-term, and marriage will be white-headed and old.