Will you choose someone who is suitable for marriage or choose someone you love?

I see this question this way, true love must be pleasing to both sides, if it is only one-sided like must be imperfect.

First, find one you like, and you will feel happier in your heart

In love, it seems that everyone will no longer be so rational, and will be dominated by sensibility, find someone you like, maybe you want to laugh when you see her, be happy when you see her, and feel happy when you listen to her, but it is not necessary if she is unhappy, and there will be the possibility of giving you a green hat.

Second, find someone who likes you, and you will enjoy the same treatment as a king

In the hearts of people who like you, you are the king and the center, and there must be for you everywhere in life, and you are hurt everywhere, but although he did this, you may not be happy! So he treats you like a king, but you don't necessarily feel like a king.

Third, true love is the joy of two loves

In life, when you are confused, the person you like can't get, and you don't like it, please don't think about it, and strive to improve yourself is the king, what you like must not be if you can't meet the standard in her heart, so hard work will win you a lot, and you will get a beauty.

Choose someone who loves you, and if you don't love someone else, you are living in someone else's heart. In this life, if you don't have much charm and chance to change the other party and all this to make you like it, then you are destined to live for others for the rest of your life - really tired! How stupid! That's a choke!

Choose the person you love, even if the other party didn't love yourself at the beginning, but you are living for your own heart, after all, it is much easier to change yourself than to change others, I believe that you can change yourself for yourself, this is the throat of fate, your whole life for your heart to live - really happy! How clever! It's heartwarming!

If there is a meeting point between the person who likes you and the person you like, even if it is late, it is a successful love and a worthy pursuit.

The meeting point of love depends on the efforts of both parties。With someone who likes you, you have no interest in being the protagonist, you have to solve the problem of how to make the other person love you and accepted by you, you can give the other person a hundred suggestions, but it is difficult to control the other person.

People who are suitable for marriage, such people can go further, we still have to be with this kind of people, they are more able to live life, and they are more concerned about the overall situation of the family.

I don't want to regret it later. I will choose someone who is suitable for marriage and who I love, and I am not willing to settle.

I think choosing a person who is suitable for marriage can make life easier, because when you choose someone you love, you will give a lot because you love him, and because you are very affectionate, you will make yourself miserable. Therefore, only when you live well can you be good to others, and only then can you live happily.

It's more important to live a suitable life than to like it.

1. Firewood, rice, oil and salt will dilute the vigorous love and annihilation. Suitable means that the other party has a lot of merits that are suitable for marriage.

When you have experienced many relationships and have rich emotional experiences, you will find that in fact, getting married is to find a suitable person to live with.

Marrying to life can cultivate love, and marrying love will die in life.

It's like if you go east and west, it's a choice, and then there will be different experiences. In my experience, people who have experienced marriage will choose yes, the reason is that what you love now, it does not mean that you will love when you are old, and you will not love now, and you will live with someone who is suitable for you, and in the end, you are not used to life if you are not love.

2. Over time, two people will become a habit after being together for a long time, feeling like relatives, unable to leave each other, love is not common in marriage, if it is me, I think I will find a suitable person, because I myself do not believe in love, since I think the role of love in marriage is not as important as the Mo tacit understanding between two people together, I have seen many people in life think that they have found true love, desperate to marry with joy, and jump into it alone but end up very unhappy,. Life is different from TV series, there are too many things to consider, find someone who doesn't hate being nice to you to marry, and there will be surprises when you get along slowly.

And if you meet someone who can make you feel at ease to get married, then it means that you are very sensible, because there are very few people who can share the ups and downs with you, and you can clearly distinguish the difference between marriage and a sleepy lover, the person you love may not be able to give you happiness, and the person who loves you may not be liked. Happiness is unattainable, fate is fleeting, the key lies in your rational choice, if you can choose soberly, then congratulations on you are happy in this life, if you want to choose the person you like, then in this life you have to have the determination to pay for each other. Happiness is bland.

For me, I hope to meet the right person to get married, and the right person can be happier when he gets married.

I think I should choose someone who loves you, so I think I will be happier and more secure, and if I choose someone I love, it will make me feel very insecure.

The ideal state is to find someone you love and he loves you, and if you can't do that, find someone who loves you, because then you will be spoiled every day.

You should choose someone who loves you, because with someone who loves you, you can live a very relaxed and happy life.

You should choose people who like you.

It is a good choice to find someone who likes you to spend the rest of your life, if you are in love, I may choose to find someone you like, because after all, it is youth, I don't want to leave regrets for myself, I dare to chase what I like, even if there is no result, I have to fight hard, even if it is perfunctory, I want to be brave for myself.

But the matter of getting married is related to your own future, and in the second half of your life, as a woman, you must find someone who loves you, so that you will reap happiness, but if you are a boy, you must choose a person you like.

Select

1. What really makes a person satisfied and happy is to give rather than take, a long-term and beautiful relationship is indispensable to love and be loved, two people give and receive from each other, and there will be a perfect interaction in marriage.

2. Whether it is suitable for marriage or not, you can't just look at each other's conditions, as long as you don't love each other, no matter how good the conditions are, it is not suitable. Of course, it is not enough for two people to love each other, but also to understand whether each other's values are the same, whether two people are willing to compromise and judge each other's differences, and whether they communicate and repair their relationship in a timely manner when encountering contradictions and conflicts.