Is it better to marry the person who loves me the most or the person I love the most? Why?

It's best to be happy with each other, but it's too rare. Love itself can't withstand the test of marriage, let alone the real world. The so-called mutual affection only appears in **, and it may exist in reality, but it is only a very few.

If it were me, I think it would be better to find someone who loves me to marry, you know that he loves you, and if you love him, the marriage will be happy.

Choose someone who loves you, of course. Feelings can be cultivated, and only when the other party loves you, you may slowly like this marriage. If it's always your own unilateral effort, and the other party doesn't respond to anything. Sooner or later it is painful.

In fact, this problem is also very simple, there are very few people who are really happy with each other as soon as they meet, and the feelings are slowly cultivated, and the vast majority of marriages are basically that both parties feel that each other is not bad and can live a good life. If it is a man, it is recommended to find a person you love to marry, because the attribute attached to a man in marriage is responsibility, and a man will do his best to fight, maintain, and pay only for what he likes, the easier it is to get it, the easier it is for men not to know how to cherish, so from the perspective of a good marriage, it is recommended that men find a woman you love. If it's a woman, it's recommended to find a man who loves you.

If the marriage partner loves you the most and the person you love the most, it will be the most satisfying, but real life is still full of various situations and regrets! I believe that there are relatively few couples in the world who really love you and the person you love the most, if you can't be perfect, it's better to find someone who loves you, and you will be happy.

Because many of us, throughout our lives, may not be able to be with the people we love the most. Therefore, when you meet a suitable person and two people get along slowly, it may not be that there will be love. On the contrary, if two people love each other very much, but they often quarrel because they are inappropriate, or there are many contradictions in the three views, then no matter how deep the love is, it will slowly wear away, and even resentment will arise.

Therefore, when two people are together, the most important thing is to be suitable. It would be even better if there was love in the right circumstances.

I feel that what I like is the best, I like it will be cherished and treated, and I will live a long-term life, if I meet someone who likes myself, as long as the other party is sincere, one day I will feel myself, and I will be felt by the other party's persistence! Now we are looking for the rest of our lives, not to live together, and we will marry someone who smiles at you for the rest of our lives.

I didn't fall in love before I got married, I barely had a crush, and I liked a male classmate at work since I was 14 years old, but I coaxed him, so he never knew. When my male classmate got married, I secretly felt a heartache. Later, when I met my current husband, I realized that it was a very happy thing to be loved by a man.

Later, after getting married, I was pulled into the group of classmates in the class, and then I looked at the boy back then, his appearance was no longer my thing, and I felt that his language was a bit vulgar, and it was completely incomparable with my husband. So it's better to find someone who loves you.

I haven't met yet, but I got married.

My current lover is not the person I love the most, but I feel that I don't feel pressure with him and I am happy in life, so it is enough. Many people often ask if your marriage partner is the one they love the most, and many people say that it is not necessarily the one they love the most, but it is good if they don't hate it. Now many older men and women are left behind, and in the end, they just find a similar general.

It seems that it is not so important whether the person you love the most or not, the important thing is that he or she is the person you love the most in the days after marriage. I always believe that two people can have love over time, two people get along for a long time, they will have strong feelings for each other, if two people who love each other are separated for a long time, no matter how deep the feelings will slowly fade over time.

Marriage is different from love, those who once loved before marriage died and lived, and kept saying that she would not marry, and he would not marry, but only after getting married did they find all kinds of incompatibility, and after living together for a period of time, they found that there were many problems with each other. After getting married, I am more faced with the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, there are not so many ups and downs, and I am faced with some annoying trivial things every day. The passionate love between the two finally died out in the vulgar daily life of marriage.

The person you love the most is not necessarily the most suitable person to marry you. What you need most about marriage is not passionate love, but being comfortable with each other. The one who can understand and tolerate each other together and live together is the best.

Marriage is a responsibility, a mutual companionship between two people. If you meet the person you love the most, and the person who loves you the most, and you are the right person for each other, then congratulations on meeting the right person. But most people can only choose the one that suits them best.