My husband has been dead for 11 months, and I still can t let go of him and miss him very much, what

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
57 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    After all, when people are gone, you have to be fine. Your husband will be happy when he sees you, he will be happy, people are like this, maybe one day it will be gone, I can understand how you feel now, very helpless and tired, but you also have to cheer up, you have to cheer you up, you have other relatives, they don't want to make you uncomfortable, right, so you have to come on!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The dead are dead, the living have to continue, you just don't know if you think about him anymore! So let's be strong and live well! If there's a suitable one, find another partner! Forget about him, it's useless to think about it more!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Go to the grave to see him, and then make offerings to him every day and talk to him! Or you can find another one.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone has a day when they are old, including you, so don't dwell on grief, it will ruin you and give you time. It's good to take it slowly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is human nature, people have feelings, it is certainly impossible to forget it all at once, birth, old age, sickness and death are normal, do more things yourself, try to let go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My husband has just been gone for 11 months, and I really can't let go of it, and I miss it very much, but if you want to think that someone has passed away, no matter how you think about it, you can't get it back? You have to relax, and you have to come out of the shadows slowly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You and him have ended their fate in this life, and you have to let go no matter how reluctant you are, and you have to go on, and you have to go on, look forward, it will be painful to live in the past for too long, and it is not good for the body, the spirit, and life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you can't let go, you can't let go, you don't have to let go, and the days spent together won't disappear, it's a valuable experience.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How old are you? If you are young, you can meet new and wonderful men. It is possible to understand the personality, temper. Find a man who is compatible. Consider another relationship. will come out of the last relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's go, people can't be resurrected after death, cheer up and meet a better tomorrow.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It takes three years. There is no hurry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't try to forget, there are some things that you can't forget, keep it in your heart. Don't suppress yourself too much I don't want your important person to be so sad, although I can't understand your feelings, and I don't dare to say that my important person left me, I'm not sad, but I hope you can be strong

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My husband also left on October 31st, and I spend every day in pain! I don't think there's any point in living anymore! I think about him every day!

    He didn't leave a word and left, he was only 48 years old! As time went on, I missed him more and more, and I didn't even know what to do in the future!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I want him to look at his previous footage.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Go out for a walk, travel, and after a while, feel better, and then let your girlfriend introduce you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People can't be resurrected after death, this is very realistic, and your thoughts can only be buried in the deepest part of your heart, let time fade all this, ask your girlfriends to travel and vacation for a while, or go out with your current boyfriend or husband to relax, so that happy times can change you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Live a good and happy life in the future Your lover also hopes that you will live a good life underground! Keep him in my heart forever!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To be honest, bai is a day husband and wife hundred days, du said that forgetting that zhi is not an easy dao

    After all, he has left you, and what you really have to do is to live every day well and not disappoint your deceased husband. Although you miss him very much, but the relationship between you is very deep, you have to forget him, how easy it is to say, you can only pin your thoughts about your husband on other things, and shift the goal, only in this way will you feel a little better in your heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no greater mourning than death. For a lost lover when never able to come back, except.

    The endless sorrow, as well as the indescribable pain in my heart, and even more sad is that I can't forget it. I didn't want to forget it, so I temporarily hid him in a corner of my heart. Because he is gone forever, you want to have your new life, if you are not happy, your husband who is gone has a knowledge, you must not want his lover to suffer because of him.

    I saw in an essay that two people who love each other are happiest to go first, because the rest will suffer alone. But think about it, you still have a lot of things to do, you still have a lot of tasks to complete, you still have to have your new life, an article is over, you have to start to rewrite a new chapter with your own heart, for your husband, you should be worthy of it, because you accompanied him to the end of life. Therefore, for the sake of your love, the rest of your life must be happy!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not that you want to forget him, put him in your heart, go to worship during the winter solstice of Qingming Dynasty, usually you live your own life, he also hopes that you can live happily, I don't want you to be immersed in memories and pain every day, the people are gone, and the living people still have to continue to live.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, we must recognize the reality, and the people of the past should stop thinking like this. Usually contact and communicate more with relatives and friends, participate in more social activities, distract yourself, and after a long time, it will be fine.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't know how old you are now, how long after you got married, your husband died. Since they are all married, they must already have feelings before they get married, how can they say forget it. It is only up to time to dilute this relationship, and it is recommended that you go out and walk more and do more things you like.

    Hope you can come out soon.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Starting your own new life, your husband doesn't want you to miss him every day and miss the rest of your life, and living every day is the best comfort.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think there's any need to forget him, it's okay for you to keep him in your heart, how can you forget him if you love him so much? I think you can take someone to heart while accepting him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First of all, I sympathize with you, the couple is very affectionate, but you have to live for yourself, life has to go on, and if you can live happily, your husband will be happy in heaven. The best way is to start another family, so that you can share your pain, and slowly forget about him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's a good thing that you can't forget, it means that you value love and righteousness, there is nothing more precious in this world than true love, but we all have to look forward, we have the old, the young, the living, should be stronger to live, is to give greater comfort to the deceased, I hope your life is better and better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think you need to deliberately forget him, because the more you do this, the more you can't forget him. You should understand that he also wants you to have a better life in the future. So be strong and look forward!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your husband has passed away, and you miss him very much, in fact, you don't need to forget him at all, because it is very, very difficult to forget someone, you just need to miss him in your heart.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is normal to miss a person who loves you, and it is recommended that as long as you work more, you should live for yourself. Only if you live better, your husband can also be pleased.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then I can only tell you to please mourn, although such words are only one-sided, your husband's death must be the result of unwanted, there will definitely be misses, rest assured, let it go slowly. Time will fade.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can't forget this thing, only you can accept it, as long as you accept this fact, you can get good psychological comfort. For example, he will be kept in the heavenly spirit.

    Bless your children. You can persevere in finding something to do, and after a long time, you will feel a little less or some satisfaction, so that you feel that life can go on.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You don't have to forget about him, he will always live by your side. You're just living in his shadow.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's impossible to forget, you can only let the time slowly fade, spend more time with family and friends, force yourself to participate in more social activities, and let yourself devote yourself to a larger environment, and slowly fade away.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hurry up and come out of your grief, the person is no longer there, no matter how sad and sad you are, he can't come back, I want to open up. Make more friends, and slowly forget about it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The death of people who have lived together is worth mourning, but materialism believes that the dead can never be resurrected, and promised to focus on the health of the living, the health of the child, and the health of oneself can calm the dead person, otherwise if you keep having heartache, then the dead person does not want this, if you think about it like this, it will be indifferent. Put your mind at ease. My husband is going to enjoy the blessings, and you are worthy of your husband if you live well.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I don't think you can always look back on the past, your relationship must be beautiful, but you also have to look forward, whether you should be looking for a safe haven, and you may forget if you have a shoulder to lean on.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It is impossible to forget, and if you have gone, you will put him in your heart, and those who are alive will continue to walk.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    By the way, live a good life, raise your children, and live a good life to comfort his soul in heaven! Rest in peace for the dead and strong for the living! Children are your sustenance! Use time to heal the wounds, maintain this sustenance and thoughts, and find someone who loves you to live with again!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Return to the truth, face the reality, people can't be resurrected after death, face the facts calmly, pack up your mood to welcome a new life, and believe that there will be someone who is destined to spend the rest of your life with you!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This is a natural and man-made disaster! Fate is over.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Poor woman ......

    Look at your child,,, you have to be strong.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Think about it, think about your kids

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Condolences! Be strong and have a good time with your children.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Mourning, for the sake of the child to be strong.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's been a month since your husband passed away and you miss him so much, is there any way for you to see him? There is no way to do this, it must be that your husband has just died, and it is normal for you to miss him, which also shows that your husband also loved you very much when he was alive, and he also loved you very much, and you will miss you so much after your husband dies. He will be so sad, you miss your husband so much, you can take a look at your usual **, you can also go to the places you often go to have a look, recall your past, so that if you are still in a bad mood, then you can go out for a walk, go to play elsewhere, or go to get together with friends, after a long time, you will definitely put your husband down, people who can't live always miss the dead You have to plan for yourself, for your own children.

    Don't always think about him, after all, people can't be resurrected after death, you still have to live your own life, that's the most important thing.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    People should live in the present, not in the past. He is in the spirit of heaven, and he will also want you to live a better life, instead of living in grief all day long, don't you say? And do you have any children? How old are you?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Please mourn by the way, I believe that if your husband is in the spirit of heaven, he will always watch over you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It is impossible to change the festival mourning.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I can't see it anymore, so control yourself.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    How long after my husband dies can I go out to work?

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    On December 18, 2018, my husband died of a sudden heart attack, the baby in my womb was only five months old, and the newlywed was only more than a year old, and my husband was just 32 years old...I don't know what to do, I miss him very much, and I don't dare to release my emotions yet, for fear of affecting the baby in my belly....Especially I blame myself, if he says it's uncomfortable I insist on taking him to the hospital, maybe he won't leave me, I especially hope that he can wait for me, when I see him and say sorry to him, I love him very much...

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's been more than a year since my husband died, my daughter and son-in-law drove me away, and we bought the house ourselves, and I broke off the relationship if I didn't move.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The painful happiness can't go on, the child is too young, I really can't rest assured that the child can't be relieved, otherwise I will go with my husband, so that the painful life every day is more sad than death, what to do, the thoughts of suicide are getting heavier and heavier.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Although everyone says that the deceased should be reincarnated as soon as possible and avoid the suffering of wandering, I still selfishly hope that my husband can wait for me to go down. Just wait for me for a few more years, and when the child is older, I will save some more money, and I can follow him away without any worries. It's been almost 72 hours since he left me, and I'm just like a year, and I really can't stand it.

    The whole heart is blocked, and I can't breathe. Go and collect the things he used in his life and burn them for him, and in the house, you can think of him when you see anything. There is a shadow of him, but there is no longer him in this world.

    Why can't you turn back time, if I can I pay all my price. Can my husband wait for me? Or when I went down, he was no longer there, or he drank Meng Po soup and no longer remembered me.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Yes, what we commonly call "Halloween" is "Ghost Day" on the ghost side

    See you once a year and be with you silently, even if you don't even know he exists. You may think it's ridiculous, but if you believe it, she'll know you've been missing him.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    My husband also died suddenly on the night of January 25, 2019, without saying a word, died of a heart attack, I gave me cardiopulmonary resuscitation at the time, and then went to the hospital without rescue, every day and every moment I was recalling that I felt that the end of my time had come,

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    My husband didn't get it on October 2, 2018, I'm really sad, and I have two children, my husband cried when he was about to breathe, he was so reluctant to give up this home, and my heart is very uncomfortable now.

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