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Anonymous users2024-02-11It is important to master the skills of speaking, and it is suitable for both adults and children.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10The usual speaking skills of people in the city are to say words of gratitude to leaders and words of good wishes to colleagues.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Buy a book called "Dale Carnegie's Way to Success", which has everything you want to know, and this book is a shortcut to success! That's great! If you can't have him, you'll regret it for the rest of your life!
We're not short of money, it won't be harmful to buy it, it's a rare opportunity, did anyone tell you about this book? I don't think so. It's a pity!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Talk more and communicate more, go out in public more, watch more books, watch more TV, and increase your connotation and knowledge.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07How to improve your speaking skills, in modern society, whether a person can speak is a very important thing, after all, speaking badly will affect your interpersonal communication, reduce your circle, let me take you to briefly understand how to improve your speaking skills.
1. Read more
Reading broadens one's knowledge and keeps the topic going. First of all, you have to understand the topic, and if you don't, you can't continue to communicate on the topic. So we need to read more so that we can learn more.
Second, add some actions
If you look at the other person and nod your head gently when they are very engaged, it will make the other person think that you are interested in what he is saying and that you are listening carefully.
3. Speak with emotion
If you speak without emotion, it will make people think that what you are saying is boring, and it will be difficult to be interested in what you are saying. But if you can bring a little emotion into it, the effect may be much better.
Fourth, don't speak too quietly
Just because you don't have to be too low doesn't mean you have to yell loudly. Just let your voice be controlled, not too big or too small.
5. Praise others more
Some people know how to praise others, but they praise them blindly, regardless of whether they match the actual situation of the other person. By compliment, I mean to observe what is special about the other person today, and then to praise the other person in this regard.
6. Don't show that you hate someone
When someone you hate talks to you, you should also be polite and don't try to show that you hate the other person. It is necessary to discover the good points of the other person and change the perception of him.
7. Learn to be a listener
Learning to be a listener will make it easy to talk to you. Don't just think about yourself, talk all the time, and don't think about other people's feelings, it's very rude.
When you talk to others, try to be reasonable, instead of blindly yelling, thinking that you will win if you have a loud voice.
Even if you sit face-to-face with someone you hate, try to discover his strengths, benefits, so that you will appear cultivated.
To praise others a lot does not mean to praise them blindly, but to praise them according to their merits and strengths.
If you want to understand a person when you communicate with people, you can find out whether his ideas and practices are consistent, and whether he will persist in fighting for his ideals.
When communicating with others, please keep your sincerity and don't lie, once you tell a lie, it will take ten lies to complete.
You can read more books on communication with people, when you don't know how to chat at the beginning, you can talk less, listen more to what others say, try to chat with people of different personality types, according to each person's personality characteristics, hobbies, etc., take different ways to chat, chat with people to be sincere, praise each other appropriately, and find more topics that everyone is interested in. You should also constantly enrich yourself and broaden your horizons, so that it is not easy to be cold when chatting.
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First of all, I'm not a teacher, I can only think from the perspective of a student, but he speaks very well, but after a few days I forget the teacher who can remember what the teacher said, the only teacher who can remember what the teacher said, the only teacher who exudes personality charm at those moments, there are very few people like them, they don't say things that make people worry or boil their blood, the bits and pieces of the class, the kind things, the ordinary ones, the righteous and kind things, the accumulated more, you can't forget them, and they are still so memorable for many years. >>>More