Is the haunted house a unique custom in China, and is there a haunted house abroad?

The haunted house is a unique custom in China, but there is no such custom in foreign countries, where weddings are held in churches wearing wedding dresses. In China, eight sedan chairs are used for marriage, and there are some red tape etiquette, and the haunted cave room is also one of them.

There are also customs of haunted houses in foreign countries, not only in China, Japan, the Philippines, South Korea, etc.

Nowadays, the vulgarization of some haunted houses is that on the one hand, people forget whether the haunted houses have the practical significance of being needed, and who they are for; On the other hand, modern people are well-informed, but because the people who make holes in the house cannot reach the critical point, they come up with many vulgar practices.

All kinds of performances in Chinese weddings are the result of 5,000 years of sexual repression. Whether it is a spoof or curiosity, some people's behavior is to do obscene things in the name of customs, which is not only disrespectful to the bride and groom, but also a direct reflection of their lack of cultivation.

Extended Information: Marriage troubles are customary and should not be customary. The custom of marriage trouble has been around for a long time, and it is understandable to increase the atmosphere of marriage trouble, but if the slippery customs become vulgar and the marriage trouble becomes a prank, it should not be, which not only hurts the morals and customs, affects the social order, but also brings personal harm.

To curb all kinds of strange marriage troubles, it may be difficult to rely on the self-discipline of the parties alone, and the relevant departments should regulate this while strengthening publicity and guidance, and introduce corresponding systems to stop this kind of behavior.

For example, in the past, the vehicle would cover the license plate, and later the traffic police department punished it, and no one dared to cover the license plate because of the welcome. The same is true for marriage troubles, only relying on moral restraint and destroying disturbances is unreliable, there must be a corresponding system to regulate, such as marriage troubles on the street are disrupting social order, and serious cases must be detained, in this way, I believe that strange marriage troubles will be greatly reduced.

I don't think there is any need for this custom to exist, and the current haunted houses have deteriorated.

The "haunted house" in our modern society has been very different from the traditional sense, and has slowly evolved into a very radical colored behavior.

In ancient times, the wedding room was a place of great sacred significance. After a variety of tedious worship ceremonies, the newlyweds are sent to the cave room, where there are many other ceremonies.

Most of the "haunted houses" of that era originated from".There is no size for the three days of the weddingIt is customary that anyone can tease the bride and groom within three days of the wedding.

At that time, the way was often in eating, drinking, and having fun, there were tests for the groom and the bride, but most of them were not malicious and were pure blessings.

What has become of our current "haunted house"? After the newlyweds have a ceremony, they enter the cave room and immediately young people start to step forward and carry out the so-called "hole room".

And now the way of the cave room is more inclined to be excessive, whether it is asking the bride to "get out" in the groom's pants, or asking the bride and groom to kiss on the spot, or other strange requests, it is really scary.

In our real life, are there fewer scandals because of the hole in the house? There are several such news stories every year, which make people feel like they are living in an era of male superiority and inferiority.

There are some things that we find disgusting from the perspective of a bystander, let alone the person involved. It's like a lot of ** circulating on the Internet, the groom and the bride actually perform action movies in public, do you think this way of making a hole in the house is appropriate?

In the process of inheriting traditional customs, the essence of "haunted houses" has been abandoned, and the rest is all dross, but it is really unacceptable.

Now this form of "haunting the hole room", I feel that I can't accept it, when I got married, no one made such a fuss with me, I just kicked everyone out.

The wedding was the beginning of a happy life, and I didn't want to turn such a beautiful day into a farce and a laughing fare for others, especially my wife.

I think every adult should have this kind of awareness, you can put yourself in your shoes, what would you do if you were asked to get married by all kinds of unreasonable demands?

Bless us to accept it, forget about the "haunted room"., "The Spring Festival is worth a thousand gold", it is enough to have me and my wife.

Haunted hole house in many rural areas is a normal part of the bridge, thousands of years is also constantly updating its ways and methods, in some rural areas are indeed too much, for this phenomenon I personally feel that a should be seen separately, let me talk about my own thoughts.

Some uncivilized ways should be eliminated.

I once attended a neighbor's wedding and picked up an uncivilized trouble, the neighbor is born in the 90s, his colleagues and friends are also of this age, and I don't know how to learn, there are few grooms on our side, at most it is embarrassing, and when drinking a glass of wine, change to other liquids. However, the way they used this time was to strip the groom naked and tie it to the wire, and everyone knew that dozens of catties of eggs hit the groom directly, making him covered in egg liquid. I personally resist this way, don't say that you waste a good egg, it's not civilized, the weather is not cold, it's okay, if it's cold, people have a cold, and the gains outweigh the losses.

It's better to put an end to it in a way like this.

Advocate civilized trouble.

I recently saw a favorite way to make trouble for the groom in Anhui, should not be noisy, should be difficult for the groom, let the groom guess the riddle, can not guess the bride, and the game link, that is, do a push-up, blow a balloon civilization, this is not only knowledgeable, but also improve the atmosphere of the scene, like this one we need to advocate.

Finally, we say that in many places there are news of personal injuries caused by uncivilized cave houses and grooms, and some people have died because of inappropriate ways, so we must take caution, abandon some uncivilized things, and express our joy in a civilized way.

It's ambiguous sex education.

In the past, people were very conservative, and many newlyweds would blush when they sneaked a glance before marriage, and even made a lifelong engagement just by the words of the matchmaker. It is very embarrassing for two people who have never met before to have a skin-to-skin blind date at night and make the most secret contact. Therefore, the day before the bride's wedding, the mother had to make a temporary assault to do a good job in sex education for her daughter, so as to save the time to scare her own girl stupidly.

There are special tools for sex education, called "pressing the bottom of the box", the commoners' homes are mostly porcelain cups and porcelain plates, and the aristocratic houses are mostly carved from ivory, and the "yellow **" is painted inside, so that the bride has a basic psychological preparation.

The haunting room is also a type of sex education. As the saying goes, "A new daughter-in-law has no size for three days." After entering the cave room, both men and women can enter the room to "see the new daughter-in-law", tease the bride, meat and vegetarian together, and deliberately make the yellow flower girl who was originally shy to answer become a generous daughter-in-law.

More importantly, when the cave room is noisy, everyone should let the newlyweds do all kinds of intimate, hidden but very clear directional actions, so as to dispel the strangeness and shyness of the bride and groom, and pave the way for that exciting moment. This is a "foreplay" in which everyone participates. The haunted room is actually expressing an ambiguous sex education:

That's what happened, that's how it is.

Although "haunted cave house" is a folk custom in our country, but with the passage of time, this folk custom has gradually evolved into a bad custom, so Tuozhi personally believes that this kind of behavior should be eliminated. You must know that vulgar "haunting rooms" will have a bad impact on people's body and mind, and even make immoral behaviors.