It s really tiring to get married to this day! How tired is this marriage?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    From your daughter's point of view, she definitely wants you to be together. But from a woman's point of view, any woman (including married) has the right to pursue her own happiness. It's up to you, and between a healthy family and your happiness, you have to sacrifice the same.

    My advice, though, is to maintain the relationship, preferably until my daughter goes to college. If during this time, your marriage is still not improving. You choose your own happiness again, maybe at that time, you will also be numb.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Think about your own problems, start to solve the problems between you, and treat all problems from an objective perspective! Don't blindly impose the mistake on one person, after all, the problem is two people, if you find the root cause of the problem and solve it, if he is a scoundrel, it is recommended to divorce, but you can't say whether he is a scoundrel or not, it depends on the opinion of the people around him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    A lot of people are like this when they reach middle age, they look like they are separated, you have to expand your life circle, life, friends, career, hobbies, even beliefs, etc., sadness is useless. Your husband doesn't have to be the one who will decide your fate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Living at this time seems to be a dead end. One is a dead end in front and a dead end in the back. There is no one way out.

    I don't know how to say it, because making a choice is unlikely for you.

    If this is the case, then you can only change yourself. Learn to live in such a dead end, at least make your life more comfortable. Or maybe a dead end won't be a dead end anymore by then.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you feel tired, try to communicate with both parties and try to solve the problem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can make do with it, you can make do with it, and if you can't, you can get together and disperse. No big deal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If that's the case, I don't feel a sense of happiness at all. Then you can consider divorce.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Marriage seems to have all kinds of problems, because of reality, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, trivial things, etc. They all seem to be tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Marriage is a troublesome thing, and it also makes people very helpless, sometimes they want to leave a person, and they are afraid that they will not be good for their children, so they will live their lives, and they are arguing and arguing, it can only be said that this kind of marriage makes people very helpless.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The beginning of marriage itself comes with responsibilities, and it requires each other's dedication and hard work, are you tired? Of course, you will be tired, especially when you take on the responsibility of the old and the young, you will be more tired, at this time the most comforting thing is that the husband and wife are concentric, rely on each other and care, so it is very important to pay, it is more important to pay for each other, and the maintenance of the heart is tired and happy, I hope you are too, come on!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Calm down for a while, consider the good and bad, weigh the trade-offs and decide whether to continue.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What's the matter, if you leave, it will be good West.

    Then don't, will.

    If you're ready?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not completely satisfied. The key is to work hard for each other and pay for the family without complaints, which is the long-term way.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is this kind of marriage so tiring all of a sudden? Is this kind of marriage so tiring all of a sudden? Is this kind of marriage so tiring all of a sudden? Is this kind of marriage so tiring all of a sudden?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As far as you are concerned, the old system.

    There is indeed something wrong with what the woman is doing; The baby has a grandfather, but the grandmother is forcibly separated by the mother and cannot be close to them. This is not only an emotional problem that hurts the elderly, in fact, it also makes the love that the baby enjoys incomplete, which is not conducive to the growth of the baby.

    Although the wife's approach is wrong, she feels that it is not to the extent of divorce; In such a situation, it is very difficult for you to be caught between your parents and your wife, but sometimes the dilemma may be that your own thinking and coping strategies are inappropriate; It's better to find out the real reason why the wife did this, the reason why she did it was to get revenge on the old man, or".For the babyOnly by understanding the reason and purpose of what my wife did can we properly solve the problem.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's get a divorce! If you continue to copy like this, you will never be able to leave.

    Bai is like a book on du

    Said and written. Alas, there are children.

    Zhi is still divorced from dao, what kind of marriage, let's live like this. After a few years, I wanted to get a divorce again. Look at the children are six years old, hey, let's live like this.

    A few more years passed, and the idea of divorce reappeared. Hey, the children are seventeen or eighteen years old, and they are about to get married.

    By the last time you had the idea, you had already found out that you couldn't get married. Half a lifetime has passed, what kind of divorce is there?

    Therefore, people are like this, bound by their own feelings and marriages, and let themselves suffer for a lifetime.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Husband and wife are the legal first copying relationship, that is.

    Bai said that from a legal point of view, you and Lao Zhi are more intimate people than your parents, and all your things are related to each other, not to mention the perspective of love. Obviously, you don't grasp this layer.

    Judging from your current living situation, you and your parents are naturally one, and marriage has made your wife a loner, which will inevitably lead to her "taking the child for herself", because this is her only "relative" at home.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Husband and wife life itself should achieve a kind of harmony, this is like disciplining a child, if you do everything yourself, everything has to be managed, although you think that you give a lot and love a lot, but in the end, you will not teach a good child, and he will not be grateful to you for it. For husband and wife, the pattern and mode of getting along is very important, in a family environment like yours, he has become a habit, and you have also become a habit, so such a deep-rooted habit, does not make him think that you pay something, and it is also habitual to enjoy these.

    Therefore, love is in the process of correct expression, it will be responded, although you have done so many things, but you have lost your position, you are more inclined to a man's behavior and pay, and he is used to such enjoyment, in such an environment, how can it be possible to inspire him to be willing to pay more, carry more, so your life will inevitably be very tired.

    For life, think about yourself not as a mother, not as a protector, but as a woman and wife, women and wives do not necessarily need to give as much as you do, they need more how to make their lover willing to carry for themselves and the family.

    Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No one's marriage is comfortable.

    Husbands and wives need a run-in period, they both need to trust each other, tolerate each other, care for each other, and complement each other.

    First of all, you have to see if your marriage is based on love, and if so, then everything will change.

    Marriage needs to be managed, and there is no marriage that is not tired, dear.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Alas, who isn't. There is no way to be tired, if you have a child, you have to think about the child, even if you want to divorce, you have to wait for him to become an adult, but is it necessary to divorce after adulthood, imagine how old you are at that time, even if you are divorced, what can you do, husband and wife themselves are accommodating to each other, everyone has shortcomings to see if he is willing to change for you, if you are still young and feel really unable to continue to bear, you have no children, then even for yourself, you should divorce again to find your own happiness, don't settle.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In the loving couple also need to run in, if you are really tired, let yourself be quiet first, calm down and think about the problem? Can it be solved, if you are very calm, you can't think of any reason to insist, and you are thinking about divorce, remember to think twice.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Marriage is about mutual tolerance and understanding, we must run in with each other, we can't just look at the problem from our own perspective, of course, we really can't go on and leave.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A marriage comes to know whether it is for the sake of the family and the children, and now I am looking for something bad about myself, and I am taking the initiative to talk to him and her

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Separate first, calm down and then decide on the next step.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Tolerance. Think about how good he or she is.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you feel that your marriage is indeed struggling, the most sensible way to deal with it is for the two of you to talk calmly and then live separately for a period of time. Be sure to live alone, which will help you calm your mood, unhurriedly recall the bits and pieces after you stepped into marriage, look for the good of the other party, and find out your own differences in the marriage. If I live with someone else, I will lose my independent space, I will be disturbed by the words and deeds of the person I live with, or I may forget my worries for a while, but it will be difficult to reflect on myself after all, and it is only after being alone that I can best figure out what I can do, what benefits I have for my spouse, whether I am asking for or giving, and so on.

    After being alone for a period of time, find a few good books about marriage and family, read them carefully, and learn about some of the clever tricks of others in managing marriages, so as to make up for the shortcomings in your own marriage. There are many hurdles in life, family marriage, standing in the world, you may encounter hurdles, and people who are really wise and skilled can easily overcome them, and most of these people are people who are good at learning. Reading a book can also be a good way to relieve your mood.

    After a period of cold treatment, you can ask your spouse to talk openly and honestly a few times, recall the sweetness of the past, analyze the root causes of some conflicts between the two, show out some mistakes of the other party that you can't bear, and look forward to the future of the family.

    No one has an easy life, everyone is sad every year, the most valuable thing in marriage and family is patience, tolerance, praise, don't die with your spouse, there is only one result of death: lose both!

    There is no hurdle that cannot be crossed in life, people with insufficient knowledge often think about things to the end of the road, in fact, as long as they play their potential, there will really be a situation where there are always more ways than difficulties, try it! It's not easy to get married and start a family, so don't take it lightly.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Strictly speaking, the quality of marriage, tired and tired, is actually determined by the temperament and character of a couple.

    Why? Let's think about it carefully, why some couples seem to be poor, but their husbands and wives are like glue, they live happily every day, and everyone never abandons them.

    Another situation is that the husband and wife have strong personalities, serious comparisons, work pressure, take care of children, buy a car and a house, make money to repay loans, make themselves like a clockwork alarm clock every day, all the time, for work, for the family lock and worry about things, just want their family glory to climb to the sky, everyone talks, such a husband and wife marriage is tired or not.

    Therefore, the Big Dipper believes that if you want to live a life of husband and wife, you must learn to treat everything in marriage and family with the mentality of ordinary people, and resolutely do everything as it comes, only in this way will the quality of life of our marriage and family get better and better, and we will live a relaxed and happy life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No need to do superfluous movements. He'll come back to you when he's slept enough

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