I haven t been in a relationship at the age of 26, what should I pay attention to on a blind date?

If you want to look at the other person's appearance and dress, you can show the person's taste and quality of life, and then look at some of the words this person speaks, reflect the person's cultural quality, and then it is to see if the other party and you have an eye to eye, and don't feel embarrassed if you can't find a topic.

You should pay attention to your appearance and dress up to make a better first impression on others And then when you talk and eat, don't be too rude - it's best to find a topic that you can talk about with each other Don't give people a feeling of superiority Generally, girls who feel kind and kind and have a good personality will be more popular It's best to let others see your advantages in a short period of time.

I don't have any experience, but I want to give you ideas.

First of all, the first impression on the other person is very important, but it should not be too luxurious, it should be simple, generous and not temperamental.

Secondly, be polite, try to talk about something that the other person also likes, and it's best not to stop between you, because then it can be a little awkward

Finally, if you have feelings, you must first judge how the other party feels about you, and then ask him without hesitation, if you don't feel it, you still have to try to be tactful and polite to refuse, and the other party should also pay for your tea this time as much as possible, or before meals, etc.

Hope the above will help you

There is nothing to notice about blind dates. The blind date is mainly seen as the first impression and the two are happy! It's no different from falling in love, it's just that the way of knowing each other is different.

Don't deliberately do anything, I hope you can show your true self, if it's a smart girl, you won't like hypocritical men, including appearances, you will like honest, humorous, generous, all in all, normal.

First of all, there is definitely no problem if you don't fall in love at the age of 26, whether a person wants to fall in love or not is free and belongs to his own right, and there is naturally no problem if he doesn't fall in love.

And when it comes to your current situation.

It's almost a boyfriend and girlfriend, and you'll run away at this stage" - there must be a reason for this situation, and I believe you also want to explore the reason why Qingmu believes in himself.

Since you talk about running away, you can see that you have a fear of "intimacy" in your heart, then where this fear comes from, you have to explore it from your heart.

Psychology often says to explore the inner child, why is this so, is because a lot of the subconscious you don't recognize is ** in your childhood, and your fear, you also need to explore yourself, close your eyes, ask yourself, why are you afraid, I believe you will find the answer.

Finally, please don't be afraid to contact the opposite sex, don't be afraid to waste your time, you can believe in yourself, everyone will never fall in love to start their own relationship, so, don't put too much pressure on yourself, come on, tomorrow will be better to talk about!

There are many reasons for this.

But it wasn't a problem at all that he didn't fall in love at the age of 26. But you asked this question, and I still want to say, just be yourself.

But objectively speaking, I haven't talked about it so much, the first thing is that I didn't see it before when I encountered it. The second is that I don't have the courage to chase after myself. Third, I chased and didn't catch up.

Depending on the situation, the corresponding girl is different.

If there were suitors before, or many suitors, but they were just demanding for themselves, or they didn't meet their own hearts, this is understandable. You can see that you are attractive. Just be yourself.

Flowers are in full bloom and butterflies are coming. It's good to expand your social circle;

But he doesn't have a suitor, or he doesn't have any orientation. Maybe this is the problem of personal charm, you need to dig from yourself, the problem is in the end.

In any case, it is a free and open society now, and there is no problem with whether you have been in love or not, as long as you are interesting and excellent, you don't need to think about these problems.

Now that the 26-year-old has not been in love, most of them are ugly enough.

Good girl, I like it, but you have to socialize more appropriately, or it's not easy to find a partner.

What's this, there are a lot of singles now! It's okay!

In the past, when some girls began to fall in love when they were teenagers, everyone was talking behind their backs, thinking that this girl was really ignorant, not studying well, and started falling in love so early, and now, when early love has become the norm, there are some people, seeing that some girls are in their 20s, and have not been in love, and feel abnormal, abnormal things before, and now they have become normal, and what used to be normal has become abnormal, but now, it has become abnormal, in fact, in my opinion, 26-year-old girls have never been in love, It's very normal.

1. There is no environment for falling in love

Many girls who are in early love, most of them are in a state of indulgence or connivance by their families, therefore, these girls may have a good impression of a boy when they are studying, or when some boys pursue, they will naturally fall in love, and there are also some girls who are strictly controlled at home, and this girl also loves to study, she will focus on her studies and will not fall in love with boys in school, which is also very reasonable, besides, from studying all the way to college or even graduate school. It's about that age.

2. This girl is more mature

Some girls are not unwilling to fall in love, but rather lack than abuse, this type of girls are often more mature, see a lot of young couples for a little thing, make emotions, break up, divide and merge, when they are used to seeing these immature performances of friends around them, these girls see it more thoroughly, feel that they are still young, not suitable for falling in love, or the one in their hearts has not yet appeared.

3. It may not look good

When it comes to appearance, some girls will look good, some will look average, and some will be ugly, while ignorant boys are generally from the appearance association, and they will chase after good-looking girls when they see them, and those who are not good-looking will naturally pull them down, which is also possible.

Therefore, even if a girl has not been in love at the age of 26, it is relatively normal, as long as she understands the environment and ideas in which she grew up, it is natural to understand why she has not been in love at the age of 26.

Normal, why is it not normal, I think it is normal, as a woman in the new era, you don't necessarily need a boyfriend all the time, we can do many things, and do it better than men. In all walks of life, there are many women who have made great achievements.

People of the same age as you, you must be the only one who has not been in love, but you have been alone for too long, and he who does not have you by your side is just by your side, well, you may be longing for love, I believe that you will be more beautiful when you are immersed in love.

Fate is not in a hurry, what should come will always come, maybe your one is waiting for you on which street, which bubble tea shop, don't worry, there will be, the good will always stay behind.

What's more, you are only 23 years old now, so young, there are many opportunities to fall in love, people nowadays like to marry late and have children later, it's okay to fall in love later, for the person who met you, and then grow old directly, this is also a very happy thing.

First of all, you don't have to see a psychiatrist, you don't have to go to a psychological counseling agency, because you are not abnormal, but your requirements are abnormal.

You went to college, you look pretty good, and you're a top student, but you haven't been in a relationship in college, is it because you're too demanding, or you haven't thought about falling in love at all, or you said you don't like men at all.

Through my experience in various cases over the years, I will make a general analysis of your situation:

1. Confirm whether you are gay.

01. At the end of the day, you will always meet a lot of handsome guys, and you have to make sure that when you meet them again: will your heart be very excited, will you have a feeling of hormonal bursting, just like a boy meets a beautiful woman;

02, watch youth idol dramas, or as long as it is a romantic drama, when the male protagonist and heroine parted from life and death, will you be sentimental, and when they are reunited, will you be happy; When watching idol dramas, do you have the feeling of wanting to find a boyfriend like the male protagonist to take care of you?

After confirming that you are not gay, you can read on.

2. Your requirements are too high.

First of all, in college, a girl who looks good and loves to study will definitely be pursued by many boys, because this is an era of more wolves and less meat.

However, for those who pursue you, I don't know what kind of attitude you have to face them, you are a good person, but we are not suitable" or "I have always regarded you as a good friend" or "I don't want to fall in love in college"?

So take it as an example, since you want to fall in love, it is still quite easy to find a good boyfriend for your conditions, but you say that you can't find it, there is no doubt that your requirements are too high, and you can't look down on them in general.

One final word: no matter what happens, as long as it happens, it's normal.

I think it's normal for you to never be in a relationship at the age of 26.

In their time, teenagers were the mothers of children, and children in their twenties could already play soy sauce, so they would definitely feel strange when they saw girls in their twenties not talking to their partners.

With the progress of society and the popularization of education, from kindergarten to university, I have been 24 years old in recent years, and if I study for a graduate student or a doctoral student, I will be 30 years old.

Today's girls, as long as there are a little conditions, the requirements for mate selection are very high, the ugly ones can't look down, the short ones can't do it, and the fat ones don't even want to look at it. In addition to appearance, it also depends on the educational background, if it is too low, it depends on the family situation, the parents must have income, the city has a house, and the car cannot be too broken. These requirements emerge in endlessly, and there are not many men who can meet them all, so many girls do not fall in love because they can't find the one they are satisfied with, which is not abnormal.

I think it's easy for a girl to find a boyfriend, she doesn't ask for anything, and she can find a dozen boyfriends in minutes, but will she be happy in this way? No, maybe you can endure it if it's not pleasing to the eye now, but in the future, after two people get along for a long time, the more you look at it, the more unpleasant it is, the more you look at the shortcomings, and sooner or later you will get bored, in this way, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship.

It doesn't matter if a girl talks about a late partner, the main thing is to find one that suits her, rather than being forced by age and pressure from her family, and just finding one casually, which will not be happy.

Normal I'm also the type of good girl who grew up. The girls in my circle are all of this type. Adhering to the skillful attitude of studying hard and making progress every day, I have found a job now.

In the middle, there is also a boy who has a crush. There are a lot of girls around me who are single in their mothers. When they got a job, the three aunts and six mothers-in-law gave them a blind date.

They have been well protected by the family since they were children. I have a sister 27 who hasn't talked about it.

I'm 25 years old this year, and I've never talked about anyone, and I think it's ......It's a little lost. The appearance belongs to the kind ......that can't be found in the crowd without makeup and negative differentiationThe character is also very cheerful and generous.,And the kind of independence.,I enjoy the feeling of being alone.,All kinds of domestic and foreign running to play.,Parents don't have to worry about the kind of .......When you see someone you are more interested in, your first reaction is to have low self-esteem, to escape, and to call boys a brother type, a good relationship, but ......