Why do boys think about me when they chase me, and when they chase me, it s different from before?

Men and women have different ideas, and at different stages, they will have different small goals, when they first met you, he liked you, chased you, and wanted you to be his girlfriend.

When you are together, he will think about what to do for your future, and it is necessary to plan for the long term.

Maybe he didn't take into account the temporary you when he was busy with another aspect, you should communicate with him more to understand his current thoughts.

Maybe you won't think like that at that time, and believe in the love between you, and believe that the choice you have always made is right.

Another reason:

When chasing a girl is rejected, some boys may choose to give up, but some boys will choose to continue chasing, and the more they refuse, the more they want to get her.

When you catch it, you will definitely feel very happy for a while at the beginning.

But as time goes by, the boy's understanding of the girl slowly increases, and it will be discovered that the girl also has some shortcomings of one kind or another, and then the enthusiasm for the girl will slowly decline.

The kind of hot love that chased girls before will slowly fade and become a kind of family affection.

When this kind of family affection penetrates into the soul, when a person loses another person, he will feel pain and reluctance, and it is entirely possible for two people in this state to go on and accompany each other for life.

There is also a possibility that the love will slowly fade, and in the end it will be gone, and one person will feel that being with another person is a trouble, and it will evolve into boredom after a long time, and at this time, it is almost time for the two people to break up, and there will be no happy ending in the end.

When you can't get it, you can rely on it, and if you get it but don't cherish it, maybe it's not your beloved.

Most of the boys are like that.

There should be no shortage of people who are good in all aspects, and it is easy to catch up with people, but there are exceptions, such people are generally extremely rare, and this kind of thing is really there in real life, and the reason for this, according to my opinion, is generally the following situations.

First: He is too beautiful and outstanding, and his personality is arrogant, which makes the opposite sex around him feel ashamed and dare not look away. This is the first kind of beauty, beauty is beautiful, but it lacks vitality and is not easy to get close to.

Even if a man with commendable courage dares to chase it, he will definitely chase it very hard, and even if he really chases it, he will feel very boring and boring after getting along for a long time. And usually, men's patience is very limited, and few people can make it to the end.

Second, he is impeccable in terms of appearance and figure, but he has a lot of life experience. an unbearable past; dazzling past; Shameful smudges.

This third point is a bit heart-wrenching, but this is also an objective existence, and people must understand themselves correctly. But some people don't understand themselves at all, look at themselves in the mirror, and always pity themselves for looking good from head to toe, a typical beauty! Now there is a beauty camera, a retouching filter down, but anyone with complete facial features, everyone can become a beauty, if the reality and the P picture become chaotic, then the evaluation of their appearance, naturally, will be seriously deviated.

You think you are a beauty, but in the eyes of others, you are just an ordinary person with an ordinary appearance, or even a slightly uglier woman, ordinary women and ugliness are not sins, obviously not beautiful, but think that your beautiful resentment and sighs are ridiculous and sad. Even if a man who doesn't pay attention to his face chases you, this man who sells "work" will run away in fright.

Whether it is a handsome beauty or a fake beauty who pretends to be amazing, in fact, you should understand: no matter how beautiful the appearance is, it cannot last forever, and it is superficial and sad to only use hue as capital and have nothing else. "Life is dark and long, only the soul can illuminate the future."

After a few years, you'll understand that this isn't chicken soup, it's the truth.

There is no reason to love someone, and there is no reason to quarrel with anything, like is like, missing love is love, and simply trembling is because men like you, so they pursue you.

Turnip and cabbage, each has its own love.