The child is too playful, and now he is in the first grade of primary school, and his grades are not

It is a child's nature to love to play, and it should not be stifled either. Parents should guide their children and let them understand that it is not that they can't play, but that they should make better use of their time, so that they can have more time to play after completing their homework. At the same time, parents should also cultivate their children's interest in learning.

Ways to cultivate children's interest in learning:

1. Encouragement, praise and reward.

When your child's learning situation does not meet your expected goals, encourage your child more, so that he has the courage to challenge difficulties; When a child completes homework or studies and does not complete it on time or does not complete it well, we can praise, praise and guide the child appropriately, and we parents should often use the "sandwich communication method" to communicate with others. When children complete their studies and homework on time, parents can appropriately implement some reward policies to better stimulate their children's motivation to learn!

2. Build children's confidence in learning.

The real reason why many children don't like to learn is that they don't like to learn and can't keep up with classes, which leads to a vicious circle of not learning anymore. Parents should face up to their children's abilities, and their requirements for learning should be gradual, and when their children's grades decline, they should not blindly punish them, but should appropriately strengthen counseling to encourage them to overcome their learning difficulties and gradually improve their children's academic performance. In this way, confidence gradually develops, and homework becomes active.

Of course, there are other reasons why children don't like to study and don't want to do homework. Some children are dissatisfied with the criticism of their teachers and do not do their homework well or do not study well. If this is the case for your child, it is best to talk to your child's teacher and tell the teacher truthfully

The child is very concerned about the teacher's criticism, and hopes that the teacher will understand the child and look for opportunities and encouragement. "As long as the teacher encourages more and criticizes less, and arranges homework reasonably for the child according to his own situation, the child will gradually become interested in learning.

3.Respect your child's interests.

Nowadays, many parents do everything possible to want their children to learn well and know more from the beginning of their children's schooling, so parents arrange their children's weekends and holidays to be full. In fact, it is good for children to learn more, and it is also good for parents to start this way. But do your children like to learn?

Parents ignore and ignore their children's feelings, so that children learn very hard and hard, and they don't want to learn. For example, some children don't like to learn the piano, but parents must let the child learn it, so that he will get bored when he sees the piano. How can children learn well?

4. Edutainment and on-site guidance.

Children are fun-loving, so if we give them some on-site guidance when we play with them, we can stimulate their interest in learning. In the process of playing, use the characters and landscapes on the scene to explain the story behind it, and (tell him some stories of hard reading) to stimulate the child's inner desire. In this way, children can understand the meaning of learning and doing homework.

Parents then find ways to strengthen supervision and inspection, so that children can concentrate on lectures in class. Capable parents can accompany their child to review the knowledge and skills learned in class after class and guide him to complete his homework carefully.

This is mainly caused by the child's poor living habits before going to school, and it is impossible to let him change it at one time, so parents should accompany the child to do some games to improve attention, such as: hang high with a chopstick, let the child use the index finger and thumb of one hand to interlock (into an O shape), when the parent releases the hand to let the chopsticks pass between the child's index finger and thumb to see if the child can hold it.

You need to be patient, there is a process of child growth, don't worry, it will be fine.

When children achieve a little achievement, they should be affirmed and encouraged in time. Share it with your child and experience the joy of success. Slowly, the child was led to the path of loving learning. Thank you!

It is the nature of children to be playful, and it is necessary to pay attention to children's interests and specialties, and guide them, so as not to let children carry a heavy burden of reading from an early age and become bored with school.

If the child's grades are particularly poor in the first grade, then parents can consider helping the child to learn systematically and help the child find a way to learn. In fact, the most important thing for children in the first grade is not the most important thing, the most important thing is to let the child master a good learning method. If children do not find a suitable learning method when they go to school, then their grades will naturally not improve.

Therefore, poor grades are not particularly terrible, the terrible thing is that they have not mastered the correct method, and the terrible thing is that parents are not aware of the problems in education.

In fact, children's grades in the first grade are generally mediocre, some children's grades may be very good, and there may be some children's grades are not particularly good, but the results at this time are only the initial appearance. If parents or teachers can let their children master the right way of learning, then children are likely to have better gains in the future, in short, parents should help children change the way they learn when their children are poor.

Children's study habits are very important, if you don't establish good habits, then there will be all kinds of problems on the road of learning, definitely not only affect the child's first grade grades. Therefore, if the child's grades in the first grade are not good enough, then parents should educate their children and let them develop good study habits, which will be of great help to future learning.

Therefore, the first grade is not actually for children to improve their grades, on the contrary, the first grade is for children to find their own learning style. If children do not find their own way of learning in the first grade, there will be various problems in the future. Therefore, parents should not intervene accordingly when their children have poor grades in the first grade, and only need to let their children slowly develop good habits.

Children have just entered the first grade, and their thinking and hands-on ability are not very mature, and many things must have an adaptation and learning process. The first grade grades are not good, parents are very worried that their children will lose at the starting line, and it is normal to be anxious, but I don't think parents need to worry too much, because the first grade grades are not the most important, I think that when the first grade to the third grade, parents should focus on cultivating their children's learning habits and daily life habits, collectively referred to as habit education, once this good habit is formed, it will always accompany the child's growth, applied to learning and life, the child is not only independent, parents are worry-free, but also get twice the result with half the effort! The key is to cultivate the child's correct learning attitude, after the third grade, he will put his mind on learning through his own spontaneous efforts, and which first grade grades are not necessarily good in the future, each student is changing.

Therefore, to distinguish whether the child's grades are solid, it can usually be seen in the third grade, of course, it does not mean that the grades are not good, parents do not have to deal with it, I mean don't put too much pressure on the child because of the poor grades in the first grade, give him a variety of training courses or something, there is no need, parents do a good job of basic learning guidance and accompaniment, accompany the child to read and read, accompany the child to study, accompany the child to play, in short, to lead the child to develop good living habits and study habits, and form a correct learning attitude. First-grade children do not learn well, and the child's ability and IQ has little to do with it, the most important thing for parents to reflect on is themselves, is not you supervising in place, let the child go through some bad habits, or you supervise in place, counseling is not enough, let the child learn but not through, or you tutored, but it is not possible, twice the result is half the effort, is it not you give the child's environment so that the child has no interest in learning, etc., in short, the first-grade child does not study well, and the parent's family education has a direct relationship.

Answering the child's poor grades, writing a homework, grinding and chirping, asking for this and that, bargaining, watching TV and playing with mobile phones, not paying attention at all, I am all forbearing. I couldn't help it, so I yelled at her, and she started crying, and as soon as she cried, I was even more annoyed, so I couldn't help but hit her, and she cried even more. The school teacher also reported that she was inattentive in class, often deserted, and her grades could not improve.

As soon as I thought of her studies and homework, I got angry, saying that I was in a hurry, and she cried and said: "It's not that I want to go to school, it's you who have to ask me to go", and it was not all for her good to make me angry, if I don't study hard now, what will I do in the future. I've been crying so many times that I've been angry with my children, and I've been doing it over and over again, and I really can't help it.

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Children in the first grade of primary school have poor academic performance, as a parent, what we need to do at this time is not to be anxious, but to think calmly about whether the child has just entered the primary school stage of learning, whether it is suitable for the current learning environment, or inattention; Whether it is an intellectual factor or a non-intellectual factor. Only by being targeted can we better solve the problem of poor learning of children.

In such a situation, parents should actively guide their children, let their children develop a good study habits, let their children learn efficiently, and then they should also develop a scientific and reasonable learning plan for their children, and encourage their children more.

If the children in the first grade will have poor academic performance, they should start to supplement the knowledge points to the children, memorize the knowledge points, and then apply them to the real life.

You should help your child to change his learning methods and develop good study habits, so that he can improve his grades, he will become very good, and the teacher will like him.

If the first grade is very poor, it may be that the child has not attended the class and listened carefully, so you can educate the child more and develop good study habits.

The first grade of primary school is too rushed, and the questions in the first grade are very simple, relatively basic, and you will be able to practice a lot.

As parents, we must accompany our children every day, tutor them on the side, sometimes read the questions to the children, explain the topics clearly to the children, and many of the topics are not understood.

Parents should create a good environment for their children to grow up, parents must encourage their children to learn, and they must cultivate their children to learn correctly.

Parents must encourage their children to learn, learn the correct way to learn with their children, and adjust their learning attitudes.

Sending their children to the first grade, every pair of parents hopes that their children will get good grades all the way from now on. But soon, the enthusiasm of some parents will be poured cold water - not only do children not get double hundred in every exam, but the results are not good, and the ranking is always at the end of the class. At this time, parents usually get anxious to find the reason for "learning" itself - is it not smart enough, is it not able to learn, is it not open?

Some parents will also affirm that their children are not learning at all. So today, let's talk about what parents should do if their children are now in the first grade of primary school and their grades are not good?

1.Parents should pay attention to controlling their emotions.

You can't always criticize or blame the child. Because all children want to be recognized by those around them, if parents always have a negative attitude towards their children, children will lose self-confidence, define themselves as poor students, and never want to make any effort again. After all, the child has just started his learning career, and the gap with other children is not big, as long as he starts to catch up from now on, he can get rid of the learning dilemma as soon as possible.

Of course, parents should be patient with their children, on the one hand, they should help their children overcome learning difficulties and let them regain their self-confidence in learning; On the other hand, it is necessary to reason with the children so that they can understand the importance of learning.

2.Develop your child's study habits.

The learning content in the first grade is relatively simple, and some children have already learned some relevant content in preschool, so most children will not have much difficulty in learning. However, as learning deepens, children's academic performance will gradually widen, and the main problem is whether they have developed good study habits. Grade 1 is a critical period for children to develop study habits, and if parents take advantage of this best time to guide their children correctly, then children can maintain good academic performance.

3.Accompany your child with homework.

One of the main reasons for poor learning in the first grade is that the class does not listen carefully, and the homework is the review and consolidation of the content of the day's class, so parents should accompany the child to write homework, and carefully observe the whole process of the child's homework, so that you can find out the child's mastery of what he has learned that day. After the child finishes the homework, parents should help the child review and consolidate the problems exposed in the homework, and make up the missing parts in the course of listening to the class in time, so as to achieve the purpose of checking and filling in the gaps and help the child catch up with other classmates as soon as possible.