What do you think of the idea that tantrums have nothing to do with good or bad personality ?

It doesn't matter if the personality is good or bad, in fact, some people are more impatient, so he is prone to tantrums, but he is not bad in nature, he is just impulsive in nature.

It is a habit not to lose your temper, whether your character is good or not, you have to lose your temper, and there is no essential connection between the two, so it is said that losing your temper has nothing to do with your character.

Love to lose his temper, if it has nothing to do with personality, I think this view is really very bad, he is contrary.

Personally, I think this sentence is unreasonable, and tantrums are caused by irritable behavior, irritability, and poor self-control. Personality refers to the psychological characteristics that are manifested in attitudes and behaviors towards people and things. Tantrums belong to this ranks.

There is also some merit in this view, and some people lose their temper just for people. Take me as an example, the closer people I get, the more I lose my temper, because I think they understand me and will tolerate me. I am very patient with strangers, because I don't know them and have no reason to lose my temper with them.

Character here should refer to the quality of the person, some people love to lose their temper, may not be able to control themselves, but he is not bad, and some people, on the surface look gentle and elegant, but the essence is a bad mess.

It's just that we are used to leaving our temper to the people who love us the most. I hope that in the days to come, we can all cherish everyone who loves us, and don't let our temper force everyone who loves us.

I agree with this point of view, because I too, I lose my temper at the slightest thing, but I have a good personality, and my temper comes and goes away quickly, so it's easy to figure it out.

At least I agree with the view that "tantrums have nothing to do with good or bad personality", maybe because I am such a person, my friends around me say that I have a good personality, but I do love to lose my temper, a little thing can arouse my temper, but temper comes and goes quickly.

I don't agree, because tantrums are irritable, for example, I myself am more irritable and tend to lose my temper.

In fact, sometimes I feel that I love to lose my temper, and I don't think there is such a point of view as Wu Guan, who followed up, and personality and temper exist mutually.

<> "People with a good personality are not temperless, but will lose their temper".

You can be good-tempered, but you can't be temperless.

Yang Jiang once said in "Walking to the Edge of Life": Sometimes, if you are an honest and quiet person who has no quarrel with the world, people will use you and bully you; If you tolerate it generously, others will infringe on you and harm you. The root of human nature lies in this, the easier you are to talk, the less people will take you seriously.

At the right time, show your bad side, and the world can be kind to you. In interpersonal interactions, being angry is not necessarily a bad thing, but not being angry is certainly not a good thing.

It's instinct to lose your temper, and it's your ability to lose your temper.

Many people have misconceptions about tantrums, thinking that tantrums = bad temper, angry = unreasonable. This is not the case. Tantrums are just to express emotions and needs in an appropriate way.

The quarrel is also an opportunity for in-depth communication, and after reconciliation, the two can deepen the bond by reviewing and clarifying their respective boundaries and attitudes. Quarrels are actually not terrible, what is terrible is a quarrel without a bottom line.

How to quarrel to be effective?

1. Make demands intuitively, and don't shift the focus of anger to suppressing others, rather than expressing your own inner needs.

2. Accurately state the facts, and its format is: "When you do x in the y situation, I feel z." This is more conducive to the other party to make targeted solutions.

3. Learn to review and summarize, and after the anger subsides, the two sides should conduct a review and analysis of the exposed problems, clarify their respective bottom lines, and reach a consensus for harmonious coexistence in the future.

People are not perfect, everyone knows it. The character is not perfect, this person thinks it is good, that person may think it is bad. Therefore, there is no such thing as a good character, and a good character does not mean a good temper.

A good temper is not easy to get angry, and a bad temper is the opposite.

Impatient, impulsive, and outgoing (not all extroverts, extroverts are usually more .......)How to say it, hot-blooded......Stingy, bad temper.

Docile and generous, he usually has a good temper.

Philosophically speaking, matter is primary, and matter determines consciousness. Traditional Chinese medicine says: the liver is angry, the heart is happy, the spleen is thinking, the lungs are sad, and the kidneys are fearful.

In other words, people with a bad liver are prone to anger, and anger hurts the liver at the same time. Therefore, what kind of physical body there is determines what kind of spiritual will a person has.

The way people judge and behave in various things reflects their character.

The degree of patience and handling of various things reflects the temper of a person.