Single families, why do you always encounter quarrels?

Mothers in single-parent families place a special value on their children. Because there is no partner, the child is the psychological support. To put it simply, parents live for their children.

Your mother said that selling the house and getting the money was pure anger. Do you think about how many times your mother traveled alone since you were a child?

Now you say you're going to study abroad and leave her. How could she be willing?! You're gone, who else is she?

Her heart was empty. Naturally, she was not happy. So perfunctory to you.

Does she want you to be unmotivated? Do you think you have a great future and a bright future? Of course I want to, more than you do.

However, her opinion is that going abroad is not the only way, right?! What should I do if I am wronged abroad? What should I do if I am deceived?

What should I do if I can't eat well and wear well? What does she think about you every day? And, why do we have to separate flesh and blood?

She has to worry about all of this. She can't agree with your thoughts. After all, there are too few selfish mothers who want their daughters to leave home quickly and reduce their burdens and troubles for her.

Do you need your mother's support to study abroad? Spiritual? Material?

If you can't take care of yourself. After the communication fails, even if someone gives you tuition and travel expenses, your mother will still resolutely oppose it.

If you can take care of yourself materially. Simple. Solve a unique problem. Do you think your studies are important or is it important for your mother to be lonely and sad? If it's the former, just leave a letter and go out by yourself.

And if it's the latter? Let's stay in the country. Although you are wronged, at least your mother is happy and fulfilled in her heart.

What do you think?

It's not because single families will always encounter quarrels, but many families will encounter quarrels, but the reasons for quarrels are different, every family has a difficult scripture, it is not easy for your mother and son to depend on each other, your mother has also paid a lot of energy and time for you over the years, maybe you have not married to raise your own next generation, and when you get married and have your own children, you will understand the bitterness and bitterness, you also think about your mother, she is really not easy, Even if the way of doing things may be wrong, loving you will not change after all.

Separate for a while. Everyone calms down and slowly understands what is the most important thing in the world.

Family affection, family reunion.

Your mother may not be willing to give you up! After all, it was hard to pull you up alone!

In my family, my singleness problem usually leads to long periods of time urged by my elders to get married, and my parents will frequently drag on various relationships to introduce me to partners. This made me very distressed and made me reluctant to communicate with them head-on.

1.Because I am single, the elders in my family will often urge me to marry. For the elders of the family, my single status will make them very anxious, so they will do a lot of things that seem excessive to outsiders.

The simplest and most straightforward of these things is to often urge marriage. Usually the elders in the family will urge the children to marry on various occasions, and in this way they will influence me, hoping that I will get married as soon as possible. For those children who don't want to fall in love and get married, this method is not very effective.

2.The elders in my family would pick their noses and eyes at my daily life. Some of the elders in my family would pick their noses and eyes at me in my daily life to urge them to get married as soon as possible.

These elders would do this on the one hand to give their children enough influence to urge them to get married, and on the other hand, because they were not satisfied with my appearance, they would find fault with me, which made me feel even more overwhelmed.

3.In order to get married early and get out of singleness, the elders in the family will introduce various relationships to their children. In order for me to fall in love and get married as soon as possible, the elders in the family will try all kinds of ways to do it.

For example, they will introduce their children to various relationships, hoping that I can end my single state as soon as possible.

In short, because the objects introduced by the elders may not meet the requirements of the children, the efforts of the elders in the family often cannot achieve the desired results. But in order for me to get married as soon as possible and start a new life, my elders are still working hard in their own way.