Why is the human heart so fragile, and there are some things that I can t think about anymore?

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

There's a TV series where a witch is jealous of someone else's love, and then a subordinate betrays her, and the witch gives the most cruel punishment to this subordinate, which is feelings, and because of feelings, subordinates start to have all kinds of troubles, and they will be heartbroken. Because people are emotional creatures, they have a lot of worries that they have to think about if they can't think about it.

People will always experience some ups and downs in life, and the long journey of life will not be smooth sailing. Extroverts are stronger, while introverts are more fragile in their hearts. Fragile people should not drill the horns of the bull in everything, but think broadly, and take a step back to open the sky.

In this way, some tragedies that should not have happened were avoided.

How can we improve our mental endurance? 1. Implication. When you're unhappy, think more about what you have and less about what you don't.

Be reminded to give yourself a hint. "Everything will be fine", "Don't worry, things are not so bad". 2. Reduce expectations and not overdo the pursuit of perfection.

If the expectations of people and things are minimized, the fewer disappointed people will be. If you are too perfectionist and always have a higher heart than the sky, then your life experience will be extreme, either good or bad. Don't complain when your efforts are not rewarded, after all, not everyone is "planting a seed in the spring and harvesting thousands of grains in the autumn".

Blindly seeking to expand the ratio of giving and giving back, and letting one's mood fall into all kinds of dissatisfaction, is actually self-harm. Giving is just the process of life, and there may not be results, even if there are no results, you have to continue to live. 3. Relax your body.

Hold yourself in the most comfortable position, relax your muscles, and breathe deeply. Remember that those who love you will love you, and don't be overly entangled and sad if you don't love you. Nothing is unchangeable, including love, the so-called sea fight wide cave vow mountain alliance, the sea is dry and rotten, all of them are temporary words, if you believe too much, you will fall into an emotional disaster.

Some things can't be solved immediately, you have to learn to slow down three beats, one step at a time, and be down-to-earth, which can also soothe your spirit and reduce anxiety. 4. Don't always hope for tomorrow. Because tomorrow the god of luck and the god of death do not know who will come first, learn to appreciate the surrounding grass, trees, flowers and scenes, learn to love the people around you, everything in front of you is a scene arranged by God for you, in the intoxication of self-happiness, the mood will be much soothed.

The reason why it's boring. Get up on the wrong side of the bed. Lonesome.

Emptiness. Lonely, lonely. Sad.

Depressed. Upset. Vexation.

Confused. Sad. Tired.

Pain is stressful. It's because the surrounding environment is too cumbersome. It's too cumbersome, so it's as if it's already blended in.

When you are alone, you feel an emptiness that no form can match. If you are already bored in life, you should no longer think about superfluous things to embarrass yourself, think about everything, treat setbacks optimistically, and see difficulties simply. Hide in the wind, and bring an umbrella in the rain.

Adapt yourself to climate change, adjust your mood at any time, and as long as you believe that happiness is yours, happiness will be with you. The road of life is not so simple, but you can face it simply, as long as you are happy, you can face it. Small episodes, but also to appreciate, have heard and tasted, to put away, reminiscent of its sweetness, throw away helplessness.

Life is short, everything should be thought of, maintain psychological balance anytime and anywhere, keep a normal mind, do not be surprised, smile often, walk away in style, and you will live a happy life! Learning to be happy, knowing how to be happy, being good at being happy is really a kind of wisdom, a kind of bearing, a kind of courage, I believe that happiness and happiness will always be by your side, and I hope you will always smileYou should always be grateful to the beings who have given you adversity.

You have to resign yourself to your fate at any time, because you are human. You always have to forgive sentient beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you have to let go in order to be truly happy. This world is inherently painful, without exception.

When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that this pain is not eternal. Only by knowing oneself, subduing oneself, and changing oneself can we change others.

Today's attachment will lead to tomorrow's regret. You can have love, but don't cling to it, because separation is inevitable. Don't waste your life on a place you're bound to regret.

When you let go, when you don't have troubles. Bring happiness to everyone.

You will miss the people or things that were important to you ...... before(I think so, I don't know if you're not).