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Friends, people are always like this, they swear and give promises, but they are swept away by reality. Affection between people of the opposite sex and feelings for lovers are two different things. If you really like someone, age and all aspects are not a problem.
If you don't like a person, any excuse can be used as a reason. You say that this is a major event in life, and you don't want to be sloppy, yes, people can't take the happiness of their lives as a child's play, and you don't want to hurt her, proving that you are very kind. But love is not sympathy, not pity, to be responsible for others, but also to be responsible for yourself.
Promising to meet your parents and asking your parents to give them some advice does not mean that you are destined to be together in the future. So talk about it for a while, get to know her slowly, and if it's really not the type of girl you like, make it clear to her before breaking up. There is still a long road to the relationship in the future, I hope you can find your true love and pursue your own happiness!
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Brothers! Life Events! Don't be sloppy! You can say no! You can tell! Dating for a while! Again! When you are dating, you slowly alienate her! That's it!
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Oh! Talk to each other honestly and calmly! As for the question of "she looks very small, she doesn't look like she is 20 years old", I don't think age is the main factor, she's an adult, right?
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Don't mislead others and yourself, if you don't love, you don't love, don't waste each other's time!
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Love is warm and romantic, marriage is happy and sweet, each of us hopes that we can have a happy love and marriage, and strive for it. ......Blind date is one of the ways to pursue love and marriage, through blind date, you can find a lover who suits you, fall in love with him and even get married. ......However, there is a very large distance between blind date and marriage, and from blind date to marriage, it is necessary to go through the three stages of mutual investigation between each other, two people falling in love and falling in love, and when the love between two people is stable, they can talk about marriage and marriage.
1, the blind date is first of all to inspect each other. This is the premise for two people to be able to get married.
From blind date to marriage, one of the first steps is for two people to examine each other. ......In fact, a blind date is a process in which two people meet each other and examine each other's conditions. ......Only after the painful examination can the relationship between the two people develop further, and it is possible to achieve the goal of final marriage.
Therefore, this stage is the premise from blind date to marriage.
2. When two people determine their relationship, they can fall in love and fall in love.
When two people know each other through blind dates, determine that the other party is suitable for them through investigation, and start to fall in love, love will gradually arise between two people, which will gradually deepen the relationship between themselves and their lovers, and the relationship will become more and more intimate, thus laying the foundation for the final marriage. ......This stage is the most crucial stage from blind date to marriage. It is only at this stage that a stable relationship is produced and a deep relationship is possessed, and it is possible for the two to get married.
3. When the relationship between two people who love each other is stable, they can talk about marriage.
For lovers who have met each other through blind dates, started to fall in love with each other through investigation, and developed deep feelings, the relationship between each other will gradually stabilize with the deepening of the degree of interaction, and finally reach the stage of talking about marriage. ......When two people who love each other reach the level of talking about marriage, marriage is a natural thing, and the whole process from blind date to marriage will reap a happy ending, and two people can live happily together and accompany each other forever.
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It is quite suitable for the blind date in all aspects, don't rush to think about getting married, you can get along first. First of all, fitting doesn't mean liking. Secondly, even if you like it, you have to get along with the other person.
I think it's a good idea to bring your blind date to meet with your family and friends and see how they feel and impression.
Now there are more and more blind dates, and some people find that they are quite suitable for the blind date in all aspects, but they don't know if they should live as well as married to each other.
Personally, I suggest that you can get along first and then think about marriage, and don't rush into married life right away. There are several reasons for this.
First of all, fitting doesn't mean liking. Although our blind date may be very suitable for us and meet our marriage requirements in all aspects, it does not mean that you really like him. If you don't have a crush on him at all, you can give yourself a little time, maybe you'll like him later, and that's okay.
We can't choose to marry him just because it's suitable, it's very irresponsible to ourselves and each other.
Secondly, even if you like it, you have to get along with the other person. Take a step back, even if you like your blind date more, but you haven't been in contact for a long time, it's not appropriate to consider marriage. I think you should spend some time with each other, run in and see if each other is really suitable for living together.
If two people find out that they are not suitable to be husband and wife after getting along, they can also choose to separate at this time. After all, there are many couples who are separated in the process of running-in.
Personally, I think it's a good idea to bring your blind date to meet with your family and friends to see how they feel and impression. Marriage has been a major event in life since ancient times, and we can't choose the right person to consider getting married, knowing that we think carefully. If we can't see people ourselves, we can show them to our friends and family, and we can talk together as if we were friends.
In the process of getting along, you must be able to find some clues.
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I think it is possible to consider entering marriage, if all aspects are particularly suitable, because many times it is difficult for us to meet a particularly suitable person, since we have met, we must grasp it.
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If you think all aspects are suitable, then I think you can also consider entering married life, after all, the essence of blind date is to get married.
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If it were me, I wouldn't be so quick to think about getting married, and if the blind date was suitable, I would agree to develop a relationship with him, and after a year of getting along, I would decide whether to marry him.
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Of course, many people will choose blind dates now, and some people will find their true love through blind dates and live very happily.
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I don't think so; Because two people on a blind date have no emotional foundation, they generally choose whether to get married after weighing the pros and cons, and such a relationship will not be happy.
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I think blind dates can lead to a happy married life; Because there are many families around me who got married through blind dates, and now they get along very well, and husband and wife respect each other like guests.
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Marriage is not a simple material exchange, but requires real emotional investment and shared experience. This perception is based on the following three aspects. 1.
Although blind date is to find a suitable partner for yourself, it does not mean that only the matching of conditions and requirements is enough. In the few blind dates I have experienced, some people seem to be in good condition, but in the relationship, they find that they have no feelings and common topics with each other, and lack real emotional investment. On the contrary, there are people who do not fully match my conditions and expectations, but have a sense of mutual attraction in getting along.
As a result, I realized that marriage is not a simple material exchange, but requires real emotional investment and shared experiences. 2.Self-reflection and preparation before a blind date are also very important.
After many blind dates, I found that my inner world and what I really needed were not so simple and obvious. Therefore, before going on a blind date, you need to reflect on what you really need and whether you are truly ready to face various challenges and difficulties in life with the other person. 3.
The communication and mutual understanding in the blind date process is also very crucial. In a blind date, both parties need to truly listen and understand each other, and understand each other's hobbies, family background, living habits, etc. Only through real communication and mutual understanding can you better assess whether the other person is suitable for you and finally find a partner who is truly suitable for you.
1.Although blind date is to find a suitable partner for yourself, it does not mean that only the matching of conditions and requirements is enough. In the few blind dates I have experienced, some people seem to be in good condition, but in the relationship, they find that they have no feelings and common topics with each other, and lack real emotional investment.
On the contrary, there are people who do not fully match my conditions and expectations, but have a sense of mutual attraction in getting along. As a result, I realized that marriage is not a simple material exchange, but requires real emotional investment and shared experiences.
2.Self-reflection and preparation before a blind date are also very important. After many blind dates, I found that my inner world and what I really needed were not so simple and obvious.
Therefore, before going on a blind date, you need to reflect on what you really need and whether you are truly ready to face various challenges and difficulties in life with the other person.
3.Communication and mutual understanding during the blind date process are also very crucial. In a blind date, both parties need to truly listen and understand each other, and understand each other's hobbies, family background, living habits, etc.
Only through real communication and mutual understanding can you better assess whether the other person is suitable for you, and finally find a partner who is truly suitable for you.
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