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Indeed, it is a sin to love to the extreme, because love to the extreme can easily lead to paranoia and put too much pressure on people.
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Yes, of course. This kind of love has actually gone against the original intention, and this kind of love is selfish possession.
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That's true, so we should love ourselves the same when we love someone, and we can't lose some bottom lines and principles in order to love someone, because it may be terrible to do so.
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People sometimes love to the extreme will lead to self-extrication, and then hurt their beloved, people in the case of giving too much love will encounter the idea of possession alone, love to the heart will be a kind of selfless possession, if you are afraid of losing each other, this will lead to self-insecurity, such a result can only be to constantly torture yourself to prove the existence of love.
Whoever really loves to the extreme, who is the most humble, even down to the dust, can only test the other party's sincerity and sincerity, as long as the other party does not care a little bit will make themselves sad for a long time. Everything has a degree, and what kind of things will not have a good effect at the extreme, and can only hurt both parties who really love each other.
Love should be equal to each other, and there can be no harm in each other, let alone suspicion, let alone pain, because the true meaning of love can only be sweet. But the excessation of love can only become a hurt to each other, because if both parties care too much, they will be more insecure, because now love has become a painful burden between two lovers.
It's so tiring to love each other like this. I can't wait to put what I love firmly in my own hands, this way of loving is terrible. It's too easy to hurt both of them, and the final result is self-evident that love can only be destroyed!
Although love needs to be cared for with sincerity and true feelings, and use all of oneself to tolerate and maintain the person you really love, what we need to do in the process of real love is to use our seven points of love to love the person we really love, so that we can leave some leeway for the person we love. Everything must have a degree, if you love too much, it will become a harm to yourself and your lover.
That's what I said at the beginning of the article, love to the extreme is to hurt. Love also needs to have a degree, and I hope each of us can master the degree in love.
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Everything is about moderation, and love is the same, you have to love each other moderately, but not to the extreme. Sometimes love to the extreme, but it is yourself who is hurt, and you don't know that you have been hurt by it.
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When two people love each other to the extreme, the final result is certainly not harm. First of all, there must be a degree of mastery, first of all, we must learn to respect each other and do the mechanism within the scope of love, so that the relationship between two people can last for a long time.
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Yes, many times after love to the extreme, there will be a kind of absolute control over the other party, once the other party has something to do to make him feel suspected of changing his mind, there will be a great possibility of love and hatred, and do things that hurt the other party.
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Yes, love to the extreme, you will want to control his every move, for fear that he will leave you for a second and you will be separated, this is a kind of pathological love, you are not only a whole, but also two individuals who exist independently of each other, absolute possession and relative freedom, excessive is the opposite.
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Yes. We often say that when the moon is full, it is a loss, and if you love to the extreme, there will naturally be more problems, because if you love too much, you will not be able to rub sand in your eyes, which is actually a harm to yourself and your lover.
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No matter what, you have to pay attention to the degree, and grasp a relationship moderately in order to maintain it for a long time. Love to the extreme, that will give the other party extreme harshness, so that the other party in this relationship, depressed breathless. And in the end, the most hurt is yourself, because you can't tolerate sand in your eyes, and you will often fall apart because of some trivial things.
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This is inevitable, the ancestors said that things must be opposed, love is the same, when you love to the extreme, you will have the ultimate high requirements for each other, and have the ultimate high standards for yourself, and over time it will definitely tire others and hurt yourself, so it is not unreasonable to have a deep life.
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Yes. When love is extreme, it is also a burden for the other party, and when the other party cannot respond to the same love, he will feel guilty, which is also a kind of damage to his self-esteem. There is a certain amount of space for both parties, but it will enhance each other's feelings even more.
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Yes. For example, when we pour a glass of water in the quilt, when it is full, it will overflow, and in the same way, when we love someone to the extreme, it will naturally hurt others and ourselves, so we must leave room so that we can be happy.
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I've seen a girl who is optimistic and won't give up something for anyone. She said that she was very selfish, so selfish that her own things made others feel like she was robbing them at a glance.
She once said to her boyfriend that if you're leaving, she won't keep you. The contradiction between the two of us, as long as it does not involve a third party, then everything is irretrievable, if once it touches a third party, then, once unfaithful, not for life, the relationship between the two of us has no chance of recovery.
She's the most rational I've ever seen my friends, she doesn't cry, she doesn't make trouble. Her concept is that what is mine is mine, not mine, and no one can take it away. Even if she breaks up, she won't go and shed a tear for anyone, she said
Since the person who is leaving, he will not worry about whether I will be sad or not, and if he will not worry about me, why should I waste my tears.
She is so free and easy, she will not lose herself for anything, until one time, the first time I saw her crying, it was because her mother had cancer, and the first time I saw her crying, it was for the sake of her family. I always thought that such a free and easy person would not shed tears for anyone, and would not do anything for anyone.
All of us think she is cold-blooded, but they also forget that she is also a human being, she also has a family, she has relatives, and she also has weaknesses. Everyone has their own weaknesses.
If those people around you who are blind to love, if they can learn more from this girl's rationality and love themselves more, will the chance and degree of injury be greatly reduced? Will there be a lot less stumbling girls? But at the same time, don't be too aggressive, because in the end, others will not feel that you also need to be protected, and others will forget about you who will also be hurt.
Love to lose yourself, love to the point of no measure, love to give up everything, love to the whole world is you. That is an unforgettable sin, and the person you are sorry for is yourself, your family, and your parents.
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Tongshun is not only smooth, but bai and said very Du philosophical, I think you are a genius to make such a special sentence, love to belong.
When you love someone very deeply, you are guilty when you love someone so much that you can't extricate yourself, which means that a person does not mean that he has sinned, but that he loves this way to the extent that he can't extricate himself, to the extent that he can't forgive himself, and this kind of inability to forgive himself is like committing a sin, which is a metaphor and a descriptive statement.
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Hello friend, love is not the most loved to the extreme, it will definitely not be guilty, this communication is not something you can control. Go with the feeling.
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I don't think it's smooth, I just don't feel connected, I feel like it's definitely right to be able to give, you can give your all to others.
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Love to the extreme is the most, this can be said to be a moth to the fire, desperate for love.
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This sentence itself is not sinful, but if you start from the emotional point of view, love to the extreme is sin, then it means that this love should not be loved.
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This sentence can be understood, for the love of a person to the extreme, seriously affecting the other party's free time and space, then it is a wrong behavior.
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This sentence literally reads smooth, but if it is really wrong to understand it all the time, love to the extreme should be the protection of the other party.
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This sentence is smooth, but everyone has a different understanding, and people who have experienced it deeply can have this kind of experience.
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I love you to the bone, but you are in the earth, and to love you to the extreme is sin.
It's smoother, isn't it?
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How can love be a sin when it is to the extreme? This sentence needs to correspond to different situations.
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In relationships, why do people always unconsciously produce humility? All the humility in the world is a manifestation of love to the extreme! Humility is great, but it is also relatively pitiful, because really meeting the right person will not make you humble and humble.
As long as people love to the extreme, it is easy to do irrational things, and it is easier to lower their bottom line again and again for each other, humility is the beginning of misfortune, even if you love again, no matter how much you pay, you will inevitably end up with a scar, because love is mutual, inside.
It's not a one-man stage.
In the relationship, the one who takes the initiative and the one who loves deeply is always the one who is hurt, and it is also the easiest to do humble things.
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