I married someone I didn t like, and what happened to me when I married someone I didn t like

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If this is the case, don't compare. The reason why you are unhappy is because you are comparing your former girlfriend to your current one. At least subconsciously.

    It's not because of how perfect your ex-girlfriend is, it's that you subconsciously have taken everything about her as the standard. So even if you marry a good woman, you will feel that you can't compare to that. Your ability to marry her shows that you can accept her in all aspects.

    Pick up your passion again and put your ex-girlfriend in memory as a beautiful past. The past and the present must coexist. Try to discover the good in your wife, forget the past, and don't always think about it.

    It's good to take it slowly. I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Marrying someone you don't like shouldn't be sad. It should be that girl's.

    Sad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your wife-to-be is sadder than you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hey, hurt others and hurt yourself, try not to ruin this marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    We have all grown up ...

    Forget everything you should forget...

    It is up to the future ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    See if she's good to you.

    I feel like there's no way around it. I don't think you knew how you got to this point. Resign yourself to your fate, try to love her, there is no love, but maybe family affection will be born. Don't reject her, because she has given herself to you. Don't let people down.

    It's inevitable to be sad, but isn't it impossible for your ex-girlfriend to be with you? So, now I have to face these things that I don't want to face.

    Time, will dilute everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I've taken it all, what else can I do?

    I have to adjust your current state and live with her.

    That's all that matters.

    Discover more about him and her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can't forget your former girlfriend.

    That's why you're so sad.

    You should give yourself more time.

    After that, get married.

    Try to forget about that person.

    This woman may have many advantages.

    It's something you didn't notice.

    I wish you happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm also married to someone I don't like, we've been married for ten years, and now we're doing well, he loves me very much, I love him too, we have a daughter, it's very cute, we're very happy, so people who don't like it are not necessarily bad people, it's just that you're not suitable, don't think too much, believe in yourself, and believe in love.

    My husband and I were also on a blind date, we were both twenty-six or seven at the time, he was two years older than me, we have been married for ten years, we have a daughter, and now we are living very well, he loves me very much, and we are also very happy! My husband and I have been married for three years, have a son, and now we are also very happy, my husband loves me very much, we love each other very much, we have a common goal, so we live happily!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Different people have different experiences and feelings about this issue. Here are some possible scenarios and outcomes:

    1.You may not like this person at first, but you still marry him or her for various reasons (family pressure, social pressure, age pressure, etc.). Life after marriage can be boring, boring, and even painful.

    Your relationship may not be established, and communication may be greatly hindered. In this case, the marital relationship may become strained and may even eventually lead to divorce.

    2.You may not like this person at first, but as time goes on, your relationship gradually deepens, and gradually empathizes and becomes emotionally dependent. In this case, you may be able to form a stable marriage and face life's challenges and difficulties together.

    Although you may not love this person the most, the relationship between you can become very deep.

    3.You may not like this person at first, but there may be some other factors between you (e.g. sex, money, social status, etc.) that make you choose to get married. In this case, you may develop a relationship of mutual use and share the resources and benefits you have.

    While the relationship may seem stable, it lacks real love and emotional support, so it can easily break up.

    In short, the result after marrying someone you don't like is difficult** because everyone's situation and feelings are different. In any case, if you decide to marry someone, it's best to think carefully before you get married about whether your relationship is what you really want, so that you can guarantee happiness and stability after marriage.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Good evening, dear! My dear, if you have some setbacks in your relationship.

    You can confide in me, don't hide all your troubles in your heart, even if you meet in the vast sea of people, even if you are fate. Don't get too lost in your relationship. You are always an individual.

    You have to believe in yourself, it's the best.

    Good evening, dear! My dear, if you have some setbacks in your relationship. You can confide in me, don't hide all your troubles in your heart, even if you meet in the vast sea of people, even if you are fate.

    Don't get too lost in your relationship. You've always been a stand-alone individual. You have to believe in yourself, Herang is the best.

    Hello, not every girl will be with the boy she likes, just like in some mountainous areas, because the information is relatively closed, many people will listen to the arrangement of the group from their parents, with a strange boy, and, after the two will live together for a long time, so some girls will marry or close themselves to the boy they don't love, it may be this reason.

    If you can explain their situation in detail, the teacher should be more accurate in the search and analysis, and if you don't communicate with the teacher, the teacher can only analyze it based on your words.

    Why does he talk to me, but I don't want to pay attention to him, I hate him, and I don't like him.

    First of all, I have social phobia, as well as sexual frigidity and sensitivity.

    Are you married now?

    Or in the boyfriend and girlfriend stage.

    Do you have a lot of quarrels between the two of you?

    Engaged, no result.

    What does he dislike you about?

    Marriage. Then I suggest you consider whether or not to continue marrying him.

    Because judging by the two of you, the two of you don't get along very well together.

    Life after marriage is not necessarily happy, it may be full of quarrels and contradictions.

    I didn't fight, it's just that he was nice to me, and I wasn't nice to him.

    He's sure he still likes you.

    But you are repulsive to him. and disgust.

    So what are you dissatisfied with about him?

    There is no dissatisfaction, that is, he treats me well and I don't like it, I am so annoyed with him, I don't want to talk to him, and the more good I am, the more I don't want to pay attention.

    It may be that his love makes you heavy.

    It may be that you don't love him, and his love for you is too heavy for you to bear, making you feel disgusted and hated.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Marrying far away is a very important choice in life.

    Many girls resolutely choose to marry far away.

    But when it's time to become a mother, when you are wronged, you will find the difficulty of marrying far away.

    However, at this time, there is no way to turn back the lead of time.

    Therefore, since you have the courage to marry far away, then you must have the ability to suffer sin.

    If you choose to marry far away, you must try to get used to a different way of life.

    Only if you have tasted the taste of marrying far away will you regret it.

    In the TV series "Twilight White Head", Rong Wu is a proper long-distance married girl.

    For the sake of her love, Rong Yue resolutely chose to marry Lin Jing.

    She didn't know the hardships of marrying far away when she was young, but the relatives and friends around Rong Wu knew how hard it was.

    Against her are her father, as well as her aunt and master.

    In addition to the grievances between the rivers and lakes, everyone doesn't want to let her leave Longyin City to marry.

    When she arrived at the back, Rong Yue soon found that the days after her marriage were not the same as she imagined.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No one wants to marry someone they don't like, but the sedan chair is to make sure that the other party has a lot of advantages that they don't have, from the aspect of learning from each other's strengths, you can, slowly and imperceptibly, tolerate each other, understand each other, and achieve mutual benefit and win-win results.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It may be for the sake of people's money or profit that they are willing to marry someone they don't like.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, you can choose the case of two people by yourself.

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