If you face someone you don t like, face someone you don t like

Everybody is good at disguising. It's not that I have to cry when I'm sad, I have to laugh when I'm happy. You see that your classmates are happy, but just "seeing", and you don't know if it's true or not.

Also, happiness is not something that can be made by others telling you what to do. It is a breath that emanates from the depths of the heart. Every child doesn't like to talk to their parents, and so do I.

But before I went to college, I wrote it in a codebook, and I didn't have to worry about my parents going to it anyway. Now I'm used to writing a journal and venting all the emotions I think I can express. Then my friends will see and care for them, and I'll be happy too!

If you really don't want to do this, I think the most secure place is your own heart, which you can hide in your heart and not talk about it. If you're afraid of being depressed, you can follow the example of idol dramas: dig a hole or find a mountain and talk about your unhappiness!

People have an inertial thinking, rich people must be happy, they must be very smart and capable, anyway, they can do anything. Maybe then you won't be understood. Your mood is very important, and you must know how to control it.

Do something you love! Happy to you!

feel that your classmates say that what you say is right, and you are not satisfied; In fact, I also have some little sisters like you, the family conditions are very good, and the parents are very spoiled, but they are always very unhappy, and they seem to have long sorrows when they are young. Worry about giving new words! You should still be in school, and at your age, you should still be carefree, happy and laughing with friends, and studying hard!

Sometimes a lot of unhappiness is found by yourself, think about it yourself, whether you are too sensitive, or too pessimistic, at this time, you don't have to think about anything, your parents are your most solid backing, it is good to communicate with them more! Of course, it is not necessary to tell them everything, but talking to them often will be rewarding, and a good family environment can give people fearless courage! If you don't feel comfortable, you can talk to a friend, or buy something, sing a song, and release the pressure in your own way, which is very necessary!

However, in a word, at this time, you should try to focus on learning, don't think this sentence is very old-fashioned, your parents will prepare everything for you, you don't have to worry about anything, at this time you should still acquire more knowledge and enrich yourself! Learn to be strong, learn to grow up! Learn to be happy!

1.When people grow up, the problem of communicating with their parents: all like a bird!

You don't have to care. Parents are old, their thinking has slowed down, and there is an age gap and gap. It's really tiring to reason with your parents.

Their minds are fixed. (You should coax your parents more and be considerate of this.) ）

2.About "Loser": I don't think you're a loser! Everyone is unhappy, the poor are unhappy, and the rich are unhappy. Could it be that the rich are "losers" if they are unhappy? This is too nonsense.

You have a lot of troubles right now, and so are your classmates. It's just that they not only have mental troubles, but also material worries. For example:

What they want to buy, they may not be able to afford. And you can afford it. You can have it.

So, they will say that you are not content.

But they don't know about you, and you may have big, many troubles that they don't know. This is their "ignorance", "one-sidedness". So, don't worry about that!

This is not clear to them. They haven't lived your present life, and they won't understand.

3.About you are very delicate: Well, I also think that you are a little delicate.

Because, compared to other students, your material conditions are much better, which is what many people yearn for! And you are depressed because of childish issues like "troubles" and "communicating with your parents". It's a bit delicate indeed.

Lower your demands on life and forget your previous views on your parents.

Find friends who share the same interests as you and make deep friends.

Think less. Think more about the good side, your own and your parents'.

Chat with friends you trust.

Go to travel, go to sports.

Watch inspirational movies**. Wait a minute.

In fact, the closest people are parents, and everyone will encounter all kinds of troubles, everyone will play a different role every day, but you can't see behind it, I think the classmates say that they envy you, just like you envy them, but they ignore the things around you, that is, the selfless love of your parents for you, parents will want you to open your heart to tell them about you, so that you can understand each other. My own relationship with my parents is like a relationship between friends, because I can't hide from them, I like someone, or I have been wronged, etc., I remember when I was in junior high school, I read to them the love letters written by boys, and they also helped me analyze them, and then told me not to make mistakes, now that I think about it, it was really good at that time.

In fact, it is best to find a professional psychologist for consultation, but it may not be convenient.

Are there any of your classmates who are better?

Or what about relatives"?

It's okay online, but you need to look for people of the same sex, or the opposite sex far away.

Tell them about your frustration that all you lack now is communication.

In reality, pay attention to your behavior, be helpful, approachable, and do more with less talk.

Try to keep smiling and so on.

I don't know if I can help you, I wish you a happy soon.

You are indeed too dissatisfied.

A poor person is easily satisfied because she has a low starting point for happiness. Your life is too good for you to feel unhappy. Your problem is growing pains.

If you worry that your parents will be sad, it means that you are filial, but if your parents see that you are unhappy and you don't tell them, of course they are worried about you, and they will want to peek at your diary. It's a way they want to get to know you, although not very well.

So, you can try to communicate with your parents, classmates, and classmates. It is also possible to develop several reliable dead friends. Similar when confiding. You also have to try to regulate your mentality. I'm sure I'll be happy. Come on

Have fun

Everyone will go through such a period of time, and the process is confused, but only when you go through it yourself, will you really grow up....

Then tell him tactfully that he is not your dish, and get along as if nothing happened in the future. The relationship can't stand the mother-in-law the most, and if you don't like it, you have to solve it as soon as possible, otherwise when he pays more, you will make each other's situation more embarrassing. Let the other party complain.

Be indifferent! Ignore a little! Be a little short-tempered! Be ruthless! Don't wear too much**!!

After all, it's a colleague, don't stiffen the relationship! The best way is to play stupid and not understand the power of hinting at the like! If you say it too revealingly, take the opportunity to make it clear and be tactful!

If it's still pestering you, there's no way, just let him go, as long as it's not too much, just leave him alone! The important thing is to stick to your principles!

Indifference, just as air, I think indifference is the best way.