What do you think about the vulgar customs of funerals in some rural areas?

There are great differences in the customs of white things in various parts of our country, but there are some things that are common, such as the people attending the funeral are not allowed to wear red or bright clothes, and the people attending the funeral are not allowed to laugh and play, and so on.

The particularity of our hometown, such as that family, when doing white things at home, relatives must wear white cloth on their heads, and immediate family members must wear white clothes and white cloths, and cannot wear red, more festive colors, so as to avoid disrespect for the deceased.

In rural areas, it is also important to pay attention to white funerals. First, follow the direction in which the relics of the deceased burn; Second, when there is a funeral, the coffin must not be placed on the ground, and it must also be placed on the bench when resting. Third, we need to do a dojo, which is called looking for people to be excessive.

What are the customs and habits of rural people holding funerals? What are some of the habits that young people today are the least able to understand? There are many social and cultural customs in rural areas, which involve all kinds of customs and habits of weddings, funerals, and weddings.

Because the countryside is the most traditional and ancient soil of society. Therefore, after thousands of years of human development and evolution, it has already accumulated and formed various conventions and habits related to life. Many will still be preserved in some rural areas.

Among them, many of the customs and habits of holding funerals are also difficult for everyone to understand.

Funeral customs and habits 1: It is necessary to dress the deceased deceased in new clothes and longevity clothes to show respect for them. I also need to buy good coffins and other wreaths for memorial services.

These are difficult for many young people to understand. Because all men have passed away. Why spend so much money on the dead.

These are social customs that are difficult for many young people to understand.

Funeral customs and habits 2: The owner will also set up many tables at home to feast on the parents and villagers of the whole village. Almost every household is invited to participate in the memorial service and feast.

This kind of grand scene is also very rare. A scene that can only occur when weddings, funerals, and weddings take place. The funeral is a very painful thing, and it can cause so many people to come to mourn and eat, and to some extent, it will also cause psychological pressure.

Many people also find it difficult to accept such a thing.

Funeral habit 3: There will be a coffin in the hall of the deceased for many days, and sometimes in the case of hot weather, the corpse will emit an unpleasant smell. However, people die with relevant requirements and habits.

Everyone has to choose to obey. You can't break the rules left by your ancestors because of some objective reasons. This is actually difficult for many young people to understand, why they don't choose to go directly to the ground, but put it for so long, causing everyone to relocate.

In addition to the many customs and habits of funerals in rural areas, there are many other kinds, which are actually inconsistent with many modern concepts. Only in the new era, with the progress of the times, many habits also need to keep pace with the times, be constantly updated, and incorporate some new scientific and technological elements to meet the current development requirements of the country's changing customs and customs.

The customs of rural people to hold funerals include reporting funerals, inviting bands, and holding banquets. Among them, inviting a band to hold a banquet is unacceptable to modern young people, because it is difficult for them to understand why they invite some bands to play when their loved ones die, and they also have to hold a large banquet, and they have no respect for the deceased at all, so they are difficult to understand and particularly disgusted.

Girls are not allowed to go to the cemetery, this custom is incomprehensible, bad customs and opinions are corrected, now that men and women are equal, this custom should be changed, the custom of burning paper is also incomprehensible, there are already relevant regulations that do not allow paper burning, you can express your grief in other ways.

will hold a feast, will let a lot of people go to the banquet, will wear odd shrouds. The shroud will not appear black, and there will be a mortuary ceremony. For example, the habit of eating feasts makes people incomprehensible that the family of the deceased is very sad at this time, and there should be no additional burden on them.

In our case, if the old man dies, the people of the village, whether male or female, basically go to pay their filial piety. Of course, they are all adults, no matter the elders or the younger generations, they basically have to kneel and kowtow. That is, when the steward spends the paper, who is ready to kneel, the filial son standing on both sides will immediately be entangled, not allowed to kneel and kowtow, of course, kneeling is also a kind of etiquette, it is unavoidable.

Basically, they don't kneel down, and then when they bow.

After entering the coffin, in the memorial ceremony, it is basically three bows and nine kowtows, that is, nine kowtows. If there are young people, those who don't understand the way to come, those who don't know the customs, and those who invite guests will let them be simple, pour three cups of sprinkling, kowtow four heads at any time, and also call four kowtows. If it comes to the old truth, then it will be troublesome.

That's twenty-four knocks.

Twenty-four knocks, not many now, but there are still some, basically three bows and nine knocks. In rural funerals, the most common is three bows and nine kowtows, and the uncommon ones are four kowtows and twenty-four kowtows. Of course, in China, no matter which province, in the rural funeral, there will never be three kowtows, of course, when paying tribute to the ancestors, three kowtows will be formed, the same as worshipping the Buddha, thank you.

In some places, it is felt that those who have died in other places need to carry their bodies outside the village, that is, if they have died in other places and regretted picking up, the body cannot be carried into the village, and the body needs to be parked outside the village.

I personally see this custom relatively rarely, most of them are still willing to carry their socks before coming back to handle it, I don't know if they can enter the house, but it is no problem to enter the village.

Personally, I think this custom is unreasonable and cruel.

It is sad to die in a foreign country, and he is not allowed to enter the village, which is beyond words.

The funeral should be the business of the deceased's family, and the villagers have no right to prevent their body from entering the village.

Those who die outside the body should not be buried in the church.

The so-called "murderous death" actually means a person who has been killed or killed by suicide!

For example, some young people were stabbed to death because they were young and vigorous, or some people who were too stressed chose to commit suicide by taking medicine, hanged themselves, and committed suicide by jumping off a building, all of which are murderous deaths!

For these people who have been injured or who have voluntarily ended their lives, some places in the countryside say that they are not allowed to leave their bodies in halls for business.

Those who are familiar with rural funeral etiquette know that after someone dies in the countryside, the body will be placed in the hall, that is, the place where the family gods are set up.

The lobby in the countryside is a very sacred place, and festivals related to sacrifices such as Qingming, July and a half, Mid-Autumn Festival, and the New Year will choose to burn paper, offer food, and burn incense in the lobby.

When a person dies, the body will also be placed in the lobby, and the body will be carried up the mountain for burial only after 3 days, and the whole funeral will be completed.

But for those who died of murder, many places in the countryside are more taboo to park the body in the lobby, but to put it outside the house, and for most of the deceased in this part of the time, the funeral will be relatively simple.

My personal analysis, the reason why the murder is not buried in the church is that the countryside feels that this part of the deceased is unfortunate, especially many who died at a very young age, and the hall is dedicated to the ancestors and ancestors.

For those who die at the age of 50, even if they die of illness, people will feel that it is a normal death, and they can be placed in the lobby.

On the contrary, if someone kills or commits suicide, the rural village feels ashamed of the ancestors, so they do not put it in the lobby to disturb the ancestors and ancestors.

Of course, there is also a saying that these murderous deaths are unfortunate in the eyes of the countryside, and they do not want to bring this misfortune into the house, and it is understandable not to enlarge the church.

When it comes to the topic of enlightenment, it is inevitable that there will be some sentimentality and sadness, but there is only one life, so I still remind everyone to take care of their bodies, exercise more, stay up less late, remember to eat three meals a day, and stay away from diseases.

Don't fight with people, be cautious about making friends, stay away from dangerous people, you can see a psychiatrist when you are under great psychological pressure, and don't think about going to extremes.