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Although the economy is developing rapidly, there are still many bad habits in the countryside, and the thinking of the older generation still has some feudal remnants, such as the preference for sons over daughters, extravagance and waste in weddings and funerals, and the low status of women, etc., which are all bad habits that are still retained in the countryside.
The first is the preference for sons, which can be said to have been passed down for many years, and has even become a custom. In the countryside, even though boys and girls are now more important, in the eyes of the older generation of farmers, boys can still pass on the lineage. If a newlywed couple adds a new girl, the parents will usually have a second child, hoping to have another boy.
Although the name is a good word, in the final analysis, I still want to have a boy and a grandson who will inherit the lineage. For example, some peasant friends of the older generation still do not have a sense of equality between men and women, and girls suffer more in some rural areas.
In addition, the status of women is low, and when relatives gather for dinner during the New Year's holidays, the men eat first, and then it is the women's turn to eat. Because in most rural areas, men earn money outside the home to support their families, while women only need to take care of their families, so their status is slightly lower and they have little right to speak. But now it's different, women can also hold up half the sky, so this bad habit has been slowly eliminated, but there are still some places where this habit is still used, and the status of women is not guaranteed.
The last is the extravagance and waste of weddings and funerals, the countryside should feast the whole village guests when they get married, and each guest present must give a full gift, and the funeral is not in a hurry to bury the deceased, but to hold a funeral for about three days before being buried. These are all bad habits that are still preserved in the countryside today.
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Bad habits that are still common in rural areas are: there is still an image of preference for sons over daughters in some areas, of course, this phenomenon not only exists in rural areas, but also in cities, but it is still more so in rural areas. Because this is the influence of traditional culture in the countryside, the concept of clan will not be diluted for a while.
Bride price. The bride price was originally a kind of etiquette for the working people in ancient China, but in some rural areas, the bride price was developed into a tool for collecting money, which was a manifestation of the things left by the ancestors. With a yin marriage.
It is also concentrated in rural areas, which refers to finding a marriage partner for deceased, but unmarried men, and there are also more than 100,000 yuan of financial resources. This is obviously incompatible with our current mainstream values. Superstition.
This point is very serious, and it brings certain harm to the society, such as not going to the hospital when you are sick, but asking for some great immortal dancing god. The problem of perception also needs to be solved by education. Spring breeze turns rain, moisturizing things silently.
Children living in rural areas have a strong family atmosphere and are easily influenced by their parents, whose words and deeds have a profound impact on their children. Bad habits and fine traditions are the same through the inheritance of generations to be continued, stereotypes and bad habits are related to concepts, it has been a long time, it is impossible to say that a word of innovation can be changed by changing habits, the appearance of the village is easy to change, and the concept of people is difficult. Therefore, education needs to be subtle.
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Burial and foot binding are all bad customs in ancient times.
Accompanying burial refers to the burial of the deceased in the grave with utensils, livestock or people and servants to ensure the blessing of the deceased's soul. Burial with a person is a common custom in ancient funerals, and the difference between burial and burial is that it is to wait for the living to die normally before being buried in the tomb. Among them, some of the deceased's wives and concubines and servants were buried with them, and there were also figurines, belongings, utensils, etc., and after they died, they would send everything they enjoyed in life, including beautiful wives and concubines, to the grave.
Foot binding, also known as foot binding, is a bad habit in ancient China, that is, a woman's feet are wrapped in cloth to make it into a small and pointed "three-inch golden lotus". The "three-inch golden lotus" also once became an important condition for women's aesthetics in ancient China. However, the beginning of foot binding in ancient times and the reason why the small feet of women were called "golden lotus" have always been a mystery.
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1. Early love;
2. Smoking; 3. Addicted to online games;
4. Vulgar language (swear words);
5. Call brothers and sisters, and form gangs;
6. Pursue fashion, pay attention to eating, drinking and dressing;
7. Spitting, throwing cigarette butts, defecating;
8. Smoking and making loud noises in public places;
9. Harm others and benefit oneself;
10. Superstition (fortune telling);
11. Disrespecting the labor of others (wasting food, etc.);
12. Seeing profit and forgetting righteousness;
13. Disrespecting elders and caring for the young;
14. Covetousness, cheapness, etc.
15. Unpunctuality, credit, etc.;
16. Graffiti and carts.
Past bad habits: 1. Polygamy.
2. Inbreeding.
3Let a widow be a widow.
4. Three Platforms and Five Constants.
5. Foot binding (small foot wrapping).
6. Men are inferior to women.
7 feudal 8 rich people are rich, and the poor are used as servants by the rich man to go to the rotten harem system.
10 torture.
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Women are not allowed to study: "Women are virtuous if they are not talented".
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girdles, circumcision, foot binding, and so on
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It's just that I just don't think the opportunity will be!
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Who wouldn't want to live as a man with three wives and four concubines?
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1. Polygamy.
2. Inbreeding.
3Let a widow be a widow.
4. Three Platforms and Five Constants.
5 feudal. 6The rich man was rich, and the poor were taken away as servants by the rich man.
7 rotten harem system.
8. Torture. 9. Foot binding.
10 Girls are not allowed to go to school.
11. Patriarchy.
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Patriarchal. Waste of food. I don't know etiquette.
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Tie a long whip and bind your feet ,..The landlord can watch Sun Yat-sen break bad habits.
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Girls can't go to school, men are inferior, patriarchal is patriarchal, and feet are bound.
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