Do you know who has a history of making a big deal out of indecision?

I feel that the most familiar one is Zhuge Liang.

The empty city plan, because of Sima Yi.

's indecisiveness, so let the empty city go more mysterious, and it has also achieved a classic event that everyone knows now, if Zhuge Liang at that time was indeed like a god.

During the Chu and Han dynasties, Xiang Yu and Liu Bang, Liu Bang went to the Hongmen Banquet, when Xiang Yu did not kill Liu Bang because of arrogance and indecision, but in the end, there were 10 ambushes and his life was ruined. promoted the establishment of the Han Dynasty, and Xiang Yu should be the spokesman for indecision.

The famous history in history is that Xiang Yu was in the "Hongmen Banquet", Xiang Yu because of indecision, did not listen to his uncle's advice, and killed Liu Bang, which led to his later failure, and finally Xiang Yu committed suicide, and Liu Bang established the Han Dynasty.

What I know is Xiang Yu, Xiang Yu's "Hongmen Banquet", that is, he has been hesitating, and then unsure, and then because of his hesitation and uncertainty, and then letting the other party win, the other party fled, and then it destroyed his dynasty. It's better not to be indecisive, which will delay a lot of things.

Nominate Xiang Yu, don't look at him as brave and invincible on the battlefield, but politically indecisive. At that time, people's evaluation of Xiang Yu was generally indecisive, among which Han Xin was the most representative: to make people meritorious, to be knighted, to seal and can't bear to give, this so-called woman's benevolence is also.

Translated into it, when his subordinates have merit and want to be rewarded, Xiang Yu is very hesitant, and even smooths out the four corners of the seal letter, and does not give it to others.

The so-called indecision is because whether it is perceptual thinking or rational calculation, they think a lot, but they do not have reasonable motivation and scientific basis as support, so that they cannot make reasonable decisions that they can accept.

Then after knowing why it is indecisive, the answer is obvious.

First of all, be clear about what you want to do with each decision, and ask yourself what you want to do and what kind of results you will get.

Second, what evidence do you need to support your decision, and determine what you have experience with, and what you need to rely on external resources to obtain.

Finally, the uncertain factors are turned into certainty through active efforts, and then the indecision is repeated in the above process to act quickly.

Finally, the selected basis is synthesized, the calculation is matched with the target, and a decision is made.

Remember, there are no perfect people and perfect decisions in this world, the probability is about the same, and the rest of the uncertainty is left to perceptual intuition, which is the true value of the existence of intuition.

Summary. Success belongs to those who are decisive, resolute, and have strong execution. They also make mistakes and fail sometimes, but they must be much better than those who are indecisive and have a much better chance of success.

An indecisive person, even when things are favorable to him, he does not dare to make a decision, he is afraid of the wolf and the tiger, he is also hesitant to think about that, he is undecided, he is not strong-willed, he will not believe in himself, nor will he be trusted by others, how can he succeed? Because of indecision, many people ruin their bright future and lose the opportunity to build their dreams. If you are also an indecisive person, these two suggestions may be able to help you, help you improve your execution, and your life will become smoother and smoother.

How many people fail because of indecision.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Success belongs to those who are decisive, resolute, and have strong execution. They also make mistakes and fail sometimes, but they must be much better than those who are indecisive and have a much better chance of success. An indecisive person, even when things are favorable to him, he does not dare to make a decision, he is afraid of the wolf and the tiger, he is also hesitant to think about that, he is undecided, he is not strong-willed, he will not believe in himself, nor will he be trusted by others, how can he succeed?

Because of indecision, many people ruin their bright future and lose the opportunity to build their dreams. If you are also an indecisive person, these two suggestions may be able to help you, help you improve your execution, and your life will become smoother and smoother.

Summary. Indecisive, it is better to let go of the decisionIndecisive people are almost all passive, they are used to hesitation, and they completely lose confidence in themselves, so in the face of more important events, they always dare not decide. Some people who have good abilities, character and opportunities are because of their indecisive character and put their lives into their lives.

Sure that it is feasible, it is better to take risks than to be indecisive, and those who are cowardly and indecisive will only procrastinate, and those who are reckless can only set themselves on fire. Therefore, if you are sure that it is feasible and right, you must dare to take risks and not be indecisive. Scientists have found that a person is born an adventurer.

How many people fail because of indecision.

Indecisive, it is better to let go of the decisionIndecisive people are almost all passive, they are used to hesitation, and they completely lose confidence in themselves, so in the face of more important events, they always dare not decide. Some people who have good abilities, character and opportunities are because of their indecisive character and put their lives into their lives.

Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.

Indecisive, it is better to let go of the decisionIndecisive people are almost all passive, they are used to hesitation, and they completely lose confidence in themselves, so in the face of more important events, they always dare not decide. Some people who have good abilities, character and opportunities are because of their indecisive character and put their lives into their lives. Sure that it is feasible, it is better to take risks than to be indecisive, and those who are cowardly and indecisive will only procrastinate, and those who are reckless can only set themselves on fire.

Therefore, if you are sure that it is feasible and right, you must dare to take risks and not be indecisive. Scientists have found that a person is born an adventurer.

I used to say the same thing to a friend. He said it was because he was so kind, haha. I think I'm a nice person, hehe.

I used to be so indecisive that sometimes I had to struggle for a long time when I got up early to go out and wear that dress. There are still times when decisions need to be made, and many things are vacillating when I work in the Youth League Committee of the school. You should know that if he vacillates as a leader, his subordinates will be even more confused.

This bothers me myself. I feel too unimpressed, a woman's kindness.

But it's much better now.

Haha, let me share it with you.

First, the decision is to first clarify your goals, what you want to do, how you can do it, and then it is nothing more than two choices – yes or no.

Second, once you decide, you have to do it unswervingly. Just like the ancient emperors, once they said something, they couldn't take back a truth.

Third, don't think too much about the other person, if it's a negotiation or a relationship, or a negotiation. If you blindly consider each other, you will unconsciously soften yourself and stick to your own position. Don't be too tender, too tender, that's the kindness of a woman, when you should be ruthless, you have to be ruthless, Zhuge Liang doesn't tear and kill the horse, then you can't deter the three armies!

Fourth, it is to pay attention to some small details, no decision in history can be preserved! There will always be some sacrifices, and what you have to do is measure which method is best! If the baht must be compared, the tiger is afraid of the tiger and the wolf is afraid, and it will be chaotic.

You also have the courage to gamble! Do you remember "Detective Di Renjie", Li Kaigu's sentence "Anti-fucking!" Haha, you need that kind of courage!

In short, that's all, in life, as long as you have a clear goal and stick to your position. That's it. These, alas, are ugly under haha.

It's a personality issue for everyone!!

Personality is a person's personality characteristics in a person's stable attitude towards reality and habitual behavior, which shows a person's moral character and is affected by people's values, outlook on life, and world view. These personality differences, which have the meaning of moral evaluation, are called personality differences. Personality is gradually formed in the acquired social environment, and it is the core personality difference of people.

There are good and bad personalities, which can most directly reflect a person's moral outlook.

Personality is gradually formed in social life and is also influenced by the biological factors of the individual.

Difference Between Nature and Character:

Personality is acquired, such as shy character, irritable character, decisive personality and indecisive character.

Nature is an innate and unchangeable way of thinking. Natures are innately formed, such as self-esteem, vanity, sense of honor, etc. Human nature includes the nature of survival, the nature of laziness and the nature of dissatisfaction.

It depends on what problems you encounter, if you want to admit it, but you can't resist the moral standards, then your heart will be entangled, if you can do it without foreign objects in your heart, and identify yourself as an idealist, then people will not be indecisive, and if you have no desire, you will be strong

People will be indecisive, which means that this person is a very responsible person, but the method needs to be improved when analyzing and dealing with problems. In this way, it should be possible to correctly analyze and deal with the question of why a person is indecisive.

There are too many external factors to consider, and I prefer to get a perfect result. In fact, there is no perfect result in anything, only the best.

This is a matter of character, and there are people in their twenties who live to adulthood; From the previous way of doing things and behavioral inertia to determine the way you deal with things or problems, this is from the accumulation.

People live in this world, because of the ever-changing things around them, they will have different effects on themselves and others, which will make people have a variety of emotions, and indecision is a personality phenomenon formed by people's own resistance to negative emotions

That's because you're thinking. Because when people think, their thoughts are the most changing. There are often disagreements, which leads to multiple choices, which then leads to people wandering between multiple choices, and finally leads to indecision.

I will too, it's not good to form a habit, in fact, there is nothing to be afraid of thinking about, what if you make a wrong decision, life is like this, it's either right or wrong, as long as you find the right thing next time.

It should be said that everyone has this characteristic more and more than before, because human survival is inseparable from the environment, and the more information he obtains from the environment, the more difficult it is to make choices based on the available information.

People's thoughts cause indecision, there are memories and gains, and no one knows what will happen in the next second, so there will be thinking and hesitation.

Everyone has their own demons, the key is whether they realize that everyone's sensibility and rationality, the key is who is more inclined to, or who behaves more under what circumstances, the more rational expressive people are likely to have more demons, the more they have to restrain themselves, the difference between demons, beasts, and people is that people have a tender side.

Because people are not independent individuals, everything they do may affect others, and indecision is that they can't judge the specific things that are affected, and the analysis is not clear.

Generally, it is a two-trend conflict, or a two-avoidance conflict, that is, you want to do two things at the same time, or you don't want to do two things at the same time, but you have to do one.

Because man, as a relatively high-level animal who can think rationally, his mind can sometimes become sentimental.

All indecision is to worry about yourself, some things just need to think clearly, think about what the result is, and do what you think is right!

Indecisiveness can be traced back to a problem of character, that is, it is determined by character, which is formed inadvertently by us, and when we are aware of it, we already have such problems.

The causes are generally derived from the individual's growth environment, personal past experiences and experiences, and the consideration of the consequences.

We have this problem when we are unconscious, and when we are aware of it.

I think too much; There are many worries; There are gains and losses in life, and it cannot be perfect. So if you want to open it, you will no longer be indecisive.

Answer; Because people are afraid of losing, it leads to indecision and their own opinions.

At the end of the Qin Dynasty, Fan Zeng persuaded Xiang Yu to kill Liu Bang many times, Xiang Yu was indecisive, and finally Liu Bang killed the Hongmen Banquet: In the last years of the Qin Dynasty, there were continuous uprisings from all walks of life, and there were two major forces, one is: Xiang Yu, and the other is:

Liu Bang, at the beginning Liu Bang was weak, Xiang Yu was strong, after the princes joined forces, there was an agreement: whoever captured Xianyang first, you have Xianyang (Xianyang was the national capital at that time), Liu Bang took the people's hearts and minds and captured it first, but Xiang Yu was unhappy, and planned to call Liu Bang to the dinner and kill him, but the traitor betrayed Xiang Yu and told Liu Bang, Liu Bang flattered Xiang Yu many times during the dinner, Xiang Yu wavered and let Liu Bang go, and finally Xiang Yu was defeated in the military and killed himself (Farewell My Concubine also appeared here).

ps: Liu Bang is a villain, Xiang Yu is not a good person, Liu Bang is good at cunning rabbit dead lackey cooking, Xiang Yu is good at slaughtering the city of Meridian Valley plot, during the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang, the prime minister of Shu Han, made a northern expedition to Cao Wei, and the famous general Wei Yan put forward the famous Meridian Valley plot: Wei Yan personally led more than 10,000 elite soldiers from the Meridian Valley to Chang'an quickly, and won Chang'an and Tongguan in one fell swoop, while Zhuge Liang's army marched out of the Slope Valley to Chang'an and Tongguan, and the two armies met in Tongguan.

Zhuge Liang has always been cautious in his use of troops, believing that this plan is too dangerous and difficult to succeed, so he abandoned it. Most of the people in later generations thought that Zhuge Liang was too cautious, and it was a big mistake not to use Wei Yan's Meridian Valley plot and missed the perfect opportunity; Some people also believe that the reason why Zhuge Liang did not adopt it was that Zhuge Liang did not intend to attack Chang'an at all, and his goal should be to take Liangzhou first, and then gradually encroach on Cao Wei step by step.