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It depends on what kind of nickname you have, and your attitude when you call someone else's nickname, and it also depends on who you call by your nickname. If you're friends and your nickname doesn't contain swear words or insults, then it's okay to make a fuss. But if the other party is unwilling or doesn't like this nickname, and you want to continue, then you can only find scolding.
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If it's a compliment, it's fine, but if it's derogatory, on the one hand, it's rude to the other party, and on the other hand, it also seems that you're uneducated and unqualified. Even if you call your name, you can't call it casually, it depends on who the other party is, and the occasion of the score, do you think about it carefully? If it's a close friend, it doesn't matter when you're alone and the other person doesn't mind, and it's prudent on other occasions.
Put yourself in the other person's shoes and do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you. To respect others is to respect yourself.
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Calling nicknames is not necessarily malicious, and some are also going with the flow, thinking that they are just calling out! As long as it's not the kind of offensive and hurtful title, don't take it too seriously. If you don't like what people call you, you can let them know, maybe they don't call it because they're bored.
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It's not that there is no quality, if you have a good relationship and call him by a nickname, you will feel very kind, but if you are just an ordinary friend and call him some bad nicknames, people will think that you are very impolite.
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Of course not, it depends on the object, if this person is more familiar with you, the relationship is particularly iron; It's more cordial to shout a nickname, if you are not familiar with it or an ordinary friend, try not to call a nickname.
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Some people say that it is uncivilized to give others a nickname, if the weakness over there is a joke, the nickname calls his nickname everywhere, it is really unqualified, because he does not put himself in his shoes, if he is also nicknamed by others, in the public hall, what will it be like to call him? Your way of others is also the way of others!
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Not necessarily. Clause.
1. Nicknames don't have to be derogatory.
Clause. 2. Distinguish the distance of the relationship between each other, the occasion, and the language expression and context.
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Depending on the occasion and the object, in general daily life, it is a pleasure to say a nickname, and the other party will not blame it, and everyone will be happy with it. But formal occasions or more important meetings should be more formal, not too casual!
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When it comes to nicknames, pay attention to the following points, 1 It depends on the relationship between the two of you, 2 Whether there is a human attack, everyone has some flaws, 3 The most important point, some people ignore it.
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It's not all, it all depends on what the nickname is, and the attitude of people when you call people nicknames.
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That's not the case, people who are more familiar with each other, and people who have a good relationship like to call each other nicknames. All of our colleagues in the work group are called nicknames.
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Anyway, I don't think it's unqualified.
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That's right, besides, aren't you angry when people say your nickname?
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This doesn't count, it's just a nickname given to yourself by others. For example, nicknames between friends are a joke, but if it is malicious, you can choose the following methods to do it.
1. Restrain yourself from getting angry
When you meet someone who gives yourself a nickname, you must first work hard to restrain your emotions, you can't be angry, you can't be angry, you can't cause a bigger physical conflict because of a small nickname, the best way is to endure, ignore it, let your belly be bigger, if you can smile at them, it's better, they make themselves angry and unhappy, they are happy, they feel bored, maybe it's over quickly.
2. Treat nicknames correctly:
The nicknames given to themselves by others should also be treated correctly, you must know that there will be nicknames when you go to school when you are a child, it is not a big deal in the hole, there are good nicknames, of course, there are more bad ones, and bad nicknames also reflect one of your own shortcomings, just correct it yourself, and you can't make yourself unhappy every day because of the nickname.
3. Tell them how they feel
When someone gives themselves a nickname and keeps calling their nickname, tell them directly that they don't like such nicknames, ask them to respect themselves, respect themselves, tell them how they feel in their hearts, don't keep it in their hearts, and they don't know that they hurt themselves by doing so.
4. Not weak or forbearing:
If you encounter someone who maliciously gives yourself a nickname, and repents and shuddering and the nickname is particularly hurtful to your self-esteem, you can't be weak, you can't be afraid of them, if you blindly be weak, tolerate it, endure it, they will feel that they are better bullies, they will be more presumptuous, you can tell teachers or parents, let them help them solve such things.
5. Look at the relationship with the other party:
Someone gives themselves a nickname, but also to see who that person is, what is the relationship with themselves, if it is a good friend, it is not malicious, just to better shorten the distance between the two, maybe such a nickname will only be called when you get along, then it will be acquiesced, if you are unhappy, also give each other one, nothing, as long as it is not external.
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The first point is that by dealing sensibly with the problem of being nicknamed, you can turn the situation around and benefit yourself.
There is a workaround for any problem, and there is only one best workaround. When we find the best solution, we can get the most benefit. When you encounter the situation of being taken out of the car, you should rationally analyze the reality and make a proper response, such as the other party is just joking, then you should treat it generously, so as to maintain the harmony of the relationship between each other.
And if you find that the other party is deliberately embarrassing your own laughter, you should resolutely fight back, so as to effectively protect your own interests. In this way, the problem of being nicknamed by others can be properly solved, and one's own interests can be effectively safeguarded.
The second point is that when we are nicknamed, we have to overcome embarrassment and embarrassment.
For the vast majority of people and the vast majority of cases, when they are nicknamed, they will feel embarrassed and embarrassed. The reason why this situation arises is that if you are given a nickname, it means that you have been treated with disrespect, and you will inevitably feel embarrassed and embarrassed. However, this feeling does not help you solve your problems, it only makes you more passive.
Therefore, you must overcome this emotion.
The third point is that you should calmly face the situation of being nicknamed by others to avoid making mistakes on impulse.
When you encounter a situation where you are nicknamed, you must stay calm and not be impulsive. The reason why I want to do this is because the words and deeds of the other party are in the nature of ridicule after all, and if you act irrationally because of impulse, the result will be extremely unfavorable to yourself. Understanding this truth, when we face someone who gives us a nickname, we should calm down and face it calmly, so as to find the most effective way to solve the problem.
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Nicknames should have existed since ancient times, for example, in the Water Margin, 108 will have nicknames, but nicknames and nicknames are different. Giving someone a nickname is an uncivilized act that not only hurts someone's self-esteem, but also affects the unity of classmates. 1. There are all kinds of nicknames Among these nicknames that everyone takes each other, some of the nicknames are homonyms of names, such as if you are called Qin Cai, I will give you a nickname called "celery" and "green vegetables", this kind of nickname is not intended to hurt people, but I think it is more fun to replace the name with another name that is not related to it.
Some nicknames are taken according to the style and appearance of the body, for example, obese classmates are often called "Dandan", "Big Fat", "Fat", and classmates with big and prominent front teeth are called "rabbits" and "elephants", many of these nicknames contain sarcastic meanings. There are also some nicknames that are simply swearing, what "sycophant", what "Zhou Papi", etc., the classmates with these nicknames, their mentality is not good, and they are very energetic when they see their classmates being tortured by these nicknames. Second, low-level fun, poor and happy, although the motive of the classmates who give nicknames to others may be just to "be happy", and there is no malice.
However, this kind of "happiness" often provokes others to be "unhappy", and even brings pain to others. So, whatever the motive, don't just pick up nicknames. If a classmate has a nickname, you must not call it easily, unless the classmate thinks his nickname is funny, and he himself likes it very much.
Each of us has an official name, which is enough. Third, when you are called a nickname, you must be silent and face to face to the nickname. When a classmate gives you a nickname, the most undesirable way for you is to get excited for a while,-for-tat, you take me one, and I will give you one in return.
As a result, there were more and more nicknames in the class. If a classmate calls you a nickname, you can ignore him and make him feel that the shouting is unanswered and boring. In this way, after not shouting a few times, he will automatically give up.
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It depends on how to analyze it, if it's between friends, who is joking. But no matter what, you have to do things in moderation, and the same goes for nicknames.
Regarding the issue of nicknames, it should be analyzed according to the situation, friends nickname each other, first of all, they think it is fun, and they do not think of hurting their friends' self-esteem; Secondly, some friends have obvious appearance characteristics, such as too fat, too thin or with rich expressions, etc., and the nickname is also to remind everyone that you are different, if it is a place that can highlight your own advantages, then you should be happy.
If it's your own shortcomings (not physical ones), try to overcome them. Of course, if someone deliberately uses their shortcomings as nicknames and they feel hurt, first of all, you have to tell others that you don't like what they call you. If they don't listen, you'd better ignore it when someone calls you by your nickname, because the more you care, the more people like to call you by your nickname.
If you ignore them, after a long time, everyone may forget about the coarse upgrade. Also, you can ask your funny friend Lu to give you a nice nickname instead of a nickname you don't like. In addition, if you are willing to give others a nickname, please also reflect on it, if your nickname has brought harm and pain to others, then can you build your happiness on the pain of others?
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