Am I unqualified? Say I m not qualified, what should I do

Landlord, I think it's very hard for you to live like this

If staying with you every day, with the people closest to you, can't even give you the most basic sense of security, then what is the point of the two of you being together?

For ordinary people, it is really inappropriate to peek at your boyfriend's text messages, QQ and the like, but because his past has brought you too much anxiety and impatience.

Actually, I think you're very conflicted right now, maybe you don't want to see his stuff yourself, but you don't have any other way to ** his world. I think you should ask your boyfriend to take the initiative to tell you who he usually dates, and more importantly, think about the reason why you are together, whether this person is worth your trust.

I hope you are happy

You are too young to have such a strong sense of family responsibility.

You already don't trust your boyfriend in your heart, so it's all wrong to blame yourself.

Think about it carefully, what you can't let go of now is your relationship over the years, not this man.

Are you going to live with this man for the rest of your life?

If he recidives. While you're still young. Put an end to this bad relationship.

I think that the relationship between the two is ultimately based on the same morality, and at the same time, both parties need to be mature and responsible enough. Judging from what you said, this man is too immature and too irresponsible, which makes people doubt his character. So, I suggest you leave him first!

Because now he is very unreliable! Of course, you can also observe for a period of time, it may be a year, it may be two years, it may be ten years, as long as you are willing to wait! Anyway, for now, I advise you not to be infatuated with him.

No, meaningless love is terrible. If you want to love, you just think too much.

It's not that you don't have quality, it's because your boyfriend is too much. You tell him directly, and you say, "You say one thing and do another."

What do you mean, it is a failure to be a human being like this, we have to learn to be honest with people, I care about you so much, you treat me like this, how do you let me face you. And you said to your netizens, don't I exist? There is no need to pay attention to anything, you should also explain it to them.

What do you mean, want to pedal a few boats? You explain it to me. "He shouldn't be so rampant.

You try it. If not, you can add me 690036641

Scold, scold, such a person changes scolding, maybe you should have a good chat with this man, he betrayed you again and again, which shows that your weight in his heart is not very heavy I wish you to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.

...It is said on the Internet that you should be proud to be a woman. You love him so much and forgive him many times for his serious mistakes, and you give too much ... Do you think he loves you? If love why is it betrayed again and again, what is the past.

Do you think such a guy likes you???

You're not unqualified. You're doing the right thing! Actually, you just want that part of your own. But the man had different feelings.

I'm worried about you. Even after getting married, it was the life of the mistress. Alas. You will be wronged later.

Landlord, I understand your situation. I used to be one of those boys.

Your quality is not low, you are just too nervous about him, and you are afraid of losing, so you catch him tighter.

Your boyfriend is a sign of immaturity, but he will always mature one day, are you willing to wait?

However, I think landlord, let it go, that boy doesn't love you at all. Letting go early can alleviate the pain.

In fact, letting go is good for everyone. For a boy to mature, he must go through something, and your departure can make him understand. And you can also liberate yourself and have a better tomorrow.

I used to be such a boy, and after being abandoned, I understood a lot, and I improved a lot.

The point is that if you don't change your tolerance, what is there for him to be tolerated and forgiven?

It's not that you are unqualified, it's that this man is too unqualified.

These reactions of yours are normal, and they are all within the normal reactions of a normal woman.

It's just a pity that you haven't met a man who loves you and loves you.

These so-called manifestations of your lack of quality are all given by this man.

Have you ever thought that if you left this boy, you would become more noble?

So, be noble, and let this humble J man fuck off.

Others scold me for being unqualified, how can I deal with him?

If you refute directly, first, it will appear that you have low emotional intelligence, second, to make others look down on you, and third, the person who ridicules or scolds you has achieved the purpose of provoking you. There is a way to try, if others ridicule you, you can follow the self-deprecation, scold yourself all over again, it is best to devalue yourself as worthless, exaggerated, so that the person who mocks you will not be able to react at once, and he can't say anything if he wants to scold you, in the eyes of others, you have also created a good at controlling your emotions, optimistic and humble image, but it will make the person who scolds you look embarrassed.

Sometimes, for various reasons, a person may be ridiculed, insulted, and abused by others, and at this time, most people will be very angry, and then-for-tat,-for-tat, and finally lose both. But some people may choose to look at it coldly and silence it, such people generally have a high level of cultivation, they don't want to deal with low-quality people, and they know that silence is the most powerful way to fight back.

After a long time, the person who ridicules and insults others finds it boring because he cannot find a target, so he naturally stops his bad behavior, his ugly face is exposed, and the person who is ridiculed, insulted and insulted wins without a fight. This is not the spirit of Ah Q.

The method of victory, which is a high emotional intelligence.

performance. Imagine renting it back, the dog bites someone, do you have to bite it again? Dogs are not sensible, and people can't be as ignorant as animals, and they can endure it.

As the saying goes: "Take a step back and open the sea and the sky, and the sail of the world is calm for a while." Please remember this passage:

Dogs can't be too full, people can't be too good; endure for a while, take a step back, and intensify it; Don't joke too much, or it's all a disaster; If you don't have enough love, the money will make up; A group of dogs behind you with money, and a difficult social road without money; See what is good for you, remember who was bitten; It should be eaten, drunk and buried, and it is a bad thing.

Don't take it to heart; Mortals only speak three points, and leave seven points to fight the world.

He said that you have no quality, then you will take out a posture of no quality and scold him back, provoke him, such as the socks and the fruit of his foul mouth, he will say that he is double standard, and his own quality is not good, or he will compliment him, saying that he is good and has quality, and he must not be able to scold people for lack of shirts casually, so that he can not return the mouth when he is scolded.

Quality people never say that others are "unqualified".

Question 1: Unqualified people mean that it is very impolite to talk nonsense about others. A quality person means, to say to a person, that's pretty much what it means.

But the lack of quality is not only in language.

There is also some behavior.

Words and deeds are included.

Question 2: What does it mean when others say that you are cultivated and qualified? It's the meaning of praising you.,From the conversation and behavior are gentle and elegant.,Close to the meaning of tutoring.,It can also be said to have connotation.,I believe that the landlord's character is good! Watchtower Lord!

Question 3: Why do you say that people have no quality, what is the quality of thank you, how to swim is related to meat and vegetarian, thank you A person who has no quality means that the person's moral character is poor.

Question 4: What does it mean to say that a person's quality is stronger than mine A person's quality is multifaceted, including moral quality and cultural quality.

Question 5: Does describing a person's poor quality mean that the person is bad? Or is this person dishonest?

Quality refers to the character and personality of a person. An extremely selfish person is often seen as of poor quality; Those who think that the law is self-sufficient and unlimited are considered to be of poor quality; Those who do not abide by public morality are considered to be of poor quality. And all this is not related to good or bad people, nor is it related to old age!

Question 6: How to look at a person's quality Today someone says that the quality is low and cares a lot If a person who understands you very well and understands you very well says that your quality is low, you can examine what you have done to make him feel so. If a person who is not very familiar with you says this, is it necessary to pay attention to it, the world is so big, there are so many people, how can you care about everyone's words for so much time, your stage is not big, there is no need for everyone to agree with you.

The so-called low quality refers to the fact that some things are morally condemned, but here is a sentence, some things without quality do not need to be cared about, this society is like this).

Question 7: How to be reasonable when encountering unqualified people? Don't they speak human words except swearing???

Since there is no need to reason with them without quality, play the piano to the cow, waste tongue, what we can do is to let them continue to be unqualified, rest assured, there will be more people who are bored with them, what I said is right, then I thank you!!

Question 8: Describe a person as incapable, incapable and not allowed others to say it. This is the meaning of what idiom is used to describe the corpse vegetarian meal.

Describe a person who is incapable and incapable, and does not let others say it.

Question 9: Why are some people so unqualified, and others are kind to him, no, if you don't say anything, you just have to scold others in turn, and say that it's okay. Be generous to yourself. Isn't it my fault to deal with him?

What should I do if someone else "disrespects" me? 4 tricks to teach you how to deal with people who don't have quality!

Respect for others is a noble virtue and an outward manifestation of one's inner cultivation. But for what the subject said, someone yelled at you in public, deliberately stumbling to make you ugly, and didn't call you by your name.

Directly called "alas". These behaviors are all signs of disrespect for you.

So what do we do if we encounter such a thing in our lives?

1. Turn a blind eye.

There are long and short fingers, and the quality of people is also high and low. Respect is mutual, and if someone doesn't respect you, you treat him like air. If you feel angry, treat them in the same way, and you will not become a person like him.

Such things cannot be avoided, and it is inevitable that you will encounter some unqualified people in life, so you should not see anything and avoid it, out of sight and out of mind. You tell them by your actions that you don't take them seriously at all. He's just directing and acting like a clown.

2. Do the opposite.

He doesn't respect you in order to make you angry and make you obstructed. You just pretend you don't know anything, smile at him, be polite to him, and show great respect for him. The more rude he says, the more polite you will be in reply. This will naturally make the other party feel embarrassed.

3. Trying to communicate.

Some people may not have high quality due to tutoring. Sometimes it may be because you have some misunderstandings with others, so others will deliberately target you and deliberately disrespect you and embarrass you. You can find an opportunity for two people to have a good chat, and if the communication is fruitless, the farther away such people will be in the future, the better.

However, you must not blindly tolerate it, otherwise you will only let the other party gain an inch. You can confront him openly. But you must grasp the degree well, and you must show your self-cultivation.

Fourth, strengthen yourself.

This is the main method, only when you are capable enough, others will not despise you, let alone disrespect you. If you're a leader, who of your employees would dare to yell at you. People who don't respect you just look at you as a bully.

So you have to make yourself stronger, you have to tell yourself that you are not afraid of him, you have to overwhelm him in ability.

Again, respect is mutual. If you encounter such a situation in life, you must deal with it skillfully. In addition, we must also understand that if you want to be respected by others, you must first respect others.

<> means that there is no literacy.

Diathesis. Pronunciation:

sù zhì]

Definition: 1) [diathesis] In psychology, it refers to certain innate characteristics of a person.

2) [quality] The nature of things as they are.

3) [accomplishment] literacy4) [white texture] 白的texture地源:白的texture。 Erya Shi Bird:

Yiluo and south, the quality is all ready, and the chapter is said. Essence. Anthology Zhang Hua Inspirational poems:

Although the labor is simple, the quality is ultimately negative. Near-essential.

Sentence formation pure family. 1. The goal of education reform is to change the education of students from examination to quality.

2. Vigorously popularize nine-year compulsory education and improve the quality of the whole nation.

3. In order to strengthen quality education, the school has reformed the examination method.

4. Teachers attach great importance to cultivating students' all-round qualities.

5. The school teachers pay great attention to the quality education of students.

Quality and cultivation refer to a person's cultural, civilized and moral qualities, which are the embodiment of a person's basic qualities and qualities. If there is no quality, it usually refers to a person's lack of cultural level, words and deeds, treatment of others, etc., and lack of politeness, civilization and respect for his consciousness of Sakura; If there is no cultivation, it usually refers to a person's lack of moral level, moral character and ideological realm, and lack of awareness and respect for morality, morality and social responsibility.

For example, unqualified behavior may include vulgar language, lack of personal hygiene, lack of respect for others, failure to observe public order, etc.; Uncultivated behaviors may include disrespect for others, failure to care for and help others, lack of integrity, selfishness, etc.

Of course, different people may have different standards of quality and cultivation, so they also have different views on what it means to have quality and cultivation. It is important to constantly strive to improve one's quality and cultivation and become a better person.