Is it to be humble or proud?

To be a man must be modest, in order to continue to progress and improve themselves, pride makes people backward, this ancient adage, proved to be correct, but it is not the same as no self-confidence, with self-confidence there is determination and perseverance, so how to be a person, establish a good outlook on life, cultivate noble personal cultivation and morality, will correctly handle these relationships.

Pride should be moderate, whether it is pride or modesty, must maintain a certain degree, any pride or modesty more than a certain degree will be counterproductive, excessive modesty is equal to pride, but excessive pride is not equal to modesty, excessive pride, will blind their eyes, can not see their own shortcomings, resulting in the inability to objectively position themselves, extremely unfavorable to their future life development.

To be a man, you must have appropriate pride, but if you are proud, you must have the capital of pride. We should still remember a classic quote in a sketch at the Spring Festival Gala one year: I am a security guard, I am proud.

This is to say that a loyal little security guard identifies with his profession, why? It is this security guard who thinks that he is conscientious and conscientious as a security guard, and I am proud! Doing their job conscientiously and conscientiously is the pride of this security guard.

Being a humble person is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, but with the development of society and the progress of mankind, I believe that we should be appropriately proud and proud of the harvest we have obtained through hard work and sweat.

Be low-key, do things in a high-profile manner, and absolutely insist on your own position on what you are good at, even if you are wrong, it is your own growth to correct it, but if you are right, your position is not firm, and you will only regret that you are too cowardly in the future.

Humility makes people progress, and arrogance makes people lag behind! This is true, but in real life, too much humility and too much politeness can make some people fools! This is a lesson in life, people are a little arrogant is not too much, in today's society, if you don't have a little arrogance, you can't do anything!

Everyone says, "Humility makes a man progress, pride makes a man backward". I don't think one can be too modest, too modest is more proud than pride! So be humble when you should be humble, and be proud of yourself!

I think it depends on the specific situation, when you meet a leader, older than yourself, you should be polite and modest, and when it comes to the profession, you must be confident and can no longer be modest, and it is best to avoid arrogance, there are people outside the person.

Be humble and not proud, I don't understand the meaning of this sentence very much, but every time when I get good grades and want to be complacent, the teacher or parents will send this sentence.

For this reason, the meaning of modesty has been specifically investigated, modesty refers to being modest, not exaggerating one's abilities or worth, not being exaggerated or conceited, not being reckless or not going his own way, and being able to take the initiative to ask others for advice or advice before making a decision or taking action with confidence.

People who are not modest are the least likely to listen to the advice of others, and are the easiest to make irrational judgments.

In the long history of our country, there are many stories that tell this truth: the importance of humility when Hui Na slowly achieves certain results.

Xiang Yu and Liu Bang, Xiang Yu is compared to Liu Bang, he is noble, can fight well, and is iron-clad and tender, why did he end up killing Wujiang? Xiang Yu has many advantages, but there is a disadvantage, he is stubborn and self-serving, although he has a strategist Fan Zeng, but he has not listened to the proverbs several times.

On the other hand, Liu Bang, a young man who is mixed in the market, knows people and makes good use of them, Liu Bang himself said: "The front model is not as good as Zhang Liang, the person in charge of the rear is not as good as Xiao He, and the victory is not as good as Han Xin. ”

Indeed, the modesty of successful people will bring their own magnets, and they will continue to attract talented people. Just as Guan Zhong assisted his son Xiaobai to become the Five Tyrants of the Spring and Autumn Period, it was because Duke Qi Huan (Xiaobai) did not care about Guan Zhong's hatred; Zhuge Liang is willing to do his best for Liu Bei, because Liu Bei's three visits to the thatched house are just to see Kong Ming; Wei Zheng devoted his life to speaking for Tang Taizong.

Is it not necessary to be modest for people who have not achieved certain results?

No, if a person has not achieved anything, but he is proud and has everything in his eyes, then he has closed the door to communication with others. Not to mention progress.

What does it take to be humble?

Yang Lan told us that we need to do three things: first, have a sense of awe; 2. Have a warm heart; 3. Be tolerant.

Whether you are humble or not, whether you can learn from the strengths of others, determines whether a person can go uphill for a long time.

In my opinion, humility is the most important element of personality. We often say that an individual's personality is noble, which means that there is the virtue of modesty in that person's personality.

I learned an old Chinese saying, "Only humility and blessing cannot be achieved without humility, and those who can achieve happiness are humble."

"Be blessed with humility" is a very important maxim that I am determined to live by. In this world, some people use strong means to exclude others, and they seem to be very successful, but they are not. The real successful people, although they have fire-like enthusiasm, fighting spirit and fighting spirit, they are also humble and cautious people.

Modesty of manners, modest attitude is a very important qualification in life. However, as I said earlier, people tend to forget their humility and become slow to do things after they have achieved success and risen in status. At this time, it becomes even more important to be humble and not proud.

When the moon is full, it is lost, and when the moon is full, this is the law of nature. So wise men teach people to be humble.

Pavlov also admonished: "Never be proud. For with pride, you will become stubborn where you ought to agree; Because when you are proud, you will reject the counsel of others and the help of friendship; Because with pride, you lose your objective criteria.

If a person becomes proud, setbacks and failures will follow.

The ancient Chinese had many ways of looking at people. An important aspect of observing whether a person is virtuous or not is to see if he is humble. If, after a person has achieved fame, he is not humble and respectful, but arrogant and rude, and thinks very highly of himself, then his career will quickly fail.

The Book of Filial Piety says: "Not arrogant on top, high but not dangerous; Moderation is modest, full but not overflowing. High but not dangerous, so keep it for a long time.

Full but not overflowing, so keep rich for a long time. That's what I'm talking about.

Humility is an important part of a good character. "Humility makes people progress, pride makes people backward". It is always a good thing to look down on yourself whenever you are, on the one hand, it is good for your own progress, and on the other hand, it is good for getting along with others.

The ancients said, "No matter what kind of person you do, you must not be snobbish, no matter what kind of industry you practice, you must not be careless." Do anything, don't always think that you are virtuous, indispensable, this is not good, it is easy to be annoying. A humble person is loved by all.