When did you feel that you were touched by your efforts?

A chubby me, when I got to college, others fell in love, and I was envious, until one time, a boy looked at me, and there was obvious disdain in his eyes, maybe he was too sensitive. But I want to thank him for his disdain, and since then, I have started to **, only eat eight points full, force myself to exercise every day, go to the playground at night to run, and when I am tired, I say to myself over and over again: "Don't let people look down on you!"

Looking at the fried chicken thighs, my favorite food before, I swallowed my saliva and said to myself: "My life is going to be open!" "It turns out that a person can be self-disciplined to such an extent that it is almost masochistic.

Yes, after three months, there was an obvious effect, I lost 10 pounds of meat, and in the past year, I lost more than 150 pounds to 110 pounds. ‍

When I was poor and white with my predecessor, I bought more than 100 square meters of land in our town through my own hard work, the first family with a three-story small building, and then the former and other women occupied all my property, and started from scratch, and bought my current house in more than two years, which is also more than 100 square meters, and the quality of life used to be much better.

Many times, we get everything we want through hard work, and we are moved to cry because it is all earned by our own efforts. Just like when I was admitted to graduate school, I was still working hard day and night, hoping that I would not only work hard for a few days, but for a lifetime, there are many unfairness in this society, but I firmly believe that what we want can be obtained by our own efforts.

I have been working hard since I was 15 years old, running around, investing when I find business opportunities, but they all ended in failure, I am tired all these years, but the career is still working hard, I summed it up, do not be in a hurry, step by step, down-to-earth will not live up to their own efforts, I really don't know how many times I have been moved!

My efforts are not for the hard work of the family and moved, for my daughter kindergarten at home to learn to draw moved, the first time I learned to paint, to her is a big I decided to be magical, I learned at once I admire myself. So moved.

I was alone and had no one to accompany me, and when I was giving birth to a child, I was working hard to learn the art of making clothes and paper patterns, and I was basically studying until two or three o'clock in the morning, and I was moved to cry every time I remembered it!

When I was going to graduate school. From 6:30 in the morning to 11:30 in the evening, I sat in the classroom and studied, eating 3 meals in the middle. Although it feels very bitter, it is enjoyable, and it is not only knowledge, but also stamina and will.

In my third year of high school, I got up early in the morning and went to bed at two or three o'clock. Reading liberal arts questions on the bus, seize every minute and second. Later, I was very grateful to myself for my desperate efforts.

In fact, many times I think that only if I work hard and keep paying, it is possible to move myself.

When I first entered high school, I was a junior with a crane, and then in my junior year of high school, I managed to make it to the top 10.

Don't try so hard that you move yourself, there is no point, the world only looks at the result.

Is that really the case?

Maybe my cognitive latitude is not as high as the boss's pole, I don't care much about the results, I only believe in my own efforts, and one day I will get the answer I want.

Maybe my understanding is wrong, and some of the efforts are really fruitless. If the direction is wrong, 10 points of hard work, maybe -10 harvest, we get the experience of failure.

But this does not affect a person who is willing to put in the effort, even if he fails, and what if he does not really reach the end in the end. Failure can make people grow, failure can lead people to think, there is rarely a success, most of the people who succeed are frustrated in continuous efforts, grow in the loss, and harvest in the growth.

It shows that as long as we work hard, we will be rewarded, and we will go where we want to go. If you don't have enough talent, work hard to make up, and what others can do in five minutes, we spend half an hour; What others can learn in a week, we spend a month; What others can do in a year, we spend three years ....... If you don't have the natural advantage of a rabbit, you can make a turtle.

Many years ago, a girl with only middle school English proficiency got a student who could take an all-English course with the best high school graduates in the country, and her classmates read a paragraph in five minutes, but it took half an hour for her to have almost zero English foundation, without the guidance of the teacher, and she didn't want to affect the classmates who had completed their homework to go out to play, she silently gnawed the dictionary in the library alone, and the final result was not much worse than her classmates.

Don't be influenced by the boss's thinking, because the boss only looks at the result, not the process. As a boss, it is true, the boss can't see the results, can't see the performance, it means that the company is facing bankruptcy, he will lose his job, and in serious cases, he may even be in debt.

We are not bosses, we do our own thing, we are only responsible for ourselves. So there's nothing wrong with trying to move yourself, it's just that the results will be slower, and don't be influenced by those who want to see quick results. It's a lot of fun to try to move yourself.

Being a turtle is slow, but it doesn't mean that you don't move forward, and one day, the turtle will reach the destination she wants to reach. Because of the slowness, he She enjoys the beautiful scenery on the road more carefully than others, tastes more deeply, and experiences more beautifully, we go our own way, and we pay our own efforts, no matter how fast others are, it has nothing to do with us.

Everyone has different family backgrounds, different educational backgrounds, different experiences, and different talents, so they can't be compared.

So go for it! Try to be a turtle, try to be a turtle that keeps moving forward. Suddenly one day you look back and you find yourself at the top, and some of the rabbits are still sleeping.

Hard work will have results, the harder you work, the luckier you are, believe in yourself, it is enough for you to be moved, look back at yourself, you haven't even worked hard, it is the most terrible.

This is the wildflower seen in the weeds on the side of the mountain on the way home from the office today. It doesn't open for people, only for self-please, flowers bloom and butterflies come naturally, you see, no, it grows quietly in the bushes, but it attracts me walking on the road.

How terrible is the effort of man!

In these old stories, I see that there are many young people who are actually very busy, working very hard to do the things at hand, even sacrificing their rest and physical health. Just like me before me, I think the harder you work, the better. The motto is what you love to fight to win, and what you work harder the luckier.

But actually, during that period of hard work, I really rarely calmed down, or took a leisure, let my brain go and look at other paths, to evaluate whether other paths would be more suitable for me. Getting two or three thousand a month was already good at that time, and it was worth your efforts. But if you have the opportunity to get 40,000 or 50,000 yuan a month, or even take a path you like more easily with your ability, why don't you move a little energy and try it at that time?

Growing up, I have always been taught that when you do something, you have to devote yourself to it, so that you can do your best and be the best. Doing something short-term, as it should be. But to do something for the long term, do you also have to devote yourself to it, and focus so much that you don't have time to take care of it?

Actually, that kind of effort with all your strength and no distractions is really a terrible thing.

All your attention, energy, and thinking are like being welded to that thing, and you don't look up, you don't think, you don't make trade-offs, but you let the word "effort" keep you going.

Because countless people are telling you that as long as you "work hard", it is enough, and the rest of the results are not for us to consider.

"Go for it, boy! ”

We are moved by "hard work", as long as we "work hard", we will definitely make progress, so we try our best to trek forward on this road, not afraid of wind and rain and fatigue. But a few years, more than ten years have passed, and you look up and suddenly find that your "hard work" has not brought enough returns.

Just because the real world has many paths in itself. And what is really right for you is not necessarily the path you are taking now, even if it is the path that most people in the world take. In the same way, this kind of road may not be the path taken by your familiar classmates and envied friends, let alone the path that your parents teach and want you to take.

Sometimes, the harder you work on this road, the more you struggle, and you just go a little further on that road. In fact, in most people's eyes, it is a small path, but if that path suits you and you choose it, you can get twice the result with half the effort, and you can achieve greater results.

It's just that our "efforts" often pull us and don't let us leave, so that we miss opportunities again and again.

People who work hard are usually very self-disciplined, and they have a very clear goal, and in order to achieve this goal, they are not afraid of any difficulties, it is very scary.

The efforts of those people must be very terrible, and even they can be moved, which shows that even they don't believe that they can do such a hard work.

It is very scary, but the labor and hard work that human beings have to put in to do something is very unimaginable, and it is very explosive.

From the Alibaba roadshow to the listing in the United States, Ma Yun's name for the first time is like the condiments on the barbecue stall, occupying every inch of land on the fiery red steel plate. Jack Ma's success lies in his long-term vision, persistence and his own wisdom.

Ma Yun has been able to support him to this day, and his values and beliefs are indispensable, and chicken soup for the soul. In this society where chicken essence is overflowing and chicken soup is overflowing, what are the raw materials of Jack Ma's chicken soup, why can its chicken soup make him the founder of Alibaba, and welcome everyone to walk with me into the Ma Yun I imagined.

1. When you are successful, everything you say is the truth.

There will always be times when a person is not understood, and it is human nature to seek common ground and overcome differences. Of course, laughing at others doesn't make you feel superior. But at the very least, most people will be glad that they are "normal".

And the meaning of this sentence must not tell us that only if you succeed can you have the right to speak, and if you fail, no one will listen to you. The true meaning of this phrase is: talk less, do more.

The more unsuccessful you are, the more you have to keep a low profile in front of outsiders, and the more you have to keep to yourself, especially when others are not as good as Qing Sun believes in you, you don't have to explain at all, because explanations are useless. Only by working hard can you prove your ability to those who once looked down on you. Of course, even if you've made it, you don't have to show it off.

Like Jack Ma, if you speak tactfully, everyone will understand.

2. Sometimes a high degree of education may not necessarily sink you down to do things.

Ma Yun likes a saying on the Internet very much, called barefoot people are not afraid of wearing shoes, that sentence is obviously alluding to himself. Nothing is the only way to leave everything behind. Of course, in other words, a person has to clear all the time in order to be truly comfortable.

And when Ma Yunqi said this, he was talking about the failure of Alibaba that made him very angry, that is, 10 years of airborne troops, and none of them survived in the end. Ma Yun once thought that his eighteen Arhats could only be the team leader, like many superstitious foreign monk business bosses, Ma Yun has invited a number of foreign executives, yes, highly educated, and rich overseas study experience, most of them have stayed in other large companies, and finally, do not understand the local market situation, can not integrate into Ali's cultural genes, and there is no way to improve the profitability index. The so-called "high education, high salary, high position" of the three high-level people eventually became a failure, so later Ma Yun said that in his eyes, there is no difference between a junior high school degree and a postdoctor.

It's kind of experience.

By the way, I will digress. I found that bosses who are basically not highly educated are quite prone to make a mistake in the process of enterprise growth. I just like to recruit a lot of highly educated people into the company, and I don't know if this makes up for it.

It's that I have suffered a lot because of my low education, so I want to find so many graduate students, master's students or turtles to work for me. However, I privately think that shopping malls are like battlefields, and it doesn't matter what education, experience, men and women are. The important thing is to be grounded and fully trusted.