When do you feel like you re on your own?

Every time I see the title, I always feel very relevant to my life, and I may not be the only one who thinks so. When do you feel that you have to rely on a person on the road of life, I think most people are just in and out of society, when you step on the train leaving your hometown with a suitcase alone, at that moment, you will understand that you are the only one on the road of life, you have to rush forward, because at this time, there is no one behind you, so you can't fall. You have to know that no one will pay for your future, only yourself.

Even if my parents have always been our strong backing, what they give us is the comfort of the soul, and you are still alone on the road of dreams, because dreams belong to you. Don't be afraid, this world is beautiful, and we will all forge ahead alone, which is not an experience. Remember, don't complain, do everything on your own.

You'll have an easier time on the road ahead.

Personally, I think it was when I was eighteen years old, because I couldn't let myself be independent by relying on others or my family, and I had to stick to moving forward no matter what I did.

The closest thing is the relationship between husband and wife and parents! When I first got married, I was very poor, and at that time, I felt that my parents looked down on me, and later, when I felt that the couple was not angry, it was all right, and when I was angry, I would say, eat him and drink him, and I wanted to prick my hair! This sentence reflects that you have to rely on yourself to be more reliable, and now it seems that you can't make money, you can rely on anyone who is blind, only you can earn the dignity and status for yourself!

Many times, when you encounter difficult things, tell others, others are a word of regret I feel that I have to rely on myself at all times, and I don't trust anyone Sometimes in front of interests, a person will become something you don't know.

When you are finishing a job and starting a new job, you are not familiar with the place and in the new environment, you will have such thoughts. There is also a time when you are in conflict with others and need to face things yourself.

First of all, I feel that when I am lonely and helpless, I have such thoughts. That year, I went to Fujian to serve as a soldier, and when the train started, I couldn't stop crying, and I thought that I would rely on myself in the future.

A few days ago, I quarreled with my boyfriend, and then I slept at night, my feet were hot, and I was very uncomfortable, so I used to hug him. As a result, he shook my arm away and woke me up, and I could hear his impatient tone. At that moment, I felt like everything was farting before, and my parents were not around.

The only one who can rely on comfort is to coax himself.

It should be said that a person's beliefs, or ideals, are really what you want, for example, if you want a car, do you have to work hard to make money, if you want a sister paper, do you have to work hard to pursue, are all thoughts at work.

What I feel the most deeply is that people's sense of responsibility and mission is supported, no matter how lonely and desperate they are, they have to move forward, worthy of the wolf nature of men! Get out of the people who even you are contemplative, no matter success or failure, face the open-mindedness of the scenery along the way!

When I chose my first job after graduating from university, I had almost no relatives and friends around me to support my job, and I persevered on my own.

On your own.

Because of what others do, you have to choose whether to be for or against, people often say that clothes to stretch out their hands, food to open their mouths to describe a very lazy person, but even if this lazy person has to reach out and open his mouth to achieve his lazy purpose, in the end it is still up to him.

Life is the process that human beings go through from birth to death, in which we will experience ups and downs, joys, sorrows, joys and sorrows. Only in this way is the real life. Its philosophical and profound nature has made it an eternal theme in literature, film and television and other works of art.

Rely on yourself, in order to be at ease, rely on yourself, in order to smile beautifully, rely on yourself, in order to be fearless of difficulties, rely on others, always afraid of wind and frost, if you are strong, difficulties are trivial, if you are brave, dangers can also be ignored. Life is like rock climbing, relying on others will only fall together, let go of your hands, climb alone, your steps are getting lighter and lighter, and victory is getting closer and closer.

People's biggest backers are often not others, but their own efforts. No one is your life's dependence, relying on the mountains, relying on the flow of water, relying on your parents will eventually grow old, only your own efforts are the confidence of a better life.

Man's biggest opponent is often not others, but his own laziness. In life, the harder you work, the luckier you are, and you have to do your best to be qualified to say that you are unlucky.

Don't always complain about life, maybe you're not trying hard enough. There is no casual success in life, you must go through ups and downs. Don't envy other people's backgrounds, you have to straighten your back.

Even if there are mountains of gold and silver, if you are lazy and lazy, you can sit and eat empty mountains. Even if you have nothing, you can make a fortune if you work hard.

On your own.

When you are strong, you will find that there are many people who are willing to help you, and when you are weak, there are almost no friends around you, and even relatives and friends look down on you. The secret to success is to rely on your own continuous efforts; The real strong are helpless.

A truly strong person is not afraid of loneliness. He will use his lonely time to think about himself and life, and let the essence of the past become a stepping stone for future growth. Let the future become clear, and finally, one step at a time, you will succeed.

As the saying goes, relying on the mountains and mountain roads, relying on everyone to walk. Relying on yourself, the most correct, when you go to a certain position little by little, look back, all the way, it is not easy, but after walking, I feel that I am great.

Man is on his own.

Instead of relying on others, it is better to value yourself. In life, no one can make decisions for you; The road under your feet, no one can determine your direction; The wound in your heart, no one can do it for you**; The hardships you have endured, no one can carry them with you.

Instead of relying on others, you should value yourself. Tears teach you to be strong, disappointment teaches you to grow, betrayal teaches you to see clearly, pain teaches you to arm, and suffering teaches you to become stronger. Guess through the good and evil of the human heart, and you will understand; When you see the warmth and coldness of reality, you will understand; If you see through the desolation of the world, you will understand.

You see it on the surface that you are on someone else's, but ultimately on your own. Because what others do, it is up to you to choose whether you are for or against. People often say that clothes come to stretch out their hands, and food comes to describe a very lazy person, but even if this lazy person has to stretch out his hand and open his mouth to achieve his goal of being lazy, in the end it is still up to him.

One more person, one more thought, but it also depends on what it is, if you can do it yourself, or believe that you can settle it, then you can solve it yourself, if you really can't solve it, then solve it with him, if you rely on one person, you may not be able to do it, it's best not to go by yourself, and don't want others to go by yourself, you must help yourself, and work together to solve it.

Rely on yourself: If you have the ability, it is relatively easy to do anything; Compared with relying on others, you are better than others, it is better to rely on yourself; If you are not as good as others, then test him, but relying on others is not permanent.

When I was facing the aging of my parents, I realized that I had to rely on myself for everything in my life, which would be very stressful for me. Especially for parents who are facing only children who bear each other's responsibilities when they reach middle age, they can realize that there are good and bad things for only children. The so-called benefits of only children can fully enjoy the endless love of their parents, but the biggest disadvantage must be that the parents gradually increase with the age of their parents.

When young people have children, the age of their parents is getting older, and there is no way to help young people take care of children together. <>

Whether the elderly help the young people take care of the children is the choice of the elderly, and the young people have no way to ask the elderly how to do things. But know that if you have the help of the elderly, the young people will be much easier. Many parents think that one of the two generations will have a harder time.

If you don't work hard, then your children will live an embarrassing life in the future, and every parent is in order to be able to provide better living conditions for their children. So even if your life is a little worse, you will leave the best things to your children. <>

When the parents are sick, the only child repeatedly runs to the hospital and has to take care of the child. Faced with no one in life who can help the only child to take care of his parents, he can only choose to hire a nurse, but it is also a large financial expense when hiring a nurse. If young people do not have a stable economic foundation and their family conditions are not particularly good, they cannot afford to hire a caregiver at all, and more can only choose to take time to take care of their parents.

No one wants to make themselves stronger and more sensible, only the things they experience are different, and as they get older, each year's experience is completely different. Whether you are a woman or a man, don't put so much pressure on yourself in life, and think about more beautiful things in life. Then all the bad things will gradually pass, and you don't have to monopolize everything in the family, which will make your life very hard.

Or a feeling of despair, but also a sense of independence, thinking that everything needs to be on oneself in order to have a better future and tomorrow.

Feelings of hopelessness. I feel unreliable with my friends and family, I feel helpless, and sometimes I feel lonely.

I would think that this is a very normal thing, other people are unreliable, and what we have to do is to improve our own abilities.

"No matter what kind of stilts we walk, we can't do without our own feet," Brecht said. ”

Relying on what others get may cause trouble because of unworthy virtue.

Each person is an independent individual, and no one can be relied on for a lifetime.

Many times, pinning your hopes on others will only lead to disappointment.

When we rely too much on him to break up his brother, if there is a deviation between the ideal and the reality, we will even complain.

As a result, life is trapped in a black hole from which it is difficult to extricate itself, a vicious circle.

As the saying goes, "It is better to ask for others than for yourself." ”

If you ask for someone, you have to listen to people's ramblings; If you rely on people, you have to keep your voice down.

Relying on others will only tremble; Only by relying on yourself can you be at ease.

Ouyang Xiu's road to the imperial examination was very bumpy, and Lu Zheng Xi failed to participate in the imperial examination twice, so he worked hard to study and strive for it.

Later, he won the first place in the provincial examination of the Ministry of Rites and became the provincial champion.

Only by relying on oneself can people have unlimited possibilities.

What others give us, Cong Pei may be just a lamp.

1. The mountains will fall, and everyone will run.

Only you are the most reliable.

No one will accompany you for a lifetime, no one will help you for a lifetime, so you have to struggle for a lifetime. Instead of regretting today with tears, it is better to fight today with sweat. When the tears run out, what is left should be strong.

Life is like a cup of unsweetened coffee, which tastes bitter and astringent, but has a lingering aftertaste that will not fade for a long time.

2, especially women, it is not easy in society, there are too many labels, there are too many standards.

It is precisely because of this that you should rely on yourself even more, because no matter who you rely on, you can't rely on it in the end, and only what you get by yourself can you be sure.

Only those who rely on themselves for everything, their lives are stable and happy.

There is no need to worry about everything you have disappearing, and even if the other person leaves, you won't lose anything.