When do you feel that your parents are getting old?

I have the impression that they are still young and have never grown old, but time has gradually eroded their faces, pale sideburns, slow steps, etc. When I was very young, my dad worked hard outside and his health was not bad, my mom was farming at home, she still wore a ponytail, she was in her 30s, her hands were not so rough, and her face was very clean. After going to high school, the feeling is,The hand is getting rougher and rougher, and the feeling of going to college is the greatest,Every time,Under the influence of the pixel of the mobile phone,Every time**It's very uncomfortable,**My mother,Cut my long hair shorter,The hair is not as soft as before,The hands are more rough,The wrinkles on the face are getting deeper and deeper,The complexion is no longer as good as before。

After my dad worked hard for a long time, he also returned to his hometown to develop, after a car accident, his actions were not as sharp as before, and then he started farming at home, and his hair gradually turned gray, running for life. I think they are growing old inadvertently, and I also hope that we can slowly shoulder the burden of this family, so that they can feel happy even when they are old.

In fact, I didn't feel anything before I went out of society, because the frequency of going home when I was studying was relatively high, and then it was also because of my young age, I wouldn't pay special attention to these, I really felt that my parents were old and went out to work for the first year, and I didn't go home for the whole year, and I went back to the New Year at the end of the year, and I came back to see that my parents were really old, with more gray hair, more wrinkles on my face, I was afraid of the cold in winter, and it was hard to carry things. I think that especially young people who go away and rarely go home nowadays, everyone counts a sum of money, and once a year they go home to accompany their parents, and you can see each other a few times on the day of their parents' death, which is only a handful.

When did I suddenly feel that my father was really old, probably when I was in college, every time I came home from vacation, because I couldn't get a ticket at a good time, I could only get to town in the middle of the night. The city bus will only go to a small bus stop in the town, and the town bus will come to my house, so my dad can only pick me up every time. One time I came home from vacation and got off the bus, and under the dim street lamp, my father kept stomping his feet and sighing.

I approached him slowly, his hair was a little messy, covered with sawdust from the furniture factory, and his beard had probably not been shaved in days. I suddenly had the urge to cry, asked him, why don't you wear more clothes, he said, I didn't expect it to be so cold, I used to swim in the river in winter, but now the temperature can't stand it, it's really old. When he said this, he said it in a joking tone, but I was not so relaxed, I just wanted to cry and laugh.

When the water pipes in the house froze and burst in the winter, my dad told me. When my mom told me I was too fat to cut my toenails. When the light bulb in the house was broken, my dad told me.

When my mother said to me, you can drive me back to my hometown, I want to go back and see. When they have to ask you to help them with some of their things, they suddenly find out that they are old.

I haven't noticed that my parents are old. Although they are already eighty years old. The day before yesterday, I called my father and asked him how he was doing.

I heard the hearty sentence "very good". My parents are proud and admirable, they suffered a lot when they were young, and now they are very contented and life-saving when they are old, and they have a very healthy life philosophy and attitude, so they live a full life. I've never noticed their old age.

Even if they are really gray and have wrinkles on their faces, their positive and optimistic attitude makes people feel that they are always full of hope.

I still remember one day when I was unhappy at work, I really wanted to talk to my parents when I got home, and at this time I found that my parents hadn't nagged me for a long time, and we hadn't chatted for a long time.

I only have time to go home to see, at present, I have seen the gray hair on my mother's head increasing day by day, and the wrinkles on my face are getting deeper and deeper year by year, carving the twilight of my life and bitterness, talking to her as if my ears are a little back, and I can't hear clearly how many times I speak, especially when I climb up the hill behind the village with a basket on my back, my waist is getting closer and closer to the ground, I look sad, my heart is a little bitter, and my eyes are gradually wet.

It should be that after having my own children, since I was promoted to a parent, I have experienced the sadness and hardship of my parents, and I have understood how great and selfless the love of parents for their children is!

I am a post-80s, from the countryside, I remember when I was a child, every summer, children like to go to the river to bathe, adults go to the river to wash clothes, of course, I am no exception and often go to bathe, accompanied by my father, anyway, at that time the river was very lively, the cows and sheep bleating on the grass on the riverbank, the children in the water playing and laughing, this scene I think is that the rural children of that era are no strangers, I also want to have more choices like other children, my father will not let me, I am very depressed. One day I secretly went swimming with my friends, and I had a lot of fun, but when I got home, I was beaten up by my father, and I didn't understand it for a long time, didn't I just take a bath, as for it? Later, with more and more people going out to work, there are more left-behind children in the countryside, and when the parents are not in the summer vacation, the grandparents can't control it, and every year there are children who drown in the bath, causing irreparable human tragedy, at that moment I realized that being beaten by my father is also a kind of love, that is because he loves you too much, afraid of losing you, afraid that you will receive a trace of harm!

Every time I see my father's hand, my heart is sore, because there are only half of the two fingers left, and it is all because of my ignorance, and I regret it every time I think about it.

It should be more than 30 years ago, when I should be about ten years old, I can't remember clearly, at that time in the wheat harvest season, we had fewer wheat threshing machines, the whole wheat field was only two or three, each family was used in turn, that day my house was lined up until midnight, when I slept fragrantly, my father told me to get up to pick up the wheat, (here to explain, at that time the children in the countryside were doing farm work, this is not abuse) I was a little unhappy and emotional, half-hearted, it was because of my carelessness, Later, something happened, I stirred the cloth strip of the pocket to the fan blade of the wheat bran, the fan could not turn, the wheat bran could not come out, and the chaff mouth was blocked, it may be at night, it was more sleepy, my dad may be a little anxious, and he reached out to pull it without even thinking about it, but then he saw that his dad's hand was bleeding .........

Three days later, my father came back from the hospital with gauze wrapped around his hands, and I didn't ask my father how he was, whether it hurt or not, and so on. It wasn't until a month later that the gauze on my dad's hand was removed, and I saw that my dad's two fingers were gone, and that moment ......My heart ......I cried, and my dad stroked my head with a warm and strong hand and said, "Don't touch and cry, don't cry, it's okay."

Whenever I think of that moment, my heart is uncomfortable, guilty, sad, intertwined, and difficult to express. I don't know if anyone understands?

I feel like parents are getting old, when they start to age, can't do something, or often feel exhausted.

As you can imagine, I have been working for 10 years and have begun to decide that my parents are getting old. I began to feel that my parents were getting old by discovering that their backs were a little bent, that I saw that gray hair had grown on their heads, and that my parents couldn't handle the matter properly when they moved.

First, when I found that my parents' backs were a little bent, I felt that my parents were old. In my own impression, my parents are so young and tall. But one day, I saw that my parents' backs were a little bent.

In my own eyes, my parents' figures are no longer tall, and they have to move slowly. At this moment, I feel that my parents are no longer young, they are old. At this time, I understand that I need to care more about and help my parents.

Second, when I saw the gray hair growing on my parents' heads, I instantly felt that my parents were old. A person with a head full of green silk is a sign of youth. In my mind, my parents' hair is jet black and shiny.

I suddenly noticed that my parents had gray hair growing on their heads, and at this moment I finally felt that my parents were old, and they were no longer the young they were in their hearts.

Third, when I moved, my parents couldn't properly cover up this matter, which made me feel that my parents were old. Because of the move, the whole family started to get busy. In the past, parents were always comfortable and well-organized for this kind of thing.

But this time, the parents were slow to think and act, and they couldn't put it all in place.

At this moment, I finally felt that my parents were old, and they were no longer able to bear many things, and these things needed to be borne for them, and it was at this moment that I finally realized that I had grown up.

We are always children in front of our parents, we can take off our guard in front of them, and when something happens, we always ask them what to do as we did when we were children.

I always feel that I am still young and still want their protection, but we are growing up, and they are getting older.

At what point do you feel like your parents are getting older?

01 It's the other thing that I taught them, not what they taught us.

In today's fast-paced life, it is a little uncomfortable for parents, and everything is not familiar to them.

More and more electronic products, foreign to them, they are always cautious to come and ask, waiting for me to teach them.

02 It's that my mother's quarrels are no longer so fierce, and my father is always asking me how I am doing.

My mother was always strict when I was young, and I never relented when I was disobedient.

But now, even if she has done something too much, she does not criticize harshly, but listens humbly and takes care of our emotions.

03 It was my parents who started to look at my face and listen to my ideas.

When I came home from vacation, my parents always looked at my face and started talking, afraid of accidentally making me angry.

They are always the first to ask me what to do when something happens, and they listen to our opinions silently.

04 Once my father sent me to school in other places, I insisted on sending him out and said that I was not at ease, he said that I was worried about you before, but now it is the other way around.

Once, my father sent me to a college in another country, and I took a large bag of things to the dormitory, but I didn't care about resting and had to rush home.

When I went home, I reluctantly sent him to the gate and said that I was not very relieved, remember to be careful on the way home.

Dad said that I was really worried about me when I grew up, but now I'm worried about them.

05 It's a time when I go home, and my parents prepare all the good things like a holiday, for fear that they won't have a good time outside.

Every time I go home, my parents always prepare chicken, duck and fish in advance, and they always feel that they are not eating well outside and take everything out.

06 It's gray hair that can't be covered by hair dye.

It was the parents who said that the gray hair of the freshly dyed hair still came out during the small talk, which was indeed a symbol of their age.

07 It's them who look at their phones and say they want to bring reading glasses.

It was when they looked at their phones that I asked me to help look at them, and I found that they were holding their phones far away and couldn't do without reading glasses.

I always felt that my parents were still young, and I always wanted to find shelter under their discredited feathers, but I didn't know that my parents already needed us to rely on.

Now please cherish the time around your parents.

As I grew up, I felt the preciousness of family affection

Two days ago, I took a bus at night to a place where I worked. There is a two-hour drive from the Zen stove. In the car, I suddenly remembered a summer vacation when I drove out with my parents.

It was about eight o'clock that night, and it was dark before I returned. My dad drove, my mom sat in the co-pilot, and when it was almost eleven o'clock, my mom was so sleepy that she couldn't support it, and she offered to change places with me. So my mom lay down in the back seat of the car and slept, I sat in the passenger seat, and my dad continued to drive.

During this time, I had been chatting with my dad on and off, singing to him, telling jokes, and distracting himself from driving too much. At that time, I suddenly felt that my parents were getting old, if in the past, my mother would definitely not let me wake up and go to sleep by myself, I knew that she was really tired and tired, and her body did not allow her to stay up late with fatigue.

At the same time, I also feel as if I have grown up all of a sudden, and the burden on my body is heavier, and I am no longer a child who will not wake up when I fall asleep in my parents' arms and get out of the car at night. I'm going to have to take on more responsibilities in the future. Sitting next to my dad and driving with him at night, I feel very happy, in the middle of the work, the reason why I chose to leave is mainly because I feel that this job has no future, and I will leave when I am unhappy at this job.

At work, the reason why everyone will have the idea of resigning is nothing more than the following reasons, first of all, I don't like the current job, I think that this kind of job is not much development for myself, as the so-called man is afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, for a boy like me, choose a job that he does not like and suitable, forcing himself to stick to it is a very painful thing, and this kind of work makes me not see any hope, then I will choose to resign as soon as possible, Let yourself stop losses in time without wasting your time and energy in vain. On the other hand, when I find a job for a period of time, and find that it is difficult for me to adapt to such a job and get along with my boss and colleagues, then I am likely to have the idea of quitting, because if there is no working environment and working atmosphere that makes me really happy, then if I persist in such a job, it will only make me more tormented, and it will be difficult for me to achieve the expected work results under such a working environment and working atmosphere. To achieve the predetermined work goal, rather than this, it is better to choose a more suitable job position as much as possible, of course, some small setbacks and difficulties encountered in the work, we should still look at it with a normal mentality, and should not let these small setbacks become the reason for us to resign, if so, it is difficult for us to really get the mill for a long time.

Although I was really sleepy, I would try to cheer up and be with him when I thought he was more tired than me. The moon was particularly beautiful that day.