Who can help me solve the emotional problem, to leave or not to leave?

marrying her without feelings, doing so is equivalent to torturing yourself and harming others. My cousin was also opposed by his parents, but their persistence was successful, why? Do you think your parents have to watch you and the person you like not be together to be happy?

You don't rebel against your parents, proving that 1, you may be a cowardly person, 2, you are not capable enough to support yourself, and you will die without the support of your parents.

When everything is in the past, your regret will be too late, not only is there only one life in the world, but many things and feelings are gone. If you can't get divorced, ask your heart first, and then talk to her quietly, if you can't establish a relationship with her if you continue like this, then I won't say much.

Then I got divorced and missed your wife's good! Is parental opposition a reason? Is it right to leave without permission?

Just kidding, adult, why don't you think about it from your wife's point of view, why don't you think about it for 5 years to find a way to create a harmonious family, just a few decades, 5 years to be angry! Wake up you!!

Ask your wife if she thinks the same way.

If you want to think clearly, you didn't get the consent of your parents when you struggled hard, and now that you are married, it is estimated that it is more difficult. Sometimes it's not for yourself. If you want to be selfish and live for yourself, pursue the life you want.

Leaving is for oneself to live, can you live well?

Be cautious, although divorce is very common in this society, but it is also a big deal for yourself, if there is any problem to solve first, change your mentality first, and then take that step if you don't handle it well, but you must work hard.

It's better not to leave, but see what's going on?

It is best not to divorce if you have children, and if you don't, it's up to you to do so.

If you have reached the idea of divorce, it means that your marriage is somewhat unreliable.

Feelings are not improvised, since the attention has been decided, then quickly cut through the mess Time is not worth it.

That's up to you.

In fact, you already have the answer in mind.

A woman has been with you for five years, a man should take this responsibility, but also take responsibility for your mistakes, I believe that your wife also loves you, you can't be too selfish, don't just care about your own feelings, think more about your wife, she has given you all her youth, don't let her down, since you said that the emotional foundation is too thin, why don't you want to spend more time with her. Feelings are cultivated, I admit that ...

After speaking, let's talk about another point: Whether you are a man or not, your family marries a wife, or you marry a wife, I can't stand you, and I will easily let go if I think so, and I am speechless, and now it has come to this point, don't hurt another woman.

Nothing to say to you.

Really, in such a hurry, I am separated from the person I love, and I have no opinion.

Parents want you to be happy, and you have to explain your thoughts to them, and filial piety is right, but it is your lover who accompanies you all your life.

I hope you understand that you're not fair to anyone right now, and divorce is unfair to your wife, because what you said when you agreed to marry her is what you say now.

Also, you're not fair to your girlfriend, you're going to make him feel like a third party.

The most unfair to oneself is that what you love can't get, and what you don't love can't hurt.

Hopefully, you're a bit of a man's own opinion.

Here are a few comments to consider.

1. Talk to your wife, ask him what he thinks, whether he still loves you, what do you look like to him.

Second, talk to your mom and dad and tell them what your life is like now, whether you are happy or not, whether you are happy or not, let them listen, let them think, talk to them well, talk to them as strangers, let them give you the answer after listening, don't let them be irrational.

Three, if you and your wife are not bad, you still have love, and he has it, then cut off contact with your ex-girlfriend.

If there is no love, then you should pursue your happiness.

No matter who's in the way of you, you're going to succeed, it's up to you.

Fate is destined to be happy, and you can chase it by yourself.

You and your wife often quarrel because you don't really get to know each other, or maybe you don't communicate with each other much. And with your former girlfriend, her current role is only your friend and not your wife, so you can tell your girlfriend anything. So you feel like you should be loving your former girlfriend a little more.

But are you thinking about it, if you get divorced and you and your current girlfriend are married, can you guarantee that you will tell her everything? So I think it's wise for you not to leave. You must know that no matter how beautiful love is, what is transformed into family affection in the end.

Since you are married to someone else, you should be responsible for them to the end.

I feel that you don't like your wife, otherwise why do you always quarrel with her??? Since you don't like to promise her in the first place, it's your fault... Your wife, a woman, has a fragile mind, you shouldn't treat her like this, you're too selfish, it's too unfair to your wife.

If your wife has feelings for you, things will be very troublesome, you may really not be able to leave, you are responsible... If your wife has no feelings for you, then choose to leave peacefully... Good family members discuss well, don't be in a hurry.

oo) ) YOU ARE HAPPY ...

No, what you need to think about now is not whether to divorce or not, you first think about whether you really can't live well with your current wife no matter how hard you try, and if you marry your former girlfriend, can you be sure that you will be happy? There is actually nothing wrong with flash marriage, and then start falling in love after getting married, so that once you have feelings between you, you will be very happy, and the shelf life of love will be much longer than usual.

For a long life, everyone will leave regrets. What is the point of regret? It was you who was too cowardly to cause your girlfriend to leave, and now, do you still want to hurt your wife because of your selfishness?

People live a lifetime, not only for their own happiness, but also for responsibility. Be kind to your wife and advise you not to think about divorce anymore and keep a certain distance from your ex-girlfriend.

This question must be thought about before deciding, you and your wife have a good talk, see what she thinks about this marriage, if she also feels unhappy now, you can talk about it from the bottom of your heart, the problem is **, can you continue to live, think about each other and then decide.

You shouldn't be in contact with your ex-girlfriend right now! In this way, you will not treat marriage rationally, you must think calmly, what kind of life you want for yourself, and don't hurt two women who love you at the same time!

First love is the most beautiful thing in life, and it is certain that it will be unforgettable. I also had a similar emotional entanglement, I met my girlfriend in high school, I loved her and loved her more and more、、、 but in the end she gave up our relationship for her business, in fact, I know that she still loves me, but I am still very heartbroken, it can be said that I am grief-stricken,,, but feelings are feelings after all, especially the first love gives you a heavenly beauty that you can't forget, from the heart you are nostalgic, you really want the feeling of first love, I am also heartbroken to see my first love, But the past is the past, you have to let him pass, face the reality, don't quarrel with your wife, if there is no first love from the lovelorn, people always grow, don't always be nostalgic for the past, be a positive person.

It's because you ask too much of your current wife, since you can live for 5 years, you can continue, otherwise what did you get married for, perfunctory in the family? If you are wrong once, you can't be wrong again and again, even if you are divorced and with your former girlfriend, you will not quarrel? Inevitably, you will still want to divorce in another 5 years, man, figure out what you really want and what you are insisting on.

I think you should have a good time with your wife, and I just feel sorry for your girlfriend. No matter how much the past is, you can't go back, and I'd rather find someone who loves yourself more than someone who loves others more.

Have you ever thought about your current wife after your divorce! What to do?

Some people are just stubborn! That's when you need to tell her! Chick! Don't pretend in front of my brother! Hehe.

Your lives just need some jokes! It's not that it's confused.

Are you sure you and your former girlfriend can feel like before even if you get married?? You haven't lived together, don't jump to conclusions.

Besides, after you get divorced, what will happen to your wife now? What if she messes with you every day?

Now that it's like this, don't complain too much and cherish the present. What if you feel that what you like is your first love in your impression, not the current one, and you are not a person inside and out?

Marriage is a mistake, divorce is even more wrong, if divorce is marriage, it is a mistake on top of a mistake.

First of all. Please ask about your age.

Is there really true love online?

The answer is no.

The network is just a bridge.

When the judgment continues, it will be disturbed.

Do you think such a man is really worth your efforts for?

has a wife, has children, and has to go to three and four.

Even if he breaks up with his wife, do you think his life will be *** in the future?

Could he be abandoning you and running away with someone else?

In fact, there is no right or wrong emotionally.

There's not much I can say.

Recognize your own heart and don't blindly trust someone.

You have hopelessly grieved him.

Maybe you'll think.

No money, no land, no name, no share.

Just wanted to be with him.

I think you should give up on this relationship.

Since his children are all two years old, is it possible for you to accept it?

Accept the strange eyes of him, his children, his friends and relatives.

I don't know how old he is.

At least he's been with his wife for a few years, right?

He can touch other women behind his wife's back, can't he?

Think more for yourself.

What do you get by fighting to the end?

After losing a few years of youth, how many years can a person have?

Friend, think about it, is he really worth it?

Love is selfish and blind.

You can grieve a person blindly.

But you can't blindly give up yourself for the sake of a person.

Three-legged frogs are hard to find.

Are there still fewer two-legged people?

I hope you can think about it.

Have a nice day.

Are you just going to get him?

It's good for you and good for him.

Then start a relationship again, and forget about it, or you will suffer, all people will suffer, time is your medicine, and it will be better slowly, this kind of man is not worthy of your love, he should not deceive you, think about it.

When the judgment is constantly suffering, a good man is not to hang himself from a tree.

Stand where you are, see your heart clearly, and don't let yourself regret and make your parents sad, because they are the only ones in this world who have no purpose to be good to you (what do you choose when he and your family can only choose one or the other?). ）。Be sure to see your heart clearly before you go on, you can't turn back ...... this stepDon't give yourself a chance to regret it.

First of all, I admire you for being able to go from the Internet to reality and to love each other. But the factors that determine the success or failure of love are not only the two people who truly love each other, but also many uncertain factors such as family, status, economy, and social background. Love needs to be understood, and you don't do that.

He doesn't love you enough ironcladly, it's his cowardice. Even if your love is established, it may not be completely happy, because your love will hurt an innocent child and her wife. I don't want love to be based on too much sin, because then you won't be able to bear it.

Loving someone doesn't have to get him, where to go, you should be like a mirror.

It's just that you're already too involved, and it's hard to get used to giving up all at once.

Don't be obsessed with it anymore.

When I fell out of love, it was like this at the beginning, it was hard to let go, and the feeling of wanting to be together was very strong, but time will dilute everything, I was like this with you when I first fell out of love, I didn't want to break up, and it was also very painful, now I can look at these calmly, although sometimes it still hurts, and I still care about that relationship. But I know in my heart now that it's impossible, and it's good for myself and others to give up early.

Do you think you still love her? Does she still love you? Long-distance relationships don't end well.

Twisted melons are not sweet. If she doesn't love you anymore, then let it go. You can also find another one.

If she really loves you and waits for you, how can she talk to someone else after breaking up with you? Unreliable. Don't make unnecessary sacrifices for others.

Live for yourself!

Hey, it's a bit tricky.

But remember, if you make it clear what you should have done and what you have to say, if she is really nostalgic for the past, she will not fail to give you a chance to get off the stage.

And I think if she really wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have agreed to break up with you in the first place, in fact, many women are talking about how to be emotional, and many people don't know that it's just a trick, a trick of feelings.

Maybe it's not what I said, you can sit down.

Good luck for the landlord ...

I've been to Wuxi, it seems that there is a Jiangnan University, but I heard that it is a junior college? I don't know if it's true or not, Wuxi is really good.