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The word "persuasion" should be used in harmony rather than separation, that is to say, it can only be persuaded and not persuaded to leave. Why? Husbands and wives often say they want to divorce when they quarrel, and as their friends, you should help them distinguish the nature of the conflict, help them stabilize their emotions, and "persuade" them to reconcile when they are not calm.
The so-called persuasion is to encourage others to do what others don't really want to do, so why do you persuade others to divorce if they don't want to divorce? Feelings are a matter between two people, whether it is suitable or not they know it themselves, they don't need to persuade if they want to leave, why don't they want to leave you? As a friend, maybe people will come to ask for your opinion, and you should just express your support or opposition, and you should not come up with ideas to ask people to do anything.
As for the good or bad behavior of both parties, no matter what others say, as long as the spouse does not think he or she is bad. Otherwise, wouldn't it be that the bad people would not be able to get married.
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The Mystery of Cause and Effect "Cloud:" Among human relations, husband and wife are an important one, destroying the relationship between husband and wife, will damage great fortune, their own joy, participation, on the surface, just two people separated, in fact, once the relationship is broken, it is difficult to break the mirror and reunite, causing deep pain for both parties. And with the breakdown of the family, father and son, mother and son, in-laws and a series of human ethics will be damaged, for example, the family is like a combination of machines, when it is not broken, it will run, it will play its function, and it can avoid the consequences of being mutilated.
Therefore, the cause and effect before and after are calculated as a very heavy karmic debt.
It is unlikely that we will deliberately provoke the relationship between husband and wife, but we may feel that we cannot destroy the harmonious couple, but there is a kind of family where husband and wife quarrel all day together, and it should be broken and reunited. In fact, this is already a discord in karma, why? Because this is the heart of schadenfreude and wishing that the relationship between husband and wife would break down.
Human ethics is determined by karma, and each other walks together by fate, and they will not meet if they have not done it, and they will not be wasted if they have done it, so they cannot be forcibly influenced by personal discrimination. ”
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1. The harm to children is foreverIt is immeasurable.
2. Don't let go casually when you hold hands, don't divorce easily if you get married.
3. It's not easy for two people to be together, and the ups and downs have come over, and there is something that can't be passed.
4. Parents will eventually grow oldThe child will eventually grow up, and it is the other half who accompanies him to the end.
5. As the saying goes, a hundred years of repair to cross the same boat, a thousand years of repair to sleep together. Couple room, bedside fight, bed foot and.
6. Divorce is not necessarily a reliefThere is no such thing as a perfect marriage. No one can guarantee that finding another one after a divorce will be perfect, maybe it's better than this.
7. Divorce is not a matter of two peopleIt's a two-family affair. Including all of your own social circles, this has a great impact, and it hurts each other a lot, if you can be together, try not to separate.
8. The prodigal son does not change his money。Ignite hope with love; Cherish each other. I believe that one day they will understand that you are good to them.
Influence with love, ignite with family affection, and cherish the existing life. Don't make decisions blindly. Careful!
Careful! Since he was given a chance, why not have one more chance.
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1. First of all, we must know that for divorcees, divorce is like a nightmare, and after waking up, they don't know who they really are and why they want to live in the world. 2. Who is the passer-by in who's life, who is the wheel of life, the dust of the past life, the wind of the present life, and the endless sad soul of the end who is not anyone's who. 3. Some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, loving someone does not necessarily have it, and having a person must love her well.
4. A life without experiencing love is incomplete, and love without experiencing pain is not profound. Love enriches life, and pain sublimates love. 5. Before deciding to divorce, there is a long, painful and difficult process of thinking about the reason, that is, the process of comprehensively proposing a basis for one's decision from the perspective of personal needs, interests, opinions, and values.
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1. The parts of the original car are better than the parts used for repair, which proves that the original parts are still good! So it's better not to get a divorce.
2. The child is innocent, most of the children in single-parent families have psychological problems, and once the divorced adult leaves, it is the child who suffers. So it's better not to get a divorce.
3. You just said, it's not easy for a woman to talk to you too much, your youth has been given to you, and now that you're old, don't you want others, do you think you're worthy of others? House flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers, but wild flowers are not as long as house flowers! People have entrusted you with a lifetime, and you haven't fought for a lifetime, so you don't want others?
It's better to live well, don't get divorced.
4. Not a family, not a family; entered a family, not a family, and had to go out sooner or later; If you can treat it well, it's still a family. Ahem, it's annoying. Jujube marriage is a shoe on the foot, whether it is suitable or not, only you know.
Cultivators, think more about each other, it's easy to do! So it's better not to get divorced.
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