My girlfriend is always in contact with her ex husband and refuses to marry me, what should I do?

You should calm down and sit down and have a good conversation. If it goes on like this, it will not be beneficial to both sides, and after a long time, it is always yourself who is hurt.

Ask your girlfriend directly if she wants to marry me, and if she doesn't, don't waste each other's time, it's not good for anyone.

If it is to contact the child shared by your ex-husband, you can be understanding and tolerant, you can also care more about this child, and your wife will be better for you.

If you are emotionally disconnected with your ex-husband, it is recommended that you have a good talk with your wife, say what you really think, and believe that your wife will understand you and pay attention to her words and deeds. I hope you all have a happy life!

It's normal to be in touch if you have children, but it's not good to stay in touch if you don't have children.

As a woman, your husband is still in touch with Kamiga's ex; This shows that your husband loves his ex more than he loves you at all; If he doesn't love his ex, then he doesn't have any reason to contact each other even after separation; And if your husband really loves you, then naturally he will not contact his ex; Because he knows very well in his heart that he has contacted his ex, in your heart, you will definitely be unhappy, you will definitely be unhappy; But he didn't care at all, and he didn't care at all; So this kind of behavior of his is very obvious, and there is no love for you.

Your husband is still in contact with his ex; Then you can negotiate directly with your husband and ask him to make a decision about whether you want you or your ex; If you want an ex, then ask him to make amends for you and leave him; If he chooses to be with you, then let him completely cut off the relationship with his ex; A woman, no matter what, must love Sleepy Pei with righteousness, and love must also love with dignity; Don't be betrayed by your lover, and live a humble life; Then this is not only sorry for my love, but also sorry for my pure body.

His ex also got married and had children.

But he still thinks his ex is good.

What am I going to do?

Do you have children among you?

There are two children.

That's okay, he will at least stay in the family for the sake of the children, and they may just have a normal connection.

Since I got married, I have known about her existence, and I have given my husband many opportunities to let him let go, but recently I found out that people don't take it seriously at all, but instead say I'm stingy, why did he talk to her? I'm also speechless.

I was tormented inside.

As long as they don't meet secretly, that's fine, you don't have to pay attention to it and snub your husband for a while.

The point is that we are all one unit.

You can also ignore him, the more you care about him, the less he thinks it's the same thing.

That's why there is a saying: the easier it is to get, the less to cherish.