My love has a thorn

You have a thorn in your heart, which means that in this matter, your heart is not broad enough to forgive her past behavior. Some men may be willing to accept and tolerate each other's past for the sake of love, because people love the women around them like a demon. But I think you know too much about her past to get past yourself now.

Everyone wants to save face, and they all want their women to belong only to themselves, but it backfires.

I think if you really love her, love her so much that you want to marry her, and you will never have a family war over these previous unpleasantness after marriage, then you should not let yourself think about her past anymore, it will be regarded as a taboo topic, and never mentioned it again. To be honest, which woman is willing to do that**, it will have an impact on her body and future fertility, in fact, she herself is also very pitiful, but she can't control herself well, can't pay attention to protect herself, and she hasn't met a good responsible man before, so it's like this. Now that the mistake has been made, she needs to find a man who can tolerate and forgive her past, otherwise she will not get true love for the rest of her life.

If you think that what happened to her in the past really makes you uncomfortable, very annoying, or not just her, as long as you know that there are women in the past who you think are not qualified to be your wife, then you should separate from her as soon as possible.

Don't think like that, love her is to be tolerant of everything, and you knew these things before you were in a relationship.

I know how you feel right now, but I'm about the same as you. My boyfriend used to have a girlfriend he loved very much. We still date and he still habitually mentions that person to me.

To be honest, it hurts in my heart to think that he doesn't belong to me completely. He had been pampering another woman in the same way before, and he couldn't control his tears at the thought of it.

Now I want to drive a lot, they only have the past, and what I have is his present and future! You are the same, since you say that she loves you very much, then you have to create your future with her, the past things, no one can change or reverse, so you have to grasp the present, don't let the current situation or wrong decisions become regrets in the future, and it will also be impossible to change when the time comes!

You're actually very possessive right now, and you want to have all of her. But we all know that no one can do it.

Adjust your mentality, don't miss a relationship, don't live up to a person's heart, don't care about too much of the past of your loved ones, take every step of the present, after all, only the present is what we can really grasp and control, I wish you happiness!

It's better to give up, otherwise you won't be happy together, this thorn is now hindering your relationship in real life, and it will become a fact that you dare not face in your memories in the future, or keep your love for her and live apart. Maybe it's good for you and for her.

I just think you're very selfish, have you considered her from her point of view, and as soon as I saw the topic you wrote, I found the problem, do you really have her in your heart? Then why do you ask "my love has a thorn" instead of "our love has a thorn", you only love yourself!

To truly love someone is to tolerate her past, present, and future, as long as two people truly love each other, nothing can stop them.

Isn't it normal to have another boyfriend?

Maybe she is a person who gives a lot for love.

Do you really love her.

If so, I wouldn't mind those things.

It's all in the past.

Didn't you yourself say that she loves you now?

I feel like you don't really love her. It's just that her conditions meet yours.

It cannot be tolerated. This gives those women the opportunity to make mistakes. Reason. and backers.

If it's not good, change it, and the cheap man will still be there.

Upstairs' heart is very careful, that's right, since you love her, love her present and future, and she also pays so much for you, you should really think about it! But not absolutely! You should talk about your inner thoughts, and then you should think about whether she has been sincere to you since she was with you, and if not, then you should think again.

If so, you know what to do!

Hey, that's how men are.

Relenting from the past. It's good to be calm.

Don't take the past so seriously.

It's important to cherish the present.