I feel so tired from living with my boyfriend s family

Love and marriage are not the same, just like you are now, love is a world of two people, this world is you and him, but what about marriage, this has to involve the family and the family, so it is inevitable that there will be problems, different lifestyles, discord in personality, this is what marriage has to face, and you are in this position, you have to learn to adapt, if it is really not adaptable, then I suggest that you go outside and have your own world, so that the trouble can be avoided.

The problem of the wedding My suggestion is to keep it simple As for why, I'll give you a few tips If your wedding is very grand, then you will have a hard time adapting to that kind of life in your later married life Marriage is different in the world Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, children, identity parents, this is a blow to you, if it is simple, then your future life is relatively easy to adapt Of course, maybe you don't believe it, but I think one day you will believe it.

Maybe you shouldn't have lived with them in the first place, after all, people with different life backgrounds, if you know that you are not so sleek and smart enough, you shouldn't have challenged this in the first place, and now that you live in, it doesn't seem appropriate to move out again, right, so when can you move in your new house? It's better not to always be caught between them, it's better to go to a training class or something, it's good to study and study, and you won't always have to face it at home, as for the problems you said between you and your boyfriend, you have to think carefully about it, will he improve in the future? How long will your patience last?

Communicate well, maybe the living environment makes him a little pampered, but people always have to grow up and always have their own responsibilities, which is not for the family, and it is not that parents can follow their own life, always mature to learn to live on their own, but also to learn to take care of the people around them.

Actually, your boyfriend is very good to you! It's just that you don't realize it, of course, you should cherish the love between you! Now that you've lived in the past, I don't feel like I'm in love, and I'm helping them clean, wash the dishes, and watch TV all day long"

He asked you to do these simple daily life jobs because he wanted you to do a good job as a wife! You should know what he wants! (Let you be a full-time wife).

In families with strong economic strength, quarrels are unavoidable.

So, you should slowly learn how to live a rich and powerful lifestyle!

These are just my personal opinions!

Why are they all critical? When you say these things, do you think about how girls feel? I thought, all the guys in front of me are boys, right?

Men just love to think about themselves, and women get married for a lifetime, how can they be so-so? Do you want to have a second time? That's like you men.

I have a wife at home and outside! It's natural for you to give money to your family, and besides, it's your own money, so why should he care about you? Honoring your parents is what you should do, he can't even do this, what else do you have to ask for?

To put it mildly, you are very ignorant, marriage needs to be dull, not to save face, it is to communicate with the two of you, maybe you just want to be romantic, marriage needs to be dull, love is only short-lived. It's good to be in love alone, what's the use, marital happiness is the most important thing.

After you get married, you will have your own little world!!

If this is the case, then you have to put yourself in the other person's shoes in everything you do, and the problem must be inclusive of them, so that the relationship between you can be better.

You must pay attention to the feelings of your boyfriend when you live with your boyfriend's family, and consider their feelings in everything you do, and consider the problem from the other person's point of view, so as to promote the relationship between you.

Be diligent. Don't sleep until noon. They must have a good personality and treat their parents as their own parents. Listen to them more, don't talk back, and talk about some common topics.

You don't need to go when you live together, you can live next door if you live in the same house, and sometimes it's better to have some distance.

You should try to learn as diligently as possible, help your mother-in-law do some housework, and secondly, you must learn to say something nice.

Just live a normal life, but parents prefer diligent children, so they must not be lazy and work more.

When we live in our boyfriend's house, we must be well-behaved, obedient, and light-hearted, so that we can be liked by the other party's family.

When doing it with your boyfriend's family, you must pay attention to the fact that there are many different habits in your life, you should seek common ground while reserving differences, and when you get along with your boyfriend's family, you must know how to respect and love yourself.

After living together, you should also develop a habit of going to bed early and waking up early, and also respect the eating habits of your family, and don't talk when eating.

First of all, you should obey the other party's arrangement, and secondly, you should show a particularly gentle character, and secondly, you should become very polite.

I think you feel tired of getting along with your boyfriend's family, and it's also because you haven't found a way to get along with each other. You can also learn about the habits of your boyfriend's life at home, including everyone's interests, and then Zhengshenghong can communicate or solve them through these.

In the process of boyfriend and girlfriend dating, especially for girls, parents at home are very concerned.

If you feel that you and your boyfriend will eventually get married, I suggest you take him to your home and talk openly and honestly about accommodation.

If your parents accept the boy, they will definitely make some concessions, at least not against it.

If your parents don't accept it, listen to them. If you want to meet, you can make an appointment with a place or rent a hotel.

As a child, you must be filial to your parents, not only "filial piety" but also "obedience", and you must obey what they say right, because they are good to you.

Don't do it behind your back, let your parents know, it's detrimental to you, to him and to your family!

Hope it can help you and I wish you all the best.

Family is for your good.

Be sure to listen to your parents.

Let's confirm the relationship first, the family is for your good, and the family will rest assured that your relationship is settled, otherwise there are many things that are not easy to say, what do you think?

Your family is doing the right thing, you are just boyfriend and girlfriend, not husband and wife.

The girl still has to love herself, and if she is not sure that he will marry you, she must protect herself first.

It's best for girls not to live, your family is all for your good.