My 15 year old male likes my tutor and she s a junior. What should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's normal to like someone, it's human nature. Maybe your tutor is indeed a better kind of girl, which just coincides with what you lack in some aspect. You are only 15 years old, I personally think that there is nothing wrong with liking your own tutor, the key is that you are still in the stage of seeking knowledge, and the tutor is also a junior, maybe people only regard you as their own student or friend, and there is no more idea.

    After graduating from tutoring, maybe your thoughts will be different and will change. So, I suggest that you can show her your ideas, that you can socialize as a good friend, and that it will also help with your studies. If you want to go deeper, it is not recommended.

    Because you don't have a specific direction for development at the moment, study hard, have the ability to love, go further! Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Fifteen years old. The third year of college, that is, the age of twenty-four.

    You have sister lovers.

    It's normal. It's normal to have affection.

    Junior, tutoring, making money, very good girl, hehe.

    As for you, you receive education, you don't study well, you only wander in obsession, and in the end, you will suffer yourself.

    Say something unrealistic.

    Or you'll stay friends with her.

    It's not so simple to keep friends, it's about communication.

    How to communicate is a big problem, combining worldview, outlook on life and values.

    If you can't talk to her in many ways, don't say you like her, she doesn't like you either.

    If you do it well, she will appreciate you, and no matter how bad it is, it is also a friend.

    You're still small and unrealistic.

    As for her, she is still studying and is about to enter society.

    I think you should care more about her, society, it's not so easy to mix.

    Now there are so many college students, capital, ability, strength, connections, and so on.

    If she is frustrated in some way, you can try to care for her.

    Slowly, after a long time, she will have you in her heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, there is nothing abnormal about this, because adolescent boys are easy to have a good impression of the opposite sex who is bigger than themselves, and secondly, don't feel guilty because of this, there is nothing wrong with liking a person, and finally advise, don't say it, because such a result can only lead to an embarrassing teacher-student relationship, and there will be no other result, so hide it in your heart, and after many years this is a good memory. Later on, you'll find out that this isn't a big deal at all. Finally, I recommend a movie called "The Reader".

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then study English well and use your good grades to get the attention of your English teacher.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's too late for me to be happy, I've been a childhood sweetheart since I was a child, and I'm your wife when I grow up, the most important thing is that it's rare for your mother to like her so much, and it's easy to get along with your parents after marriage, and I can't find it with a lantern.

    Happy New Year.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love to answer ignorance, he asks you questions you can say that my homework is not finished yet, let you play with him, you just say that you have something, although it is a little girl will also notice that you don't like to play with her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Keep it up, maybe he'll talk to you about everything in the future and be nice to him, after all, your mom likes her, doesn't she.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As soon as she comes to find a reason to go out, she won't look for you for a few days.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hide when you see her, and show very clearly that you don't like her when it's just the two of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Treat her well and treat her as a good sister.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Pretend not to be there or speak coldly every time, and she will ignore you after a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't know, but don't hurt her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Men chase women across mountains, and women chase men across sheets of paper.

    But listen to you, he deleted everything you can contact, which means that he really doesn't like you, thinks you are small or childish, go to college! Don't think about being with him at this time. When you go to him again after a year of college, your whole temperament changes, a perfect sunny city girl, after knowing how to dress up, a phoenix stands in front of him, watching him hold his fingers, red face and red ears don't know what to say!

    You pat him on the shoulder very much and say what's wrong with you! Wouldn't that be more interesting?

    Learned men like women with stories, or connotations, and don't like to be simple puppy, this is the truth, at this time let go of everything or give up! When you see you in a year or go to college, you will be dazzled by handsome men from all over the world, and learned people abound, and you may not like him or not at that time

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Does your mom know what you're thinking?

    I think you can try to fight for it, it's really not easy to find someone who really likes and is excellent, the age difference is not very big, and it is best to succeed. But if he is really resolute and really doesn't like you, then give up, this thing of affection is really a twisted melon is not sweet. You will also start going to college soon, you will meet a lot of people, maybe there will be better and better waiting for you, so don't say that you will not like others again in this life, this is irresponsible for yourself, and it will also cause pressure on others for no reason.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You really don't understand love, and if your boss cares about you a few times, you will like your boss too.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I go, and I'm great... This, you're still young, really, this kind of thing, when you get to college, you will meet a lot of good boys, judging from his performance, I thought you were writing a TV series, but if it's true, this kind of person is really good, it's not impossible to fight for him, I don't believe that there is no true love in the face of a materialistic world, but after all, you are still too young and need to go through, I think if you can try it locally, you should be cautious in other places, hehe, cheer for the boys in our school!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    So long. Too lazy to look. Again, no points.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should understand him, he doesn't want you to do well in the exam because of him, I believe he is an excellent person, but he must be a person with a girlfriend, if he lets go lightly, and is with you, it also means that he is an irresponsible person, if after being with you, there is a little girl like you, he will let go with you, think about what you should do? I know you like him, I'm from the past, you see him as very important now, especially care about him, when you have a new environment, a new way of life, with the relationship of time, you will slowly let go, I believe you will do it, don't force it too much, feelings will not be forced, even if you force it, you will not be happy, why bother, not to mention that you are now a good age, you say.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Work hard, if you go to Tianjin, go to him!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Like a guy is just that. But once confessed, the relationship was not as good as it used to be. You can silently help him, silently go to his space, draw his appearance when you can't see him, and write a diary.

    I hope you can be happy. I'm in a similar situation to you, except that I'm a quasi-sophomore in high school now, and love doesn't belong to me yet.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As you say, he is indeed a good boy, go for it! But get it right. Three points to seduce, seven points to reserve.

    Don't be too aggressive, or it will backfire. Because most men like to take the initiative themselves, so there is also a sense of accomplishment. The point is that you want him to know that you need his protection and guidance.

    But it also depends on your fate! Support you bless you!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can refer to "36 Strategies for Love".

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Think about it when you sprinted, he didn't tell you directly because he had a girlfriend, do you know how fragile you were at that time, he didn't want you to lose your good future, and he didn't tell you until you finished your exams, I feel that you calm down and think about it, it should be a blessing to him, and I believe that you will also find a better and more loving other half of you in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't be angry, be kind, and tell him that your daughter is still very young, and you should help him more as a big brother. Since she chooses you, then you must be exceptional, she is willing to listen to you, and you love her, so good, we and you don't want her to have a hard life in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your whole family converted to Islam and moved to Linxia, Gansu Province, where you will keep your daughter in good order!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What could you ask her about that guy? Don't panic.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Rationally told her to focus on studying, not to make friends, but not to abandon her studies, nor to talk about the decline of learning.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't just ban it, but guide it appropriately.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Precocious online ask some psychologists to take a look.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let's take a look at her preferences first, as well as her personality, slowly give some small gifts and go out to play or something, and say it when appropriate, even if she disagrees at that time, it will not cause a lot of disgust, after all, it has changed from a simple teacher-student relationship to a friend, but remember not to have any excesses.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I guess if you say it, if you have a good temper, you will laugh it off, and the bad thing is that you will meet for the last time...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Find an opportunity to wait for her to teach you her homework, and ask her to have a meal or a movie or something to show your gratitude. Just look for an opportunity to confess.

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