My boyfriend cried in front of my parents, and my boyfriend was arguing in front of my parents

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What a good boy, he will not deceive your parents with flashy and unrealistic words, he will not treat others with a hypocritical and perverse face, the only thing is tears.

    There is no boy in the world who is so cowardly as to cry in front of his girlfriend, and when he doesn't understand your parents' intentions for asking you about your future, he will only take them as a kind of questioning, and this is something he can't do at all, isn't it? If he was in high spirits and said how long it would take to buy a house, do you think such a love is reliable?

    If you feel that your life with him will be very hard in the future, it doesn't matter, love is selfish, there is no wrong or right, quietly walk away; If you believe in the fidelity of love, I wish you all the best.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should ask your boyfriend about this, and you should communicate with your boyfriend well!

    What is missing between you is communication!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The distance between reality and feelings, it is very easy to make a person cry, your parents don't want you to be together, do you know the pressure he faces, hehe.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is always too much gap between the ideal and the reality.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He likes you very much.

    But his family conditions are not very good.

    I'm afraid that your family will not be the same as the two of you.

    So I cried sadly.

    I'm a boy, and I'm in a similar situation to your boyfriend.

    But I'm not going to cry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What's the use of crying, tell him that if he is still a man, he will work his own, and use the effort of crying to work hard, as long as people are willing to work and be good to you, their parents will generally agree. Now what is not solved in this society depends on the determination that people can't make!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're his girlfriend, wouldn't you know? Only you know.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, dear, my boyfriend quarreled in front of my parents, which means that it is a little impolite for your boyfriend to quarrel in front of the elders like this, and it also makes the elders feel that his temper is not very good, so he is not very good-cultivated.

    Hello, dear, my boyfriend quarreled in front of my parents, which means that your boyfriend is a little bit rude and polite to quarrel in front of the elders and coarse, and it also makes the elders feel that his temper is not very good, so he is not very good at cultivation.

    Parents insisted that they were not allowed to go back and forth.

    Hello, dear, my boyfriend quarreled in front of my parents, which means that it will make the elders feel that his posture is not very good. It is natural for parents to insist that they are not allowed to interact again, and parents must not be worried that their daughters are hiding from such a boy.

    What am I going to do.

    Dear, it's not good for your boyfriend to have such an attitude, and it's a bit disrespectful to the elders to quarrel in front of the elders, so you do this: talk to your boyfriend and ask him to apologize to your parents, be sincere, and get the understanding of your parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. If I quarrel with you in front of your parents, I think you might want to pay attention to this. You may not be that important in your boyfriend's heart, why do you say that, from a normal point of view, if he cares about you, generally speaking, the first thing your parents should do when they show up should be to stop arguing.

    First, your parents, as elders, should be respected, and no matter how many conflicts there are between the two people, they can go back and solve them privately (of course, it is not excluded that he deliberately did this, so that your parents can judge).Secondly, he didn't take into account your feelings, and if he quarreled in front of your parents, he would definitely be scolded by your parents or something. And you're just boyfriend and girlfriend now, and boyfriends are arguing in front of my parents.

    Hello, did I quarrel with you in front of your parents?

    If I quarrel with you in front of your parents, I think you might want to pay attention to this. You may not be that important in your boyfriend's heart, why do you say that, from a normal point of view, if he cares about you, generally speaking, the first thing your parents should do when they show up should be to stop arguing. First, your parents, as elders, should be respected, and no matter how many conflicts there are between the two people, they can go back and solve them privately (of course, it is not excluded that he deliberately did this, so that your parents can judge).

    Secondly, he didn't take into account your feelings, and if he quarreled in front of your parents, he would definitely be scolded by your parents or something. And you're just boyfriend and girlfriend now, so what if you're married? It's like this during the love period, and getting married will only get worse.

    Of course, if you are unreasonable and he deliberately wants to quarrel in front of your parents, then it is not within this range.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You've made a big mistake! You're so suspicious! It's going to be a big mistake!

    He came back 7 hours late, have you ever wondered why? If you don't think about it, you have to be punished. It is likely that he did something during this time sacrificing himself because he loved you.

    He had come back with love and hope, and if you ignore it, you will punish and ruin his hope. He cried, crying for your misunderstanding and indifference.

    You see, a guess is a guess "or do something sorry for me". Is it true that everyone else is bad in your eyes, so you have to betray you to be comfortable? Are you so unconfident?

    If you are a woman who loves to be suspicious like this, sooner or later no one will want it, and it is too stressful to stay with such a person!

    Then he guessed, "I don't think it was my ring that was exchanged for someone else's!" You don't have to think calmly about what he did with the precious ring you gave him in exchange for no reason. Just because he didn't have it with him doesn't mean he gave it to someone else! Calm down!

    The most unbearable thing is to send a message to ask.

    Love is maintained by trust and love, and being too possessive can backfire and eventually lead to separation.

    Now you have to pay attention, you can't be too suspicious, if you think about the good in advance, give yourself a little confidence, who will betray such a good woman.

    In fact, a man doesn't want a woman to give much, he just needs a woman to trust him, worship him, and make him feel that someone cares about him and believes in him. made him feel that all the bloody and bloody intrigues outside were floating clouds, and as long as there was someone in the family who loved him and believed in him, he would be satisfied. It's so easy to betray you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I love you, I'm afraid of losing you, that's why I don't trust you. Men are also bitter.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Emotional matters must be clarified, don't be confused! Do it yourself!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sometimes couples who love each other are separated for these little things, and cherish each other well

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's normal for you to do this, have you talked to him about it? Is there a reason for this? You don't have to rush, just talk to him and see what kind of attitude he has.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The boyfriend and his parents quarreled and cried, the first thing to do at this time is not to ask him what happened, but to accompany him silently by his side, calm his mood and give him comfort and encouragement, at this time you can't keep saying it in their ears, otherwise it will make his already annoying mood become more irritable, we can hold him quietly, this silent encouragement is more suitable for his current mood, and when the boyfriend's mood gradually calms down, he should tell you what happened, Let's not take the initiative to ask him first, and then we will ask him appropriately when he speaks, of course, if he really doesn't want to say it, then don't ask him, it will affect his mood. If your boyfriend tells you about what happened between him and his parents, you can give him some suggestions to analyze the problems that happened, if your boyfriend is really wrong, you should let him correct it in time, go and apologize to his parents, and solve the problem of this matter, after all, what parents do is for the good of their children, we can't hurt their hearts, if my boyfriend is not wrong, I will comfort him and let him understand his parents, after all, my parents are old, we can't worry too much about them, If you happen to have a good relationship with his parents, then you can communicate with his parents, so it's okay, tell his parents what he thinks, after all, boys are not too willing to bow their heads, no matter who they are, it would be better to be able to solve this matter perfectly. Of course, if your boyfriend really doesn't want to talk to you about it, then we don't want to be too involved, what we have to do is to accompany him, make him happy, and let him know that you are willing to accompany him no matter what the situation, which can also make him feel better and enhance your relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your boyfriend is crying in front of you for other things, and it is possible that his ability to bear it has reached a certain limit, and he is a little unbearable and needs an outlet. Well, if she cries in front of you, she doesn't cry often, then you can comfort and comfort her, because men will cry when they can't bear it, but if he is a boyfriend who cries a lot, I think it's quite cowardly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You say your boyfriend.

    Crying in front of you for something else.

    What's going on? In fact, it is easy for men not to shed tears, just because it is not time to be sad.

    So when I met something, I suddenly burst into tears in front of the person I loved.

    This is understandable.

    So you have to be as gentle as possible.

    But if it's just something very small.

    The man began to cry.

    I guess it's just a mom boy.

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