Children from poor families should not fall in love

Updated on parenting 2024-06-18
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, there should be some money! Society is too realistic, and money is inseparable everywhere! Your current situation depends on that woman, if he follows you without regrets, then it would be the best!

    If he leaves you, you should also understand her, people do not have pure hormones! Society is too realistic, you can't do anything without money! You like him so much, why do you want to leave her and look at him!

    You can try to find other jobs, no matter what you do, as long as you can earn money, you are not a lazy person! He can follow you! Suffer for your loved ones!

    Don't give up at every turn!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not that serious. What else can you do?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you love each other, if you deserve love, love it! Poverty is not a problem, the problem is that people don't work hard!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Should! Because even if you are a child of a poor family, we can't just look at whether a person is poor or rich, we should look at whether the person is good or not!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    True love has nothing to do with money, as long as two people are happy together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Try your best to find a job, try to earn money, and try to love her and be good to her....If she doesn't propose to break up, don't talk about breaking up, have confidence in yourself and your future! I have worked hard to be worthy of your love...Come on! Don't give up until the last minute!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are many things that money can buy.

    True love is certainly not bought with money.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not a question of whether it should be or not, if they are willing to save you money and put themselves in your shoes, it can still be considered.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I always feel that whether you fall in love or not has nothing to do with whether you are poor or not. You must already be an adult, I believe that you have the ability to earn a certain amount of wealth with your own hands, and labor will always be glorious, depending on whether you are willing or not.

    Boring question, the poor are reluctant to spend money, so they plan to spend, and it hurts to spend money when they go out with their girlfriends, and there is a saying of enjoyment.

    Rich people or people who don't care about money, spending money is enjoyment, and of course they like to fall in love.

    It depends.

    Poor men fall in love later in order to develop their careers, and if they have a career, they will have money, and the quality of falling in love will be higher at this time. Otherwise, if you get married when you are poor and white, it will be a bit worse and the burden will be heavier, if you have another child, it is really unimaginable, no one wants the child to be born and lose at the starting line, rather than let the child suffer, it is better not to give birth, otherwise it is a crime (this is serious, but it is a fact).

    On the contrary, I think it is better for poor girls to fall in love as soon as possible, otherwise it will be difficult to miss the marriageable age.

    The above is just a personal opinion, I hope it will be helpful to you. Good luck!

    Children from poor families can be bold enough to fall in love, because if you don't have anything, even courage, there is nothing to live in this world.

    The reality is so cruel, money can make ghosts grind, and it is difficult to move an inch without money!

    But this is not absolute, if the young man is capable, there are still many talented women!

    I can only say that there is nothing that can't be done, but if the two of them want to be together, they will definitely experience and encounter, more ups and downs and difficulties than ordinary lovers.

    Civil servants seem to be decent and glamorous, but they are really not suitable for children from poor families. The family has introduced a few objects, but all of them are poor because of my family. My family can really be said to be destitute and surrounded by walls.

    Everyone will fall in love when they reach a certain age, this is the so-called adolescence, it is okay for young people to talk about love, they can get a lot of emotional knowledge, and poor people can't fall in love? Says who? Everyone is qualified, as long as you don't feel guilty, the other party doesn't mind, and treats you well, that's okay?

    You also have to work hard, if you want to get married and want to have a future, then you have to work harder, if the other party's family conditions are good, she or his parents may oppose you, because in this world, this society, there are many people who are greedy for money, some hope that their daughters will marry a good man, and some hope to marry a rich man, but marrying a rich man may not be happy, happiness is not something that money can buy! So here I want to say, as long as you work hard, what are the consequences? Unimportant.

    Personality incompatibility. The eight characters do not match.

    Numerology opposition. I want to say that things about ** are not cheap, and even a stave book is several times more expensive than an ordinary book.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What I remember most about the children of poor families is that they often buy two yuan of bread to eat, and they are reluctant to eat in the cafeteria. After the school reform, students were allowed to pay money every Sunday afternoon, a total of forty-five, which is a week's meal money, and then when it came to the meal, they took the lunch box to eat. At that time, it was a huge amount of money for me, in order to save money, I discussed with another girl in the class who loves to save money, two people buy a meal ticket for one person, and one person eats half of the meal a week, that is, you have a meal and I have a next meal, and it happens to be an even number after a week.

    Thinking about that time now, I really feel sad and helpless.

    In high school, I never went to the school commissary, and I didn't like to mingle with those girls, and I was hungry for all kinds of food. Because I don't fit in, I gradually drift away from my classmates, and I don't care, anyway, I don't like their way of life. After so many years of studying, what I thought about most was not to study my studies, but to plan how to save money and live every day of school with the least living expenses.

    Every year on the eve of the Chinese New Year, it is the time when I make my mother the most angry. Because she wants to buy me good clothes and make me wear fashionable and not lose to my peers. But I don't want to be fashionable, I don't want to compare, I just want to save money and reduce the burden on my parents.

    We searched all the storefronts in the town, and then ran to the county seat, but we still couldn't buy me clothes. It's just because my mother bought me this, I don't want it, buy that, I don't want it, I've been silently picking the cheapest and good-looking clothes, but it backfired. Mom was so angry, and I was also annoyed and helpless.

    Didn't get into college. In order to save money, I gave up my three books and chose to go to a junior college. I have been living a decent life before, maybe I feel that I have grown up in college, and I want to experience the taste of love.

    Coincidentally, a tall boy in the club pursued me, although he was mediocre, but the little girl without any experience would always let him chase easily, not to mention the poor children who had never seen the world and had low self-esteem and sensitivity.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, the gap in family background will have a certain impact on the love of contemporary young people. There are several reasons for this:

    1.The concept of life and the level of consumption are different, and it is easy to produce contradictions. The party with a better family background will have a higher consumption standard and living requirements, and the other party can not meet the requirements of the rough breed, which will produce discomfort and pressure in life.

    2.There may be differences in values due to differences in family environments and educational backgrounds. This may lead to difficulties in reaching a consensus between the two in terms of outlook on life, marriage, and how to educate their children, which will affect the development of their relationship.

    3.Depending on your financial situation, it can be difficult to balance between a relationship and a marriage. The spouse with a better family background needs to bear more expenses, while the other spouse may have low self-esteem due to unbearable self-esteem, which will affect the development of the relationship.

    4.Family and friends may also have different attitudes and even opposition. Depending on the family environment, the acceptance of family members and friends on both sides may also be different, and the pressure will be transmitted to the lover through various channels, affecting the love choice and progress of the two.

    5.Different life pressures and development space will have different life plans. Depending on your family situation, you can choose and face different life paths and opportunities. This can lead to difficulties in coordinating the life planning and development needs of the two people, and it will also have an impact on the relationship.

    However, the difference in family background does not absolutely mean that the relationship will fail. It is still possible to have a good romantic relationship if both parties have an open mind, rational judgment, the ability to understand each other, and the determination to overcome difficulties. The key is whether the two have common life goals, whether they can cultivate similar values in their different family environments, and can achieve mutual understanding and tolerance in terms of economic situation.

    In order to carry out a relationship across family differences, both parties need to have a broad vision and sincere feelings.

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